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Las las u go carry ur cross for head better go find work 9months no go tey oooh before u drop load

Don't abort the baby,just go ahead and have the baby I bet you you won't regret you did. You both are destined to have a child together.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Kyase:
Hahahahaha which one be that na

Anyone baba

BTW, how far u nah? You just dey flex, dey enjoy Buhari alone?

UDUJ:
Are you really a woman? If you are, you have my utmost respect for not having any gender bias and saying it as it is. Respect sis

I'm o and that's because I know her type and they sucks like shit and toxic.

Have my respect too.

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

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October go good be that

Your October will be great indeed. you saved me the stress of typing some sense into her senseless head.

Moneyboyz:
Most people on nairaland are not mature, someone asked for advice and you all are barking at her. You all should get a life, if you don't have positive things to contribute just shut the Bleep up.

ok!
What do you advise?

JovialJune:
Are you sure you're a man? They will soon come and call you a simp.

its crazy how nl men think. the same man will start dragging the woman to court if the lady keep the child all by herself and the nl men will still support him

Anty wey mumu

Them go knack in private come dy ask for help in public

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

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October go good be that

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

The way you told your story, we won't say you deliberately date a married man. Neither will I tell you to go abort that innocent baby you are carrying. How ready are you to be a baby mama or a society reject for 'snatching" another's husband? Can you cope being a single mother? Or a second wife if you get lucky. Those are the tags the society will place on you, are you ready?

If you are ready, call him and tell him you're having the baby, he should not have a problem with that since he's for any decision you make. After that, look for a key person in his family so that arrangement between you and your bf can hinge well on something. That way, he can't ghost you..
I wish you a successful delivery. You may inbox me if you wish.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Better ask him for money, and go to an advanced clinic for abortion.

Or you risk being a single mum forever, single guys don wise up.

And if you tell the wife, what do you intend to gain? Become a second wife?.

Your Bet don cut be say e don cut, learn your lesson and move on. stop fucking people's husband.
If not for this pregnancy, I know you would still be fucking him.

Wether you keep the baby or not, you will still continue fucking him, simply because he funds your expenses. Love my foot..

Klass99:
if I don't want the child I will have the baby and give him up for adoption while I make money in the process as well.

Please everyone should disregard this.
It is illegal and a criminal offense to earn financial rewards during any stage of the adoption process.

This mindset is the number one reason we have "baby factory" problem.

This is why criminals kidnap girls or lure them, rape them continously with the aim of getting them pregnant, and forcefully sell the baby, while holding them hostage. After which they are raped again to repeat the process.

Adoption is free.
You don't pay for a child to get one.
You don't give up a child in exchange for money.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

You mean, all along you were dating him, it was only yesterday you visited the wife's wall as your plan to tie him with a pregnancy failed flat
Find another tactics. This is too old.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Let's welcome the newest baby mama on the block. Please queue behind Pero , we will attend to you in 8years. Thank you.

Vision101:
The name-calling for the op here is too much na. Remember that she is a pregnant woman. She needs peace of mind. It can happen to anyone.

First she said that they knew each other before, lost contact and reconnected. The man was insincere with her. When she got to know she had fallen deeply in love with him. I'm assuming that this lady is a soft-hearted person. The foolish man exploited it.

Don't get the wife or relations involved. Inform him that you will keep the baby. I just hope that you have a good source of income incase he disappoints you.

Brace up. You can never know what the baby will become in future and the foolish man will like to come around and lay paternity claim. That will be the time you will show him the negative side of yourself.

It's life lesson. You have learnt it the hard way.

Well said. Ladies of this generation are not wise at all. Why do flesh with a temporal boyfriend or man friend. If u must cruise or open leg for a boyfriend, make sure u use a CD or other form of protection. So, if shit happens, you simply feel d pains in your heart n not add pregnancy to your problems again. Any man who wants flesh with u, should take u to the altar full stop. Why give a boyfriend or man friend a husband benefit? Wise up o...

Promotions:
I won't judge you..my advice for you is to keep the baby, get yourself a good job and life, move on from the man and pray God will bless you with a man that will take you and your child as his own... keep away from married men

A man that will make someone's child his own ?? u mean a mollusc?

JovialJune:
Are you sure you're a man? They will soon come and call you a simp.

He's a real simp

mercy87:
The man is a home breaker. He is the one breaking his own home. No respect to his marital vows atall. I wonder how we men empathise with ourselves even when we are wrong instead of looking at things objectively and logically. Is this how Nigeria will be better? We need to be accountable. It starts from the little things we do, from family before getting to the nation.

Thank you jare ,this is the best comment here

A man that does not respect his family and marital vow, even if he wants to commit adultery , can't he use protection, is he not even scared of STDs

Every body is calling the lady a home wrecker ,what of the man that use his own hands to wreck his home

baralatie:
What does the truth of the dna test of her pregnancy will hope to achieve and to whose control?

You missed the message. I'm not referring to the DNA test of her pregnancy. I'm saying, just like we advocate for men to do the DNA test to know the truth regardless of how it would affect the family, women also reserve the right to know if thier husbands have kids elsewhere. You can't suddenly be thinking about family when it's the man being promiscuous.

"you want to have him and have the baby" open eye nai put you for the one you dey so you nvr still learn lesson ?Obvious the guy doesn't like you for him to have told you to do as u please, your eye don clear now abi? I don't support an abortion but better go and remove the baby cos that dude nor send you and he will never send u neither will he live his legally married wife for u. Save yourself the shame and stress and next time look properly before you leap. Advice learn to avoid costly mistakes in life"

I hope this is another fake post.

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

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October go good be that

Wow!
How do you manage to write this long epistle and still be the first to comment

BKsoul:
LMAO....E pain you? Am sorry baby.... But help me tell your mama i said she is a scumbag and a useless harlot that snatched someone else husband to birth a pussy nigga like you..... Son of a side chick ... Love you baby.

you this product of accidental discharge. your mom didn't tell you?

Kobojunkie:
Try to learn to not inject your personal biases into any story you read. That way you can infact pick up on exactly why the author is telling you.

None of what you continue to infer makes sense as regards this story.

Minister of Defense, let see if I got it again, op met her old flame in a party, she didn't know he was married. She was suspicious and finally knew he was married. Now she is pregnant, wants to contact his to expose everything and needs advice. Oya na wetin again? Did I miss something?

i hearby welcome to single motherhood dear

takimsipho:
Minister of Defense, let see if I got it again, op met her old flame in a party, she didn't know he was married. She was suspicious and finally knew he was married. Now she is pregnant, wants to contact his to expose everything and needs advice. Oya na wetin again? Did I miss something?

OP didn't say that now she is pregnant. She instead told you that she is 2 months pregnant.

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

Meanwhile first to comment


October go good be that

You nailed it bro. She no even get shame.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coqming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

You want to contact his wife and relatives so that what will happen?

Mumu grade A.

Toor e don happen your wahala don wear condom

Arizoner:
you are a product of accidental discharge. your mom didn't tell you

Lmao , nairalanders and bad mouth

All I can say is keep the baby and bear the pains that comes with the decision. You may smile at the end,

I pity who dey come seek advice here!