Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Ladies And Their Myopic Reasoning Sometimes..The Guy Approached You But You Turned Him Down.
He Wooed Your Friend And She Accepted Him.
Your Analog Mind Should Tell You That Guys No Dey Chase Women For Long Again..If You Keep Us Waiting For Too Long,we Moveeeee!! .
Sorry For Your Pain, But I Like Your Bestie Sha..She No Even Waste Time..

I agree with you sis.

But be happy for her and hold no grudges.

If brothers can do it, why can’t our sisters do same.

You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".

I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.

rubbish talk from a shallow mind...
let me ask u...when u need Cash n visit banks atm, if first bank no gre pay, u go return back home n try d next day or u go switch to gtb or oda bank??
its only betrayal wen u agreed to him n ur friend still went ahead to join the relationship as side bea.

Selfishness and pettiness dey worry u. Food u don't like, u expect someone else not to eat cus u a be friends haba friendy. Ur loss her gain. All na for gbola

Dey there dey do shakara your friend know there's no time.

So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Your myopic

Yes you're selfish and a very bitter friend. I wouldn't want to keep friends like you either, as you may seize a chance to dish off what you don't want because giving it to me might be of great help to me especially if it makes me more attractive. I know girls like you and I avoid them like plague.

Your kind are purely vile and egocentric and should be avoided at all cost.

The guy wooed you, you rejected him. Then he wooed your friend and she accepted. For me, if I was you(even though that's impossible because this heart of mine gat so much honey), I will be sure to tell her to be careful and be sure he cares for her and if she says she's sure, then I will support her wholeheartedly. I'm sure if tomorrow the dude puts a ring on her you will come here wailing that your friend stole your husband - to-be.

Apologize to her and be good. There are many fishes uncaught still swimming around.

LadyRosa:
Yes you're selfish

my sister like cc pinkye

ThEGodFaThEr103:
You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".

No be say man dey scarce for market. Man no dey scarce AT ALL. Na money dey scarce for man hand. The thing be say she don see her kind of man, and she quick grab am before the food cold.

Stevebamdex:
Ladies And Their Myopic Reasoning Sometimes..The Guy Approached You But You Turned Him Down.
He Wooed Your Friend And She Accepted Him.
Your Analog Mind Should Tell You That Guys No Dey Chase Women For Long Again..If You Keep Us Waiting For Too Long,we Moveeeee!! .
Sorry For Your Pain, But I Like Your Bestie Sha..She No Even Waste Time..

And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

ThEGodFaThEr103:
You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".

I term her decision as Snakelike,you don't go behind a friend's back to date a guy who once wanted something with her

Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persistent in chasing a woman. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

You're a real nigga

Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persistent in chasing a woman. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

But they weren't friends so it is understandable

LadyRosa:
Yes you're selfish and a very bitter friend. I wouldn't want to keep friends like you either, as you may seize a chance to dish off what you don't want because giving it to me might be of great help to me especially if it makes me more attractive. I know girls like you and I avoid them like plague.

Your kind are purely vile and egocentric and should be avoided at all cost.

The guy wooed you, you rejected him. Then he wooed your friend and she accepted. For me, if I was you(even though that's impossible because this heart of mine gat so much honey), I will be sure to tell her to be careful and be sure he cares for her and if she says she's sure, then I will support her wholeheartedly. I'm sure if tomorrow the dude puts a ring on her you will come here wailing that your friend stole your husband - to-be.

Apologize to her and be good. There are many fishes uncatched still swimming around.

Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

Rozcol:
Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

Wow! MY Bad.
Since she didn't say anything positive about him then I advice you stay away from her. But, you're not supposed to confront her, I think that's childish. Again, you should have a mind of your own in decision making as not all advice must be taken into consideration.

When a friend tells you a guy is bad, the onus is on you to do a background check to see if truly the person is bad. I have come to understand that sometimes extraordinary folks are painted black and that is the more reason I hardly go with the flow. I'm always interested in people, many people rejected because I would want to unrevel the mystery surrounding them to see what others claim they saw. In several of my findings, I understand it's just human error and envy. It's Normal to throw stones on trees with ripe fruits. And Envy and backbiting has its headquarters in Nigeria.

Don't be too close to her, but let it slide. MOST importantly Do not reveal your paroles to her.

LadyRosa:



Wow! MY Bad.
Since she didn't say anything positive about him then I advice you stay away from her. But, you're not supposed to confront her, I think that's childish. Again, you should have a mind of your own in decision making as not all advice must be taken into consideration.

When a friend tells you a guy is bad, the onions is on you to do a background check to see if truly the person is bad. I have come to understand that sometimes extraordinary folks are painted black and that'd the more reason I hardly go with the flow. I'm always interested in people, many people rejected because I would want to unrevel the mystery surrounding them to see what others claim they saw.

Don't be too close to her, but let it slide. MOST importantly Do not reveal your paroles to her.

Thank you

Rozcol:
Thank you

Pretend as if you're not hurt too. Even when you start talking, DO NOT contribute in any verbal discussion about her relationship with her or anyone else. Once it comes up, keep quiet as it's none of your business.

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

Never Read Where You Said You Were In A Relationship Or Married To That Guy, Or Did I Miss That Line??

I think she saw what u couldnt see.
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Please don't blame her. Move on.
She has the right to be loved. Who knows maybe she had been hoping to meet a guy who will even show interest in her...unlike you who have the luxury of turning different men down.
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Many times men don't approach ladies with the intent of love, but over time, love and feelings may grow if they become compatible.
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I have fallen for gals who I initially only wanted to fvck, but I was glued when I got to know their personality. So it's possible the guy may fall for her later on.
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Fine, you are hurt....but she has the right to be happy, at least the guy wasn't yours and she dint snatch him from you.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Hahahaha. What a drama!

Stupid talk.

OP has lost the game.

Telstar:
OP has lost the game.

There's no game here I'm talking about the snakelike attitude and betrayal, this is someone she never said anything good about.

Rozcol:
There's no game here I'm talking about the snakelike attitude and betrayal, this is someone she never said anything good about.

That's how it is. You can still get another cool guy.

Telstar:
That's how it is. You can still get another cool guy.

Its not about getting a guy here,don't you get it?