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| I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by PENNYSWAP: 10:41pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Greetings guys .. I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas . She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle. I told her to give me small time to save up money . There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me . I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it. We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy . I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp. I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business. I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy . That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since . She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be. My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me . The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here . Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo I need advise from real niggaz 125 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by BabbanBura(m): 10:44pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Premium tears loading 660 Likes 38 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by mardis: 10:46pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
That is pure lie from the suppose fiancee, she is not worthy to be a wife. 476 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by PENNYSWAP: 10:50pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
mardis: Hey God , I’m boiling .... I trusted this girl with my life , have done 45% from the traditional list Don’t I deserve more 56 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by omotoshodontee1: 10:56pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Take a chillpill bro,she is not ur wife yet.trust me,the guy will pound her if that hasn't happened... If it is meant to be, it will surely be 290 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Emvico34: 10:57pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Na wa o. This one loud o. Guy i take God beg u, just leave her make she carry her wahala go. Her mate dey work to raise money for business, she dey fuuc.k to raise money for business. 462 Likes 24 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by budaatum: 10:57pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: So, you both agreed to yahoo the guy? I can see why you'd need "advise from real niggaz". Pity I'm disqualified. 301 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by apostle96: 10:59pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
You are just acting up unnecessarily If she places all her burden on you, you will complain Now she has an helper, u still dey complain 84 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 11:09pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:Young man better calm down ooooo. You paid 45 percent no mean anything, d only issue here is she hid stuff from you. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 11:10pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:Sometimes people come into our lives to be our divine helper 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by BarrSly: 11:14pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Just allow her to recoup all your money you spent on dowry from the nigga then dump her ass cause trust me he’s already digging her guts out till she bbuuuhhhhh 181 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
That guy is knacking her already bro. But why should you even expect true love from these females? Don't you care about your mental health sanity? 345 Likes 23 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by ibiba55(m): 11:24pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Bros!!!!! Wake up 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by muystoy(m): 11:30pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Let her go, I'm very sure that guy go don dey fvck am already, most Nigerian girls are like that,money for hand, back for ground(coded oloshos), Dem no dey worry how u take get the money 187 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by PENNYSWAP: 11:44pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
omotoshodontee1: She is bro... I have done 45% of the list at her her home town , hoping to complete the rest by year end based on how Naija levels be for man pikin pocket 32 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by PENNYSWAP: 11:48pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
budaatum: It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind . I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro... Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts 141 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by CsRockefeller(m): 11:56pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:Calm down, first, don't do anything stupid. Get the guys number and request a man to man conversation, find out everything (he will be honest with you). That will determine what you should do next. However, one thing is certain - your woman isn't honest, and that's a red flag. 289 Likes 21 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Conner44: 12:01am On Jun 26, 2021 |
there is fire on the mountain 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by efficiencie(m): 12:25am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Guy I'm sorry for saying this but you have just concluded your coronation as the Oba Mumuni 1 of Mumu land. Your so called gf will be lashed till they kingdom come by the very same yahoo boy. I will advice you to use your discovery as the excuse to get out of that relationship and seek a God-fearing woman. You sef need to be born again. Marriage is a divine thing and you cannot be carnal and expect to enjoy a divine thing...whatever demon that told you to get her pregnant and abandon her wants to ruin your life very very quickly. If you do that you will be giving her the legal right in the spirit to reduce you to a loaf of bread. Be warned. Get out of that relationship, repent and seek Jesus, seek a godly wife and be faithful to her...do this or else you will crowned Supreme Overload of the Federal Republic of Fools! 361 Likes 28 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by masterflowx(m): 4:03am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Once fvcked can't never be unfvcked. Imagine, the extremely fetish Yahoo boys fvcking someone future wife and the mumunatu still want to go ahead with the wedding. Spit!!! 183 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by richmond500: 5:01am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Omo, just dump that girl abeg, she isn't someone u could trust 27 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:04am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Men should have an abundance mindset..when u have an abundance mindset,u don't tolerate the bullshit that comes when dealing with women....in this type of case,with an abundance mindset u kick her to the street cos she belongs there and move on....the only way a woman can possibly show her loyalty is by being faithful...a guy shows loyalty by providing security,comfort,stability,being ready to defend and die for his wife....loyalty is assymetrical 178 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 6:11am On Jun 26, 2021 |
U can't trust her anymore . . Run for ur life brother. . . She's a player 45 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:20am On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: What kind of helper is this one. Something is just off about the OPs story. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 6:57am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here. 1 Like 5 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 7:01am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Ogbotobo77:Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational 27 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by PENNYSWAP: 7:08am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Ogbotobo77:WORD 36 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Ogbotobo77(m): 7:08am On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Rest lady....It's a lot to take in...it's normal for women to react with emotions when facts like this hit 'em. 101 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by godlessmind: 7:08am On Jun 26, 2021 |
I laugh in Chinese..... Dude i don't wanna say you are a fool but dude she's already cheating on you and you still wanna go ahead with the marriage!!!  Dude move on with your life35 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 7:16am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Ogbotobo77:Would it have been a problem if she collected d money from a girl? 7 Likes |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 7:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
godlessmind:Lies. There are people who give me money that I haven't seen or intend seeing. Na orientation sha. 9 Likes |
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