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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:I hear you brah. Werey dey disguise. You're a man. |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by RPG2020(m): 2:43pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol: You don't want to eat let your friend eat after all there is love in sharing |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by qtguru(m): 2:44pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
McOluOmo: Baba dey emotional, if na me, I'll be like guy you dey mad o, I send you go investigation but nice one mehn. I no dey form ownership over babes. As long as she's not my gf wetin concern me besides your friend is immature he even snitched on you, I would never do such. 1 Like |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by rita25(f): 2:48pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
SOUNDS LIKE REGRET TO ME |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Plut01: 2:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
qtguru:. At the bolded. Check her replies on the first page, you will see it there where she said the friend never talked anything good about him. And yes, We men are not emotional like these ladies but I see a pattern here and it is hypocritical of Nairalnders to castigate her for feeling bad about it. My reason being a thread on Nairaland last month, where a guy was badly wounded for having and affair with his friend girlfriend. The point of discussion on that thread wasn't about sleeping with the lady but rather the act of betrayal (even if the case here is not up to that) between them. I do not know if I can still get the thread. That being said, many people would feel offended by that. The OP immature? Yes, she is obviously. I'm not talking about her reaction here. I'm concern about her action turning down a man she secretly wish to have. . |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by cedricksly: 2:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:you are no just selfish, you are self-centred, what gave you the Mindset that because you didn't date him your friend has no such right to date him?? Why is it such a big deal to you I even think say na better thing this one wan talk, didn't know it was this rubbish.... Ur friend has the right to date anybody she likes, even if na ur papa, provided the person is single.... |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by stupidmod3: 2:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
lexy2014:lol |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by kings11ng(m): 2:49pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol: |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by justifyme(m): 2:50pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Please oh Aunty when fidelity ATM machine refuses to dispense cash, what do you do You go to zenith,access UBA. Etc!!! So why are u now complaining |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by solofresh(m): 2:50pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
I know where your problem lies Firstly, you are annoyed because she talks bad about him and she behaved as if she is not interested in him just like you.So, she later started dating him without your awareness, isn't? If that's the case then you both are hypocrites because, she started dating him without gusting you and as for you You actually love the guy but you want him to keep chasing you don't want to appear cheap before you finally accept him. You are pained because your tight friend have him now instead of you. You shot yourself in the foot because those moments you are condemning the guy, she is definitely laughing at your back. This should serve as a lesson to you.Stop pretending when you love a guy.Reduce your pride 1 Like |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by holybabayo(m): 2:53pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
I think I understand the OP position. Let's first of all listen to her before we judge o. On the surface, you will think she is bitter and jealous. But on the careful look, you will see she was betrayed. She opened up on the guy to her friend. They both jointly concluded that the guy was not good enough. So she cut things of. To her surprise, her friend is now with the guy. I think you should rejoice OP. Two very useless people just left your life. Your friend owe it to you to have at least discuss this with you. But no, she was secretly pushing you out of the picture. The stupid guy must have been after the both of you. The only place I will have a problem with the OP is if she likes the guy but decided not to date him because of what her friend said. It means the OP is still immature and indecisive. Something her friend definitely has. That is a sign of adulthood. |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by zelnababa(m): 2:55pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
just move on, that means you love d guy you re just playing hard to get, you rejected something and your friend grab it, so what is big deal? |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by solofresh(m): 2:55pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
LadyRosa:But the thing is the lady actually likes the guy but she wants him to chase her to her satisfaction before she accepts him but unfortunately for her, things did not work that way |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Keniwit(m): 2:56pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Some guys no get time to stress to them seff,if u are a fn gal giving attitude ,he will find a normal looking ass gal and live his life.... |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by qtguru(m): 2:56pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Plut01: Because the Friend bad-mouthed him doesn't mean the guy couldn't have changed her mindset about him, There's nothing Hypocritical about that, I will equally cut off a friend sleeping with my GF than a chic I had no interest in in the first place. I don't see any Betrayal here, maybe If i were a lady I'd get what the OP's gripe is. 1 Like |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Ategberoson(m): 2:57pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
that your friend should distance herself from you and not the other way round, I'm sure you're engage with someone when the guy woo you, shouldn't you be happy for your friend that she found love too or is she not single before the guy asked her out? which kind foolish friendship una dey do self? |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by ike95: 2:57pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol: |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Plut01: 3:00pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
solofresh:. Here it is at the bolded. Simply put! . |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Holaomoakin(m): 3:00pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Ok, should we now help you beg your friend to leave the lucky man? |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by teemy(m): 3:01pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol: did she speak badly about the person? |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Gbeng30(m): 3:01pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
You better go and pray very well, it's seems your village people are still pursuing you.. Don't be selfish if you don't want him let the person who want him have him.... That stupid mentality of my friends should not date my ex or my toaster should be erase... |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by mariahAngel(f): 3:01pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Munzy14: Ogologo ihe a I dege, akwa I ma na onye ahu wu Zzor? |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Gbeng30(m): 3:01pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Gbeng30: |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Joetttimua1811(m): 3:02pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by BarrElChapo(m): 3:03pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Boring, my very close friend once asked a girl out she just like you she wasn't interested but then her very sweet friend was waiting in the wings to be loved. he sought my opinion and i told him to go for it but he should tell the new girl of what happened, today they are in a happy relationship. what you should bear in mind is you might not be as important to that friend as you seem in your head. people will come and go as you have done but life will continue Rozcol: |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Plut01: 3:04pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
qtguru:. My reason for using the word hypocritical is because the same Nairalnders who were telling the then OP to deal mercilessly with the friend are also here telling the op she is a witch. https://www.nairaland.com/4429123/close-friend-betrayed-me-should Check men replies on that thread. That's a thread....I'm still trying to check on the thread I was talking about. . |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by like1: 3:04pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
doyinisaac: No I think it's more or less same feeling. We are humans, imagine you have a pally pally, you have been telling him how you are in love with a girl and want her badly, but sadly for you the girl didn't agree to your advances and you let that slide, but then you now get to know that this your pally pally is now dating this same girl you have been wanting and discussing with him that rejected you. So you are telling me that everything and your friendship will still be the same with your Pally from your end. Imagine hanging out with your Pally and he has to come along with his girlfriend who rejected your advances. Omo tell yourself the truth oo. Even if you are so mature and god-like, you will still have 1 or 2 reservations about your Pally after that. |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by David160(m): 3:05pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:you're an idiot |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by eastgates1: 3:05pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Madam shut up. Betrayal kee you there! You like something you still dey do shakara. Na women like you go go social media say them snatch your husband wey you no gree for. See your mouth. |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by shawante(m): 3:11pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
LadyRosa:She didn't say anything positive doesn't mean she said anything negative.. Stop jumping to conclusions |
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Plut01: 3:11pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
BarrElChapo:. Sadly, this is what the OP failed to understand from the onset. Probably why she trusted the friend. With this, she should be able to know that she is not as important to the friend as she thought and stop trusting who doesn't deserve trust. Life goes on obviously End of discussion. . |
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