passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

iamadonis22:


Let everyone turn a blind eye and make peace with his imminent death.

Make nobody send am and y’all make it obvious... e go learn. He’s acting this way because he feels there’s a loving family waiting to bail him out of any mess

ChiefSosa:
He's Over pampered!

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

edoman2016:

How is your dad punishing your brother for the bad behaviour? Your family should not take it easy with him before he destroy your family name.

paulolee:
he needs serious counselling n a strong hand

passionguy:

My dad is late since 2015
Before then my dad wasn't in the country for more than 5years. My brothers sisters during those periods are all in school even me
He was the only one with our mum

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

ChiefSosa:
He's Over pampered!

kereman1:


I've seen something similar. A neighbor of mine did this to his single mum. He sold all the valuable properties in the house.
He extorted his mum, asked for he to settle him of 500k for him to start up a business, money he ended up squandering with is irresponsible friends.
The one he did that cracked the camel's back was when he locked up his mum with his younger siblings indoor for 3days for not giving him 700k to process visa.

Boys gather this boy, beat am like thief, it was letter discovered that he was been influence by his cult members because he was newly recruited.

Check well ur brother might be a cultist, or there is something else that propels him, maybe a girl.

Ur brother need beating from snr men, less he gets outta control.

My neighbor was also 24 when, he exhibited that character.

INCREDIBLE007:


you are spot on


the guy needs some time in bars

to cool off

Mercychen:
Prayers. Your mum should pray for him.
Then for practical solutions, send him out of that area. Prolly to a family member that is very strict and tough to handle him well. I'm sure you have someone like that in your family.

Why did you have to wait this long to seek solution though? It be would have been much easier to correct him when he was younger.

MARKone:
Back then, a man I know had a son about the same age as your brother, the son gave him a lot of heart ache, he son steals, a drug addict, spend most of his time in brothels, was an all round bad boy, he gave the man a hell of a problem, and made him a public ridicule. In all this, each time the son is arrested by police, the man goes to pay money to kill the case and bail him out, the man developed grey hairs and was always looking frail. One day, news got to the man that his son have been arrested by SARS for Armed robbery, that he should come to the station, he went the next day, where he was briefed on what happened, then there were more repeated visits to the station, some back and forth. Police was like, he should bring money, so that they'll see how the case would be sorted out, that the longer he stays there, they more likely he would be taken outside in the night and shot. Baba go home, gave it a thought, called the policemen and told them to do whatever they want to do, and never went back to the station. Some months later, news reached the man that they've killed his son...
I'm not saying that's what you guys should do o , just that some family have a thin threshold of endurance for a Black sheep of the family.

passionguy:

He can't be handled by anyone again I swear.
We have try every best both mom and siblings, he has choose to be useless.

Mercychen:


Don't give up on him completely yet. There's nothing prayers cannot do. Just keep praying for him.

passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.him Dey take ojaaaaa?
Pls Advice me on what to do.

kingthreat:
Sad the thing is that even if he goes to prison, he will come out worse.

passionguy:

That's my fear

kingthreat:


Can all your family members unite and help his soul. If he doesn't want to go to school, gather money for him to travel to a country like Turkey to hustle. Or gather money for him to get a shop selling something. After that, he's on his own.

passionguy:

Who are the family
Is it not I and my other siblings and mum
And to be sincere he can't make good of money. He doesn't have clothes shoes or slippers

passionguy:

Who are the family
Is it not I and my other siblings and mum
And to be sincere he can't make good of money. He doesn't have clothes shoes or slippers