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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by akpunda86: 9:38am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.


Action I did wen my home was very hot after dat my wife learnt if she is bad there are many nice ladies out dr.

Woman sorry but he just didn't run u pursued him and will continue till u show a new leaf.If there are kids magic is buy new SIM card let the kids call him not u.with no kids hard baby all d best

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by YeyeGbami: 9:38am On Sep 13, 2021
pocohantas:


Till date?

She don move on, the guy came back begging but she said she’s done with the marriage. He physically abused her couple of times. I don’t get why married men just can’t endure and stay loyal to dia partners.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by TheGoodJoe(m): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2021
Check your whatsapp history. He might have seen some messages in there that made him know it was time to leave.

If you were cheating on him, he knows and has moved on.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Mekailo(m): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Sorry, what happened?! A man can't just leave his family for another lady expect you are giving him troubles at home ( no intimacy, you starved him good sex, you are materialistic, or too much demands, etc) or you are baby mama. please don't deceive yourself, realize your mistakes and ask God for forgiveness. If you are innocent, please go into fasting and prayers, God answer prayers, He will return back to you.
Hmmm Prof, u know it all
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by crafteck(m): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2021
Annie sorry
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by SuperNova33: 9:39am On Sep 13, 2021
What did you do? To buy his hate .....let me guess you were dragging head of home with Him...

He is in a relationship with another woman so it can't be that he has problem with woman.. It must be you then. Fix yourself by making yourself acceptable love is not automatic
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by okwadatigbogal: 9:40am On Sep 13, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Sorry, what happened?! A man can't just leave his family for another lady expect you are giving him troubles at home ( no intimacy, you starved him good sex, you are materialistic, or too much demands, etc) or you are baby mama. please don't deceive yourself, realize your mistakes and ask God for forgiveness. If you are innocent, please go into fasting and prayers, God answer prayers, He will return back to you.

As usual, I know there will be one idiot here that will blame the woman! This is a very common occurrence, and you dont know their story.
Madam, i hope you have something doing and you are not depending on him entirely. It might be difficult, but you need to move on with your life. If truly you are married with children and he did this no matter the reasons, get your life back together and forge ahead. if he didn't have the decency of discussing with you why he is n longer interested and wants to move on, then he is not worth any fight. Face your front and move on!

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by November24(f): 9:40am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.

Inbox me,call my pastor.
Most of una nor believe God Sha
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by eagleonearth(m): 9:40am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
did you really show him love before he left?
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by TheGoodJoe(m): 9:41am On Sep 13, 2021
AfroKnight:
Kayanmata must be banned.

Not that I believe it works though. But it emboldens the users to manipulate innocent men. That is a crime against free will. Producers and users of Kayanmata must be arrested and jailed for 25 days.

Hire private investigator to trail him.

Why stress yourself with arrest when Buhari can just ban it?
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by okwadatigbogal: 9:41am On Sep 13, 2021
Businesslist:
angry

Hahahhahahahahhahaha ----- Am even Planning to do this same !!!

Imagine when a person you call your wife cannot ...... Cook Good food ...... She always stay at home watching ZEEWORLD ...... SHE CAN WAKE UP BY 2 AM AND GIVE YOU A DIRTY SLAP WITH NO REASON .....

She is demanding for 120k Hair !!! , .... SHE WANTS ME TO PLACE HER MUM ON 25K Monthly Allowance ..... Am paying her 50k per month ..... she is collecting 50k for foodstuff and house items ..... She cannot wash your clothes ......

Okay ... The last one weah she talk is that TOO MUCH SEX Make a Woman loose her shape ...... She is now giving me sex 2 times every week .... and na Missionary style ......

She even dey swear say .... if i nack any girl outside .... say i go die !!!!

Biko My brother , If you fit chat me tell me your LOCATION ... I GO LIKE FOLLOW YOU OOOOO.

THIS THING CALLED MARRIAGE

See this liar. As if you can afford to be married, talk more of buying hair of 120k for someone. Do you even earn up to 50k a month?

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Nobody: 9:41am On Sep 13, 2021
Well well well

Look what we have here

The thing is, this story isn't complete but we don't want to know, I don't believe in divorce or something

Check your attitudes towards him check ur character, and if u know say e no bam,mend am...
I don't trust women and so I won't say if the other lady took him genuinely or not, just pray,ask for forgiveness, for mercy and make sacrifices, give to God and ask Him whatever you want from Him...

May ur home be restored..
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by louken(m): 9:41am On Sep 13, 2021
Wahala no dey finish. This story is not complete. Are you legally married to him? Does he have children with you? What happened between you and him that led to his abscondment? Have you informed his family, and what is their response?
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Bamzyriches451: 9:41am On Sep 13, 2021
Damn
Your husband is currently banging and digging one fresh and juicy pussy in a hotel room, he will definitely come back to you
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by EngrXrix(m): 9:42am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
What transpired before he left? Let's start from there first.
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by drealcivilceno(m): 9:43am On Sep 13, 2021
Go and tell his people... If he does not accept. Move one.

I had an aunt, like that, because of they never had kids at that time, the man dey do anyhow.

She had to leave an top Oil firm(by now she would have been a blessing to me grin) because she wanted to please the smelling man but he try threw her out at the end.

7 month down the line, the man head straight, side chick don become lion for him house, e con dey beg my aunty. Aunty don carry belle oooh.

Now she has three beautiful Children.


E still dey beg my aunty, till this moment.

So in all, just do your best and rest, for your sleep shall be sweet.

Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
greatnaija01:


Sorry ma'am, they have collected your hubby... BINI WOMAN DON COLLECT AM.


I can not give you solution here publicly but this is a spiritual battle.... FIGHT HARD... if you truly want him back
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Drizzy5001(m): 9:44am On Sep 13, 2021
Madam, you did not tell us what did you did to him o?, undecided Are you the nagging and troublesome type, do you deny him sex or you are too demanding and don't economize things,abi na small thing dem do for your head(baby mama) pls tell us what you did, so we will know how to help you, A man can not just wake up one day, and run away from his marriage
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Tobies: 9:44am On Sep 13, 2021
PoshBoss007:



You don't really have sense.

Remove the ‘really’ pls

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by DogmaNation: 9:44am On Sep 13, 2021
Born2winnx:


U be really dog.


You don't reason like a man
Thunder fire u there. Ur generations are dogs. Mumu boy!
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by gassbee: 9:44am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
tel us how u offended him
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by maxjax(m): 9:44am On Sep 13, 2021
you came to seek for solution by initiating a thread, people are asking you questions but you choose to ignore undecided na wa o0o

Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by SimplePlan34: 9:45am On Sep 13, 2021
Madam u only have a case if u have kids for him, if not u should start planning to move on. I just hope u are financially capable. But if u have kids u can go to the office of the pubic defender he would be mandated to produce himself and take care of his children.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by TheGoodJoe(m): 9:45am On Sep 13, 2021
Text him. Let him know you are not forcing him home. Just plead with him to let you know what you did wrong, so you can have your peace.

If you have a sibling of his you trust, or a friend of his, confide in the person to reach out to your husband to find out what you did wrong.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by solexjames(m): 9:46am On Sep 13, 2021
Crowwejihadist:
You wanted to kill the man before his time, that's why he decided to run for his life.

Take heart and train your children, they will make you proud.
Thank you...the truth is always bitter
#TELL DEM

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by sabreal: 9:47am On Sep 13, 2021
You should be able tell what happened.

No man want to die yoig again.

Identify your errors.

Since June and you don't know his key relatives?

Madam, the knife and yam are in your hands.

If yoiy want him back, you know what to do. If what you are looking for are the feminists to give you confidence to move, they are plenty on this forum.

But if you are sincere about bring tour husband back you will need to work hard.

Less I forget, noan want to die young again because of woman dey mishave, except the stupid and foolish ones. Women are plenty, especially the bandy mamas.

You want your husband go for him, you may still recover by the mercy of God. Its not too late. It may just be that you have become a senior wife




Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Kingcalls: 9:48am On Sep 13, 2021
U drove him away and now u are here blabbing...what do u want NL to do ...do we look like ur relatives... if he is at fault...u will definitely mention what he did , but fir u not to say anything shows u are at fault ....and u hvnt repented for to hv still said he followed bini woman... u are definitely a monster and he should run faraway from u ...toxic woman

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Tizu(m): 9:48am On Sep 13, 2021
She won't. Troublesome creatures.
Suffer it alone and train the children and enjoy your freedom. All the men for your area will all Bleep you for N1000 short time hotel. Then your brain will come to normal.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by Babaken(m): 9:48am On Sep 13, 2021
Two things is involve in this matter either you have been giving him hell at home or they have jazz him.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by TheGoodJoe(m): 9:48am On Sep 13, 2021
Ask yourself some questions.

Be honest to yourself.

Are you cheating on him?
If you are, he might have found out.

Do you consider yourself troublesome?
If you are then you must have gotten him fed up.

Are you starving him of bedmatics?
Maybe he has met someone who is giving him a regular dose.

If you think you have done nothing wrong, which your post did not say, then you have a man not ready to act as a husband.

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by BluntCrazeMan: 9:49am On Sep 13, 2021
Confidencemama:
My husband left home in Lagos since June and has refused to return, he doesn't pick my calls if i use another number to call him once he hears my voice, he shout at me that he is no more interested in the marriage, that he has moved on and that I should never call his line again then he will end the call, he blocked me on what's app, face book and currently he is in a relationship with a girl in benin, just that I don't know his exact address where he moved to.
He got fed up..

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Re: Please I Need People Advice Over This Issue by pek(m): 9:51am On Sep 13, 2021
Flier:
Vague explanation! What exactly did you do to him because I am sure something led him to make this decision
Most men does do that when they catch their wife cheating

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