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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by eddie1211(m): 8:08pm On Sep 02, 2021
Bro/sis, there's nothing God cannot do, his case is not even worse than mine, but am now a testimony, I lavish Money, stole, lie, do allot of bad things that me self come tire I couldn't stop it I continued for long my mom has paid a Dept of almost two million naira in less than two months not the on she has been paying oh I even scammed allot of people, I have been arrested allot of times but she bailed me again and again still I didn't change I have been beaten allot of times by soldiers, police but nothing I continued doing it for good 9 years everyone in my family gave up on me but my mom continue paying dept but the day I encounter God that's the day I change my sister make una do something about your brother quickly it might be a Fair play for you but times going for him many times it's not his fault, I can even tell he has been doing it since he was young many times it's a spiritual problem that you guys didn't pay attention to pray for him take him to fire praying church, am not a member of mountain of fire but that's were I got my deliverance, your brother can change it's just being used to destroy the name of your family and end it. And give him advise every single moment, keep his hands busy, teach him how to pray and fast, he will change

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 03, 2021
kingthreat:


If he lacks these simple items, sorry crime may be his solution out of poverty.
My mum is trying for him
His the last born
He get most important things he wants
He was sent to school
He withdrew
All he does is gambling

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 03, 2021
Daniiel:

Pay money to police to make sure he rottens in prison ... Cos I Know more 2 familes that the children caused the death of the parents .... One sef d two sons wer shot dead by police.
As a mother my mother will not take it
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 03, 2021
eddie1211:
Bro/sis, there's nothing God cannot do, his case is not even worse than mine, but am now a testimony, I lavish Money, stole, lie, do allot of bad things that me self come tire I couldn't stop it I continued for long my mom has paid a Dept of almost two million naira in less than two months not the on she has been paying oh I even scammed allot of people, I have been arrested allot of times but she bailed me again and again still I didn't change I have been beaten allot of times by soldiers, police but nothing I continued doing it for good 9 years everyone in my family gave up on me but my mom continue paying dept but the day I encounter God that's the day I change my sister make una do something about your brother quickly it might be a Fair play for you but times going for him many times it's not his fault, I can even tell he has been doing it since he was young many times it's a spiritual problem that you guys didn't pay attention to pray for him take him to fire praying church, am not a member of mountain of fire but that's were I got my deliverance, your brother can change it's just being used to destroy the name of your family and end it. And give him advise every single moment, keep his hands busy, teach him how to pray and fast, he will change
Thanks a lot���
Really appreciate you
May Almighty God continue to be with you.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Daniiel: 1:17pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:

As a mother my mother will not take it

If she can't do it ... Make una dey endure but remember e get wetin e go commit wey dem go pack all of una for cell if dem no see m.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Born2winnx: 4:00pm On Sep 03, 2021
Mercychen:


Don't give up on him completely yet. There's nothing prayers cannot do. Just keep praying for him.

prayer can't do anything stop disgracing yourself

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by superCleanworks(m): 4:35pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:

Who are the family
Is it not I and my other siblings and mum
And to be sincere he can't make good of money. He doesn't have clothes shoes or slippers


I can feel your low energy from here. This matter has drained your energy. Sometimes your mother even sits down and forgets herself because of this. True?

Your brother is very close to crossing the line of no return where his negative energy will completely cover his face and he will not even like to see any of you guys again or hear his name from your mouth. This has already started happening right? If he crosses that line, your family will be in more danger than he has already put you guys.

Have you seen a wild bull before? It is time to hold this very bull by the horns before it goes wild.

It will take a little effort, time, patience and above all, courage to bring him back from the hand that is holding him and leading him away from your family.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 5:02pm On Sep 03, 2021
superCleanworks:



I can feel your low energy from here. This matter has drained your energy. Sometimes your mother even sits down and forgets herself because of this. True?

Your brother is very close to crossing the line of no return where his negative energy will completely cover his face and he will not even like to see any of you guys again or hear his name from your mouth. This has already started happening right? If he crosses that line, your family will be in more danger than he has already put you guys.

Have you seen a wild bull before? It is time to hold this very bull by the horns before it goes wild.

It will take a little effort, time, patience and above all, courage to bring him back from the hand that is holding him and leading him away from your family.
Thanks for your Advice
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by superCleanworks(m): 5:07pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:

Thanks for your Advice

I have not given any advise yet.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by JBoss25(m): 5:13pm On Sep 03, 2021
This life get as e be
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by MARKone(m): 6:02pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:

Pls what did u think I can do now because his on watch now and on the run.

My brother, there is a limit to what you guys can do for him now, he is 23, not a child any longer, and very much solely accountable for his actions. The solution for A might not work for B, unless you guys know the root cause of his recalcitrant behaviour. It could be Peer pressure, bad upbringing, spiritual problem or even genetics. You can ask your folks questions, or they should even know sef, with that, you guys will know best approach to it. There are some people such thing manifest in their families as a generational problem, but didn't you guys notice this when he was younger, "madness is best cured when that person is younger". My advice, prayers, there is nothing God can't do and you do your best for him, but don't break yourself, your mom and dad, should take care of themselves, watch their health, because situations like this, wears them down, too much thinking.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Elliot2(m): 7:23pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.
This life na pot of beans sha. That your bro could turn out to be a better person, or even worse. I have seen a lot. One of my distant cousins who was acting like your bro was killed by police last year. Another was a terror to the community until a pastor saw his vision that he would die the next time he goes on operation with his gang. Presently, dude is a very strong christian. In fact, his brand of christianity irritates me. Over seriousness don finish the guy life and I not sure dude will marry sef. Guy that use to change girls like clothes. Fine black boy like this don dey waste sey na holiness. My other small nephew who joined delinquent boys after I left home for school when there was no one left to monitor and stop him. When I heard it, I adviced him but he wouldn't listen, so I stopped worrying about him. One fateful day, he got terribly drunk after a bet he had with his friends. When he got too high and passed out, his friends left him suffocating on his his vomits because they feared he will die and so they didn't want to be involved. He was lucky some good Samaritans brought him to us. After that ordeal, he just cut of those friends and left the community. Presently, dude is an hardworking fashion designer making cool cash for himself. Dude is even the one advising his former friends in the village to leave the unproductive life they are living. Like I said, I have seen a lot. A lot of the guys I grew up with who followed that line are dead, some in prison, while others are useless in the society. Meanwhile, few stopped.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by JBoss25(m): 7:41pm On Sep 03, 2021
Lalasticlala pity my guy na

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Danjikanbauchi: 8:54pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
but if he is been arrested and jailed won't it affect the family image
the family Image is more affected with him around. You all should pretend he doesn't exist and accept his death as inevitable. Secondly among your parent somebody need confession from there solution will come.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Meedon: 9:48pm On Sep 03, 2021
Yepoo yepooo yepoooo yroppooollnbb
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by BrainSanitizer: 9:49pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.
I assure you that he has only one problem.
Gambling!
Get him outta that and he's free from all the other vices.

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by colizee(m): 9:49pm On Sep 03, 2021
No be juju be that?

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 9:49pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:

No his not
he is
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Okuda(m): 9:51pm On Sep 03, 2021
we no go fit help uou o. carry him matter go church
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Nobody: 9:51pm On Sep 03, 2021
Report him to the police.
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by tstx(m): 9:51pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.


Sorry bro... Stealing and gambling is a bad combo. The guy is gone.
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Akpuobi1: 9:52pm On Sep 03, 2021
HE KNOWS THE FAMILY DOES NOT MEAN WHAT IT SAYS AND DOES NOT SAY WHAT IT MEANS. HE KNOWS YOU PEOPLE WILL COME TO THE RESCUE ANYTIME HE'S IN TROUBLE.

YOU GUYS SHOULD MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND THAT YOU'VE CONSOLED YOURSELF IN ADVANCE FOR HIS DEATH, YOU'RE JUST WAITING FOR THE NEWS. SO HE CAN CONTINUE MISBEHAVING UNTIL THE DAY HE'S SHOT FOR ROBBERY.

BE MEAN TO HIM, HE WILL DEFINITELY CHANGE

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by simhosting: 9:52pm On Sep 03, 2021
Don't bail him again simple

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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by 24brains(m): 9:53pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.
thats call youthful exuberance. He will grow above it
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Femmyfestus: 9:54pm On Sep 03, 2021
Righteousness2. Your help is needed here please
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by FEMIBRANCH(m): 9:54pm On Sep 03, 2021
I guess he grew up with no father in the house.
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by anselm791(m): 9:54pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

What else can you do, but watch your phone and pray.
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by ChasinGood(m): 9:55pm On Sep 03, 2021
His case is really different grin
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by tutudesz: 9:55pm On Sep 03, 2021
passionguy:
but if he is been arrested and jailed won't it affect the family image
1-3 years in jail will reset his thinking
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Lordofalmajiri(f): 9:57pm On Sep 03, 2021
Future Anini
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Felabrity: 9:57pm On Sep 03, 2021
He might be depressed and mentally down

I am sorry about your dad

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