Billyonaire666:
As an award winning married Alpha male of the RedPill Dynasty, I hereby state as follows;

1. You will be tired of sex. Do not be in a hurry.
2. You will be treated like a King in your home, the attention is too much.
3. Be careful with your Sister-In-Laws, especially the very beautiful ones.
4. Be very patient and if you are caught chatting with a female side chic - Deny! Deny!! Deny!!!
5. Money is a basic ingredient in the soup of romance, even if it exist, do not believe in true love without cash, you'd be sorry.
6. Always be prepared to let go, always have in mind that divorce is a reality, so fight against anything that could bring an end to marriage.
7. Be a Spiritual Juggernaut, the psychic attacks are much now, you wouldnt wanna appear weak when the witches penetrate the home.
8. You are the Chief Security Officer of your home and the Chief Planner, Take Charge and do not wait for a woman to do your job for you.
9. Understand you are the Man, do not expect a penny of your wife's money to help in running the home, if she contributes, be very thankful.

AishaYesufu:
Don't be a feminist.

Kaybae:
, your taught tho, I will never blackmail my husband, no matter what and I'm not seeking social media attention if you must know, only trying to pour out my mind, which I have done and really feel relieved about it, let's becareful how we contribute to issue that might be heating other up........ The love I have for my husband is not here, but just felt betrayed that he could do that..... So forget the fact that am shedding crocodile tears, you comment like someone who doesn't value a woman.... I'm not like ladies of today and I don't even do social media stuff, nairaland is only my place and just joined few months ago, if you must know, my husband introduce me to the platform years back so as to be reading news and doesn't want me on other social media which I'm always obeying till date, so don't just talked to people like you know them well, if you can't be positive then stay clear off. Thanks, don't mean any insult, I'm a well cultured and trained lady.

Lamanii22:
Marry who you love and find attractive..... It's not always rosy... Learn to tolerate your spouse... And to the ladies sex is always different after a baby... The dryness no be here oo.... And to the guys there are other ways to be intimate with your wife after a baby other than sex... Above all put God in your marriage...

omoharry:
To the bolded, are you for real ? In this hard times in Nigeria , can a man carry this burden almost alone without the 50/50 partnership contribution in running the home ? This can only be possible, if the husband has a very fantastic paying job or a successful business . Nigeria is not like In was 10yrs ago oo!!

Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up

Lamanii22:
Marry who you love and find attractive..... It's not always rosy... Learn to tolerate your spouse... And to the ladies sex is always different after a baby... The dryness no be here oo.... And to the guys there are other ways to be intimate with your wife after a baby other than sex... Above all put God in your marriage...

Billyonaire666:


It's very easy with family planning. All you have to do is estimate your daily consumption of food, fuel, Netflix, data, and all other utilities for your home and multiply by 31 days plus wife's monthly allowance and decide to pay off bi-annually or annually. Concentrate the funds in the wife account and be free to enjoy your life.

I do so and it saves me headaches. I do not need a woman's money, infact I pay my wife monthly allowances for her upkeep. She can save her money to buy stuff she needs or give to her family or siblings

omoharry:
To the bolded, are you for real ? In this hard times in Nigeria , can a man carry this burden almost alone without the 50/50 partnership contribution in running the home ? This can only be possible, if the husband has a very fantastic paying job or a successful business . Nigeria is not like In was 10yrs ago oo!!

Strech:
tanks honey , you just made my night.. ever since my wife gave birth to our beautiful baby girl, this is exactly 1 year 3 month, I don join vaseline crew, imagine an active young man like me not having sex for more than a year.. I bin wan send am go him papa house. . But your words really change my mindset.

AutoChick4U:
Na this kinda husband I want

Billyonaire666:


It's very easy with family planning. All you have to do is estimate your daily consumption of food, fuel, Netflix, data, and all other utilities for your home and multiply by 31 days plus wife's monthly allowance and decide to pay off bi-annually or annually. Concentrate the funds in the wife account and be free to enjoy your life.

I do so and it saves me headaches. I do not need a woman's money, infact I pay my wife monthly allowances for her upkeep. She can save her money to buy stuff she needs or give to her family or siblings

naijadrivablog:
No matter what, don't live apart from your spouse.

All this, I am working in Abuja, my wife is in Lagos or I am abroad, my wife is in Nigeria is not good for marriage.

blazepascal:
I'm an introvert I just need an introvert lady I don't want any drama

SanctifiedSista:
send the book to my email or.whatsapp pls

SanctifiedSista:


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Am not excusing the wife from being supportive but don't expect anything , if it comes God bless her

CryptoRepublic1:


I totally agree with you.

Especially for men,there's nothing in it for men.

dacblogger:
Don marry...it's just too stressful.

Or if you choose to marry ,DNT expect anything from your partner...go in there with strong mind or you will die of heartbreak.

Kaybae:
. Thanks so much, it's been hard honestly cause, because of marrying him I stop having friends because he never wanted it, despite the fact that he works in another state, I will be all alone with my kids after work and even weekend, all because I want to satisfy my husband.... It is well, he already told me he never sign agreement of only me ..... Can't believe all these after years.

Lamanii22:
Marry who you love and find attractive..... It's not always rosy... Learn to tolerate your spouse... And to the ladies sex is always different after a baby... The dryness no be here oo.... And to the guys there are other ways to be intimate with your wife after a baby other than sex... Above all put God in your marriage...

Mecka:
what if your wife dey give u beta style plus bj. Wetin u go do

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Ficient:


Asawo period wen you dey always drink na him dey worry you

abike12:
[s]Ladies, stay single until you find someone that respects you, respects women in general and understand his role as a husband in the Bible (if you're Christian). Don't ever marry a stingy man, there's no love without giving, especially with men.[/s]

SanctifiedSista:


What's the definition of your own introvert?

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

ceejay1759:
Well,I'd be honest. If you're a man or woman waiting to meet Mr right,or Miss right, please wake up from that dream,because nobody is perfect. You have to ask God to give you your own partner and then prepare the right mindset first for marital maturity because, marriage is not for kids. Marriage is for two mature adults willing to come together as partners,regardless of age,physical appearance,tribe,religion,etc to build their own world. Marriage is like a school of love, cooperation, tolerance, and understanding.You learn everday. You must make mistakes,argue,quarrel,and sometimes get provoked to fight, but what makes it beautiful is accepting your wrongs and learning to say sorry, even when you're not at fault,just to make peace. Make sure you dont involve 3rd parties in your marriage. Always resolve your conflicts privately, unless its life threatening. You should be each other's best friends, by encouraging, motivating and supporting your dreams. Its not about sex all the time cos it could be boring most times,lol, but you can spice things up by trying new things everyday and making each other look good for you the way you want him or her to be. I've been married for 6months and I've never felt the kind of peace of mind that i have now. My wife has drawn me close to God,supports me in every way she can and above all treats me like a mother. Lastly, we are expecting our first child together and the joy is amazing.. God is truly God.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them