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My younger brother is dating a married woman.

I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.

I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.

I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.

He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!

Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

He should retrace his step cos even if he is lucky not to be caught he won't escape the repercussions from this terrible act

If you've talked to him severely but he still persists, start saving money for his coffin... Cause he may soon die young.

There is no African spiritual repercussions for cheating. So called African "repercussions" is just to instill fear on potential cheaters and also to put society in order.. Your village king and chiefs cheats how come no repercussions for them in the african traditional way

In the real world, cheating is immoral and break trust, the repercussions for cheating with a married woman is getting attacked by a jealous husband or getting STIs and STDs, unwanted pregnancy and divorce.


Advice: You can't stop a man that is in "love" with a married woman, you can only wait for the husband to come at your door with cutlass and police, maybe he will learn, honor killing is real, just tell him that.

Nothing u say is going to make him stop.
U shld mind ur own business or he'll see u as an enemy in the long run

Ok

He is digging his own grave, so let just wait and see how he lies in it

Dear OP please kindly remember to update us when kasala don finally burst too o

DDDEnterprises:
If you've talked to him severely but he still persists, start saving money for his coffin... Cause he may soon die young.

e no go reach this leve by GODs grace

bahd guy... op face your business

DDDEnterprises:
If you've talked to him severely but he still persists, start saving money for his coffin... Cause he may soon die young.

In short 'op !!! Black and white casket dey o , big , medium and small size , any type s you need .... Just let me know .... The child that people are giving advice but he/she is shrugging his/her shoulder , is ready to die ni o

gentlestdude:
bahd guy... op face your business

His brother is his business!

mariahAngel:
His brother is his business!

not in this context

gentlestdude:
bahd guy... op face your business

He is my business sir. Can't watch him bring destruction upon himself. even if he fails to take my advice, I'll keep pushing till I exhaust all my options.

Inform them.and ur mum should aslo go and warn the whorish woman.to stay away from her son.

Proverb 6:26-33...read It to dat ur brother.

Igbankpa:
He is my business sir. Can't watch him bring destruction upon himself. even if he fails to take my advice, I'll keep pushing till I exhaust all my options.

Sixteen years age gap!

Your brother is just a toyboy to the woman

If they are not caught, nothing will happen to him just advise him to stop. The only downside to it is that he won't be serious about starting a relationship that will lead to marriage for the main time.

DDDEnterprises:
If you've talked to him severely but he still persists, start saving money for his coffin... Cause he may soon die young.

The bolded

Your brother is actually providing a service to humanity cos that woman needs regular servicing and he's there to do it.

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.
I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.



I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.
I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.
He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!


Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

@bolded

I think you should try to create a considerably gap between you and ur brother, this will serve as safety measure on the day ur brother will be butchered, so that blood stains won't be too much on you.

Ur bro is a national disgrace..



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thebosstrevor1:
There is no African spiritual repercussions for cheating. So called African "repercussions" is just to instill fear on potential cheaters and also to put society in order.. Your village king and chiefs cheats how come no repercussions for them in the african traditional way

In the real world, cheating is immoral and break trust, the repercussions for cheating is getting attacked by a jealous husband or getting STIs and STDs, unwanted pregnancy and divorce.


Advice: You can't stop a man that is in "love" with a married woman, you can only wait for the husband to come at your door with cutlass and police, maybe he will learn, honor killing is real, just tell him that.

Hope u know what's call magun for Yoruba, na wetin kill my nigga be that oo, they place magun ontop his gf, na earlier this month this stuff happen weh nigga weh dey healthy sleep no wake up again when they find out say na magun weh dey place on top the girl she dey yansh kill am

Can you give me the woman's number or address??

When his future wife cheats with a single guy, he shouldn't complain. It's called karma.

Fiscus105:
@bolded

I think you should try to create a considerably gap between you and ur brother, this will help you the day ur brother will be butcher, so that blood stains won't be too much on you.

It's impossible to satisfy human beings.

If the woman decides to use cucumber you people will still complain, now she's using the best alternative since her husband is not available you're still complaining!

...


No be only woman be hoe...


Your brother is not just a hoe but a cutlass and a rake and a shovel too...


He is a lazy boy who is digging gold where he didn't sow...


The woman's husband is an asshole for dropping his wife in Africa and going to another continent he is probably having his own fun there too...

Most married women are emotionally and sexually neglected. That's why an affair with one is very rewarding. No 24 year-old will give your brother the peace and bliss he is getting from that 40 year-old.

Do not be fooled,
Having shagged at least 18 married women, 24 widows, 39 divorcees and 7 babymamas, I can authoritatively confirm to you that there is no repercussion for shagging a married woman asides physical harm from an aggrieved husband because my health and wealth hasn't known a better yesterday and the husbands of these women even began progressing in leaps after my dipstick entered their wives' sump.

That myth is a tactics based on fear to manipulate a wife's freewill to share kpekus, confining her to an involuntary bondage of chastity.
It also aims to scare cowardly men away from them.

When they noticed that most adulterous women will rather have their husbands dead and out of their cheating way, they changed the myth to say it doesn't only kill a husband, but also kills the children of the woman and her lover.

But most women now know it's all talk and that's why we have more promiscuous married women than men today.

Do not stand in the way of his happiness. Let your brother be and respect him for trusting you enough to confide in you.
Neither should you betray that trust by letting your mom in on it. If you must advice him, just advise him to be cautious.

"This life no get part 2".

Yxwqq:
When his future wife cheats with a single guy, he shouldn't complain. It's called karma.

Karma does not exist. @OP, collect the said woman's number and warn her to stay fvck away from your brother. Otherwise, threaten her with blackmail. If you care so much about breaching of trust, do it anonymously.

Igbankpa:
My younger brother is dating a married woman.
I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.

He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.



I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.
I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.
He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!


Let me also add that he is just 24 and she is 40

Start looking for a land that he will be buried ,he can die anytime


You can Bleep all the woman in the world but not married women

at this stage only shock or fear can free him.,..so find an opportunity to tail him to their rendezvous without him seeing, you then take pictures of the duo ogether as they go into the room and as they strot hand in hand then contact him anonymously send him the pics and let him know that if it continues he will be dealt with by the woman's inlaws.

investments.

Some people dey try. To fornicate sef dey scare me as a result of my Christian creed and the associated physical and spiritual risk attached to it not to talk of sleeping with a married woman. Tell your parents if they can rein in your brother. And continue praying for him.

Themainboy22:
Karma does not exist

Apparently, you're its gatekeeper. Who knew?