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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Onliie(m): 12:20pm On Sep 13, 2021
Gaddafih001:
Bastards loading.
She’s going back to another one to do same.
She is only remorseful because the guy was below par compared to you on bed.
Wait till she meets someone that will be as strong as a chimpanzee,even if the person dey roast corn,you are history.

She is wired to cheat and forgiving her won’t recode her genetical attributes.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Sep 13, 2021
That guy is too soft for my liking and the girl knows perfectly well that's why she confessed with pity face.....you cheat on me come get the liver dey tell me pity face kee you there.
I can bet this guy will still forgive her and wait for the next confession because it's no longer a question of if she will cheat it's a matter of when grin
YoungLionken:
No disrespect but, you are SIMPly a doctorate in stup1dity and immaturity..

You will suffer from women if you don't change your style in that aspect...

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Angelfrost(m): 12:21pm On Sep 13, 2021
Decentdave:
Cheat back simple

...Your moniker is at serious variance with your comment. lipsrsealed

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by isax(m): 12:21pm On Sep 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
No Two relationships are the same so, you should make a decision based on your own relationship and heart, not based on what others say. undecided

God bless you bro!
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by TATALoAlaMu: 12:21pm On Sep 13, 2021
No matter how much you love her, just leave her the Bleep alone….

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Angelfrost(m): 12:22pm On Sep 13, 2021
aanuoluwami14:
Make the decision yourself, the ball is in your court. But there is no mistake in cheating, it's something you can resist. I hope she will not keep begging till she brings bastards home.

Tell him... She will more than likely keep going back, except the sex wasn't good enough!

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by ChiefSweetus: 12:22pm On Sep 13, 2021
czarr:
A cheating woman wouldn't confess unless she is looking for a reason for you to man up and break up with her, she doesn't want to do the break up herself...before she cheated she must have been very disrespectful to you, it's her body and mind trying to push you away, but since you couldn't break up with her she has to do the next best thing, which is cheat and tell you, if you forgive her she'll still cheat and break up with you herself.
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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Bamzyriches451: 12:24pm On Sep 13, 2021
I don't know why people are still keeping relationships

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by blaise26abj(m): 12:25pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Guys and Ladies Set boundaries in your relationships . If a party breaks those boundaries , WALK AWAY .
The fact that they knew and still went ahead means they don’t value you . Saying “Sorry “ or “tears” doesn’t unscrew the Coochie .
@OP - because she told you doesn’t mean she shouldn’t bear the consequences . That’s if you have the balls

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Ufedolove: 12:27pm On Sep 13, 2021
If you were a game-aware man, I would have advised you to turn her to your sex buddy (of course, with condom). But from the look of things, you are still deep in the simp world; therefore, the best thing for you to do now is to break up with her, cut every tie with her and move on with your life.

You are probably thinking that she is remorseful, but no. She did everything she did intentionally, especially for the fact that you didn't mention rape. This is "disrespect" boldly written with a black marker on a white sheet, and I'm surprised you ain't seeing it clearly.

You will be surprised to find out that she only told you because she's scared you may find out later, or because she wants you to break up with her.

If your intention towards her is marriage, well, she has proven beyond reasonable doubt that she's not the girl you should wife. Once a cheat, a cheat forever.

Bro, this wasn't the first, and it won't be the last either if you keep her as your girlfriend. Pay no heed to anyone telling you to forgive her. You MUST not forgive her, for your good, and hers.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Angelfrost(m): 12:28pm On Sep 13, 2021
Gaddafih001:
Bastards loading.
She’s going back to another one to do same.
She is only remorseful because the guy was below par compared to you on bed.
Wait till she meets someone that will be as strong as a chimpanzee,even if the person dey roast corn,you are history.

She is wired to cheat and forgiving her won’t recode her genetical attributes.

Seriously Sha... Other than sexual dissatisfaction with a current partner or outright nymphomania, what else will make someone (male or female) go and "visit a friend"?!!

I honestly don't get what Op is even asking us to advise him on!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by FreedomArmy: 12:28pm On Sep 13, 2021
Simpleton,impressionable,gullible etc add yours

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Angelfrost(m): 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2021
Skymason20:
I think this forum is a wrong place to get relationship advice or tips ....

You think?!! Lol...

That's why I believe most of these stories are just fairy tales written to gain traffic here. grin
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by McMOrris: 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2021
Want my opinion..... Go and cheat on her too...thereafter, narrate the sorrow story give her back.. Make una too opt for forgiveness.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by stasius: 12:31pm On Sep 13, 2021
How do u react?

Human beings sef?

Are we you? Or are you us?

React the way you should react.

Maybe you are now a robot that we need to program on how to react to certain situations.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Omoluabiii(m): 12:32pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


this is the test of your love for her, weight it within your heart, does it balance?
Does the love you have for her stands stronger than the cheating?
Or does the cheating stand stronger?
Weight it, chose and decide...
And whatever your decision is, never regret it, stand by it...

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Michaelpsych: 12:35pm On Sep 13, 2021
If u can cope with a promiscuous lady,then no problem,but if u can't then Bleep her like a prostitute she is and trash her away like a rotten egg

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by saphiere(f): 12:36pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Because of her honesty and openness, forgive her and take her back.

But why would she go to stay with a guy who is not her man and you allowed when you know how men behave when they see women around them?

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Elsueno: 12:37pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


Aww....How cute....d guy must have seduced her. Just kiss & make up....No one Is above cheating in a relationship, except couples WHO TRULY LOVE one another........

But, what do I know, u will be d one living with a certified CHEAT grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by demzey(m): 12:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
I've never been cheated on cause I love with my head....IYKYK

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Kobojunkie: 12:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:

Thanks
You know her and she knows you so, don't let others make decisions for you. That is the best way to grow in this life and in relationship. undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Maski87: 12:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
Please forgive her ,I am almost sure the guy raped her
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by jclassiq(m): 12:41pm On Sep 13, 2021
React like Sodium pellets in cold water --- very explosively.

Nonsense.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by chatinent: 12:43pm On Sep 13, 2021
Make I no talk. My yarn no dey favour cheating.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by mrdino(m): 12:44pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


1. Was it a premeditated decision?

2. Has she consistently complained (either directly or in a subtle manner) about your performance in bed before?

3. Was it lack of self-control?

4. Is it a no premarital sex relationship, both of you are running?

In summary the above questions borders around what was her motive for cheating, these are some of things you must ponder on, before taking decision.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Greystone: 12:45pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


I was in this exact same situation years ago.
My ex gf slept with her ex bf, then came and confessed to me a week later with tears begging for forgiveness. I was in shock but i forgave her.

The problem was she didn’t believe that i did.
We had an on and off relationship since that time before we eventually broke up. She's married to someone else now but we're cool as friends now.

The truth is that no one can make the decision to continue with her except you.

One advice I'll give is don't ever tell your family or friends what she did because they will not allow you to be with her if you do decide to forgive her and continue the relationship.

I wish you the best with whatever decision you make.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Babaheekmat: 12:46pm On Sep 13, 2021
Decentdave:
Cheat back simple

Baba wayray ni e..

Laughing
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by RPG2020(m): 12:46pm On Sep 13, 2021
Equal2DeTask:
angry



Forgive her for been remorse and feeling guilty. But don't trust her as before. These creatures can go back to their vomits anytime. (Fish Brain)


Keep one eye on her if you still love her....


If you can't forgive and forget no need to let her be around you respect the game

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by justmondris: 12:49pm On Sep 13, 2021
Forgive her and love her more. If she did not tell you, you will not have known. Please don’t make her regret telling you because that is what 90% of men will do and they will end up creating a monster in their home. She made a mistake and she is deeply sorry about it.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by tuboi: 12:51pm On Sep 13, 2021
Once you cheat, you loose your position as a gf and become a fuckmate….Bro Bleep her like a prostitute until she realizes that you’re no longer interested

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by kannex: 12:55pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You




Let me ask you one question, If you cheat on your girlfriend will you tell her?. This is a question i will want you to answer me. Please let me give you the best advice, if i ware you i would have forgive her and the relationship continue, in which i will advise her not to ever try that again.


1. because it is not easy for a lady to to tell her man this kind of secret, the boldness alone is crazy she tried.

2. Only true love will make her tell you this, and also the conscience guilty in her heart alone is killing .

3. She is also telling you this because she also want you to protect her, what am i saying in future the guy may decide to ask her for sex again and if she refuses to give him sex, there is a possibility that the guy might want to use blackmail technique to have sex with her. As she have told you now she is protected, so if the guy ask her for sex one day and she refuse, then the guy try to blackmail her. She go fit get power tell you wetin the guy want do, then u go no wetin u go do.

Make i no talk too much bro abeg accept her back because she dey tell you all this thing because she need your help, e no easy make woman tell you dis kind thing. She tell u bcus she love u and she know say she don disrespect u that is why she come beg. Abeg forgive am and make to of una move on only wetin i go tell u b say, tell your girlfriend say anytime ware d guy want try am again make he let u know especially if na force the guy wan use especially if na blackmail then u go know wetin u wan do.

A wise man once told me that if you have a wife that can tell you the most secret especially the sin she committed against you bro that woman na strong woman.

Again the forgiveness is up to you as a man.

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