Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Lilpen3758:
you are a mumu man my friend

Kadejo:
Abeg na sincere response I need oo

sandra50:
Please do not listen to this

12345baba:
Some kind questions people dey ask here eh

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

mastermaestro:


Very annoying to read. A 25 year old girl wants to continue doing sisi? What exactly has she been doing since she turned 18? This is unbelievable! When most girls are marrying between age 20 and 22, this one doesn't know she is even too old to be in 400l unless of course had had some other kind of education somewhere before.

Rubbish talk!

RZArecta:
She gave you time to get your act together, start arranging yourself and by the time she graduates and serves within two years, sisi won't be on her mind again because she'll need stability. Congratulations to you guys in advance

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

HopeVictor:

See person just wan put him life on hold for nothing..

825jobs:
Hmmm. She will be 29 when she is ready, and too old. Ask yourself, at what age did our fathers married our mothers?

If she is not ready now, she WON'T be ready later o.

She is just keeping you on the side while she shops for options.

And u r definitely spending on her on top the salary you are managing. Ok o.

Once a girl crosses 28, they become a tough meat, combative, harder to please, "over wise", and demanding. Their feminine spark dries out as they age cos they've seen too much, and have too much life issues.

If she has been single for long and reaches that age, she loses her ability to bond cos she is too used to being alone. Dangerous something.

Most guys won't make it until they hit 40. Find someone else of ur size, have a side hustle along Ur salary, e go soft later for everybody including me.

Nonexisting1:
Marriage is scam, marrying an undergraduate is scammer but you see marrying a Nigerian girl while you earn less than 70k, that one na the scammest of it all. I see everything ending in premium tears.

Stomoney:
He won't adhere to your advice bro. They told me then but refuses to take to advice because I was
in love then and now she has left me for a better offer

mastermaestro:


Very annoying to read. A 25 year old girl wants to continue doing sisi? What exactly has she been doing since she turned 18? This is unbelievable! When most girls are marrying between age 20 and 22, this one doesn't know she is even too old to be in 400l unless of course had had some other kind of education somewhere before.

Rubbish talk!

Vinnie2000:


If she is cool, fine and respectful generally, Wait..Be patient!

Do not Rush into marriage with any Available young lady because you are 34..
Pple still see Marriage as a Competition!
It's the ability of a Man to bring up a beautiful family and Cater for them, without Stress!

When I see some 29, 30 yrs Guys rushing into Marriage, I just Pity some of Dem!..

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Lilpen3758:
I swear just like that but why some guys brain no complete??

Lilpen3758:
I swear just like that but why some guys brain no complete??

Romanoff:
If you're sure of the woman you're dating, you wouldn't come here to make this post.

There's already doubt in your mind, that's why you're here and you're on the right place.

They will feed your doubt with fertilizer and waters nd it will grow and yield plenty fruits.

Susily:



What's sisi?

HopeVictor:

Maybe him brain complete but him head no correct..