Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Well the issue is far from finished, you dey do gra Gra na Im make her dey hide her phone, you need not raise alarm if you plan to hunt an antelop. Any sound e don run go far

Meanwhile stop any form of domestic violence

Na wa oo

Just ordinary girlfriend?
let me burst your brain
i know a married woman in my streek with 4 kids being bleeped by one guy like that..and the husband is a good father and provider..but he does nt knw he is being cheated on...
btw u shuld nt av lay ur hand on her...its fucking wrong

Why u go beat her . Na ur pikin … don’t ever touch a woman wey no slap u or beat u . How una dey get mind beat woman dey burst my head .

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

....... Oga leave her phone alone..... No go carry hypertension over woman wen u never marry...... U said it yourself she has been with you when you had nothing and now you wanna consider chasing her away because of phone that she locks? What are you looking for in her phone oga...... Woman Don suffer with you, now u wanna chase her away because of phone wen she dey lock? Bros talk say u don see woman wen u like and u dey find cheap excuse to chase the poor girl away..... When u broke and jobless u no check her phone..... Now wen u don dey see money, na now u Wan check her phone unto FBI agent wen u be or MTN customer care officer..... Chase that girl away and see what karma will bring you way! Phone checker....... I just read your comments again and I am ashamed that you call yourself a man..... U even dey beat her self.... Who knows if that's the reason she cheats on you..... I dey sure say if you see your mates for outside you no go fit fight...... Dey beat the poor girl like say she be your slave.... It's this your nosy and aggressive attitude that's making her behave this way to you...... U should be jailed for domestic violence..... U never marry am u don dey beat her so tey your hand dey bend.... If u marry her.... Ur life go bend join am wen u go take dey beat am..... U kept her house, sleeping with her almost every day and u dey beat her join because her folks can't support her in school..... Oga shame on you... How I wish I see u, I for deck you wella..... Phone checker.... Woman beater.... U don't deserve a faithful woman....... Keep beating people's kids... One day she go die for your hand and na that time the devil wen dey use u go open your eye to reality..... If u are tired of her... Compensate her for sleeping with her for 6 years and let her go her way....... U no be man.... She's dating a fellow woman!

Opexzy:
Never hit a woman you call your wife or wife to be, for what? That's a shameful thing to do. You even said it as if she's your junior sister or something, no remorse, no shame. You are an irresponsible man. Please stop that act immediately.

Back to the main matter. If your engaged babe locks her phone and she refuses to unlock it for you for any reason known to her, its a bad sign... Do the needful and dump her immediately.

I don't like nonsense.

.....what if it's this his stupid attitude that brought out that part of her....... She's probably with him because he's still training her in school...... She will dump his woman beater ass when she's done with school..... The girl's reactions now may be a result of the guy's irresponsible actions!

donbachi:
No allow ur sympathy for her today,destroy u tomorrow. Since she no wan consider her family background,give u her all and get both degree and marriage certificates.let her go, cos she will cheat ur destiny out of u.

Naso my bro babe lock phone due to regular change of pin.she forget her pin.na park she pack the phone.

..... So it didn't occur to u that this guy's habit of beating women may be the reason the girl changed? No woman likes a woman beater..... If he must send her away... He MUST compensate her for all the 6 years he's slept with her.... Starting from when he disflowered her......... If na olosho house e dey go for 6 years, he know how much he go Don spend!

you too lock your own and put it under your pillow abi? in summary get another gf asap the one you have has been compromised make room for plan B and may i ask why the hell are you beating her is she your slave abi are you okay someone that's just a girl friend and someone's child you are treating her like she is your property or a dog mister you are not okay in fact if i was the girl id gladly cheat on you sef with a more caring man

Stupidquestions:
Point of correction...you dint suffer together, stop deceiving ur brain that u did....
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Cos has she ever fed you for a month or few months?.....I'm not talking of transport fare or one day food u got from her...cos many of ur friends could have done that
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Has she ever paid your house rent for six month or one year when you had no where to go?...so which suffer did she suffer for u....
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.. Someone u feed, give money, sponsor at schl..lol...u get sense so? How did she suffer for u..abi na u dey suffer alone while she uses u as her support system......at least without u, she would have even suffered more...guys can fool themselves Sha...
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Maybe u want to say she gave u pvssy when u were suffering and u quickly equate it to mean she suffered for fvcking a suffering guy...lol.
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May God one day return ur sense...u suffer together kor..ozuor

...... I dey short of words to describe this nonsense wen u write..... She doesn't need to give him money or food to have suffered with him.... Suffering with him all those yearz simply means she prayed for him..... Encouraged him.... Even when she had a reason to leave, she stayed...... When he couldn't afford a decent meal for her.... She didn't behave like other girls and leave.... She stayed... That's what you call enduring with a man........

VlamesIffect:
Oh boy.

If e dey your mind to help her then do...but not because of all those we suffered together or i deflowered her crap.

Obviously she is see someone else don't let your weak heart deceive you.

Get yourself another girl... moreover she's still in her phase let her be.

Dem no dey force relationship.

Separate your emotions from your brain.

.... So u don't think she's misbehaving because he beats her so tey him hand come bend? Na WA o

Xilsbridalhouse:

Are you serious Like are you really really serious? You lay your filthy hands on a lady and still posted it here like it is a norm?

Who raised these boys

You need to be arrested and good you have your profile pic glaring for all to see. What sort of rubbish is that? That lady should get you arrested for your beast like attitude and you expect her to remain loyal to you? You think she is foolish? Who wants to marry a woman beater ?


Please free that lady!


Bitter truth is, she is only with you for the money and once she’s done with school...you are so not having her! She’d run!!!

Next time be a gentleman.

..... Nice write up.... God bless u...... One keg of fresh palm wine for u

budaatum:
Regarding this phone thing, I'm wondering if you lot never kept a diary. I did, but my primary carer was very nosy so it was written in code. Aeiou was 12345 and the letters between were to powers. No way any damn fuqer was reading my diaries!

If we are married and hence had regard and respect for one another I would leave my diary by our bedside and trust that you would not ever touch it not to talk of open and read it! And if we actually really loved each other, I would write in my diary and read it out to you every night before you go to sleep.

Same with phones. It's why we all got passwords. So nosy parkers don't know our business, but I guess I would not ever marry one who bends his hands to beat me.

Let this be a lesson to girls, and women, to raise the education of men because, we grow them, the quality of the tit we stick in the squiggly brats mouth makes it the man it becomes but sour milk breeds pigs.

I might post my diary code if I could recall it. I think I got to a point when even I couldn't decipher what I'd wrote, lol.

You're so mad; me too I write in diary but I don't use codes except in some cases when I used codes like you do.

Beating another person's wife? Chai, So some guys still beat women? God please guide me.


Please stop beating her

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Na ya phone?
You marry her?
Nonsense and ingredients!

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Stop beating her, stop! She's not an animal that you will control with cane.

The fact is she loves you, but it's possible she met someone who treated her with respect when were away for your NYSC, and now she's still struggling to decide whether to leave your violent soul. I am saying this cause I am sure you have beaten her even before your NYSC.

She's not a goat stop beating her!
Well you can continue, let's see her die in your hands someday

From solid experience; Putting the phone under the pillow while asleep is for two reasons:
1) To make sure you don't check the phone while she's asleep, since you must lift her head up to take the phone thereby waking her..

2) She also doesn't want to turn off the phone so that the other guy (Pls Note that I'm not saying there, "maybe" another guy , I'm saying there "is"/ "are" other guy/s) won't querry her as to why the phone was off. If the phone was on but placed on "silent", she can easily claim that she slept off when the other guys calls came. ..

Meanwhile, you that's with her wouldn't know a call came in cause it was under the pillow!
Chai!
We have lost the battle..
These gals have gone rogue....

Run!
That gal is sharing your thing around the community the same way Cubana Chief Priest shares cows...

I don beat her tire my hand don bend





And u.think this is the best solution for u to take on her issues abii, CONTINUED.

I stop reading your essay after seeing "I don beat her tire and my hand is tiring"
Guy you no even marry her and you don beat her enough?
If she even marry u now nah kill you go kill her or she get tired and fired back and the headlines will be "wife accuse of cheating kill her husband after the hubby caught her with a man".
6 years and still counting all u do is engage her to keep her stranded in you and you will look somewhere.
Tell us in 6years, you never Bleep another girl?
In 6yrs you never keep side chick?
She don realize after all the beating that there is a gentleman somewhere and she is giving them the time while her heart still with her tormentor.

No kill person daughter o o o. nah beg i take God beg you.

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

You are highly irresponsible for beating someone’s child. A woman for that matter,it is just painful that the girl is still with you... pathetic ass!

and so what concerned you trouble maker ?7

6 years u never marry am, and you don't think she will have other options

u say she is ur gfrd!she is probably so to many other guys too!she has every right to her privacy!!

wiloy2k8:
Why u go beat her . Na ur pikin … don’t ever touch a woman wey no slap u or beat u . How una dey get mind beat woman dey burst my head .

are u a feminist sympathizer, a simp or a woman wrapper

This man!

You're only one 'hit' away from jail.

1. You're cohabiting with a girl. That's a potential setup. What if anything goes wrong?

2. You're hitting a girl that you're cohabiting (domestic violence). What if your next punch maims or kills her?

Please, get some sense and do the needful. Either marry her legally or rent her own place separate (since you're 'responsible for her').

And stop hitting her! Haba!

Na make thief no steal am

My guy make I tell you something every woman has something she's hiding I will advice if you want to stay long on earth stop going through her phone and make more money and see how humble they become it is in there DNA women fear them and stop beating a woman a bad character be that o..

Stupidquestions:
Point of correction...you dint suffer together, stop deceiving ur brain that u did....
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Cos has she ever fed you for a month or few months?.....I'm not talking of transport fare or one day food u got from her...cos many of ur friends could have done that
.
Has she ever paid your house rent for six month or one year when you had no where to go?...so which suffer did she suffer for u....
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.. Someone u feed, give money, sponsor at schl..lol...u get sense so? How did she suffer for u..abi na u dey suffer alone while she uses u as her support system......at least without u, she would have even suffered more...guys can fool themselves Sha...
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Maybe u want to say she gave u pvssy when u were suffering and u quickly equate it to mean she suffered for fvcking a suffering guy...lol.
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May God one day return ur sense...u suffer together kor..ozuor

Don't hit her again

If you have talked to her severally n she refuse to change.. stop bringing up such topic to her

Learn to start ignoring her.... By taking ur hands off her

Let go the idea of accessing her phone, what u are looking for in her phone may possible depressed u n worst the information will remain in ur mind long after u guys are married or possible break up... So forget about her phone


Invest more in ur self, love yourself the more...


You engage her last year.. the engagement has over last..

Use ur head.... Bro

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Your only phuck up be say you hits her, Baba don't ever try that again...you don't have any right to do so.

I stopped reading at "I don beat her tire" you sir are a weak and shameless human being. I pray she leaves you sooner rather than later, For someone who's Educated you sure are Dumb.

Xilsbridalhouse:

Are you serious Like are you really really serious? You lay your filthy hands on a lady and still posted it here like it is a norm?

Who raised these boys

You need to be arrested and good you have your profile pic glaring for all to see. What sort of rubbish is that? That lady should get you arrested for your beast like attitude and you expect her to remain loyal to you? You think she is foolish? Who wants to marry a woman beater ?


Please free that lady!


Bitter truth is, she is only with you for the money and once she’s done with school...you are so not having her! She’d run!!!

Next time be a gentleman.

Go arrest am. Mumu. Give your damn comments and go. Them go dey claim woke but their boyfriend/ husband dey take them learn taekwondo.

When you said the family doesn't believe in education but Business..i coded the tribe that are ungrateful.