I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.

For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.

From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.

From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.

I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.

Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.

Why are u asking what can u do? Didn't u realize that u have misfired? 1. U lied when u shud have said the truth 2. Even if u truly wanted to break up with a girl, should it be thru a text message?
The girl actually did u right by not responding to ur message!
Better go and beg her, good girls scarce gaan ni these days!

The guy above me has said it all.

Bro..breaking up over the text
Seriously?

You were dating yourself all these while.

A girl that truly love you will never agree with this "Give me some space" nonsense.


The girl is core alpha. Take your L and move on.

Lols... U set up a breakup as trap,she no gree enter the trap instead she ignored.

Baba abeg count your lost and move on

You be real mumu keep waiting

Frank20219:
I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.

For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.

From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.

From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.

I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.

Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.

Bro I'm currently going through same situation but unlike you I'm on the other side.

I've been dating this girl for 6 month's now I'm commitment to her, loving & caring for her needs the little way I can I never lied to her once always open minded to her but she never appreciate it she told me, I'm too good for her kind!!


Yours for texting her broke up via text message that' didn't sounds matured remember she's more educated than you.

Your best is to be more matured too.

Frank20219:
I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.

For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.

From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.

From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.

I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.

Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.

You behaved like someone who does not appreciate a good thing. Na u use your hand spoil matter.
You said you want her to beg......what exactly did she do wrong that she should beg.....?

How people will see a wonderful thing and mess it up is beyond me.
Better go and beg and confess you poor judgment and daughter. If she gree good for you

If this girl is on NL pls contact me....

Let me appreciate you for applying native sense.
Infact make sure the Mumu op begs for a month before u even look at his direction.

From your write up, it shows you don't deserve this girl.

You are a manipulator. You think say she be mumu because she love you. She's more intelligent than you think. You are one of those who think they are smart but end up finding someone to outsmart you. If you want to be in a relationship with this kind of woman you better stop your tricks.

What does she need to apologise for?
Why does she have to be the one to beg so that she accepts your child.

You are the one with baggage yet you are demanding to be begged.

Drop your old tricks, this lady is wiser than you.

So you get girlfriend

She has a healthy self-esteem.
Your childish manipulation can only work with girls of low self esteem.

My advice to you: just leave her because you have already fvcked up,any attempt by you to reach her will damage the little respect she has for you,infact things can never be the same again even if you people reconcile. Just count your loss,learn from your mistake and hope for best.

Frank20219:
I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.
.

The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.

What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her.

Now they never leave you behind?
They have left you behind

Person wey don leave your a$$ since, you Dey wait for receipt?

That lady deserves an award

Eprincess:


From your write up, it shows you don't deserve this girl.

You are a manipulator. You think say she be mumu because she love you. She's more intelligent than you think. You are one of those who think they are smart but end up finding someone to outsmart you. If you want to be in a relationship with this kind of woman you better stop your tricks.

What does she need to apologise for?
Why does she have to be the one to beg so that she accepts your child.

You are the one with baggage yet you are demanding to be begged.

Drop your old tricks, this lady is wiser than you.

Nice one.

Lol, why do I find this thread funny?

You lied, then to unveiled your lies you initiated a breakup and she said "go fxxk yourself" and you need advice from us

E like sey na end time we dey tru tru people wey get sense no plenty again.

Op you get mind comot sense for your head put am under your shoe de carry Waka. . If na you be the lady how will you feel.

The lady is core alpha like someone rightly said, and your game is low.

Move on bro, and with no regrets at all.

Children who ought not to be in relationship toying with things bigger than them

Why didn't you call her, go on your knees and confess your lies? If you did that, she would have forgiven you, even though I wish in my heart that she should not continue with you because she is a girl of class and she will definitely meet and marry better single men. I mean, it's funny how you could break up with a woman when she did nothing wrong, yet you expect her to beg you , after having a child with another woman, (single father) you still think so highly of yourself, matcheeww!

Lol dude, what's the colour of your problem?! You wanted her to beg you so you'll tell her all about your daughter, can you listen to yourself? You had a good thing going but your ego just had to come out to play.. You didn't have to lie in the first place cos in the end, what will be will be, she'd stay if she wanted to and she'd leave if it pleases her so.. You wrecked that relationship by lying despite knowing she hates dishonesty, the foundation is already faulty, you really messed up..

Can't say for sure if there is even as much as a faint ray of hope, if you hadn't sent that breakup sms then maybe things won't be so complicated.. Just so there be some form of closure, call her but if you can't do that either then I guess you let her be.

You only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go!!!!!!








That up there is the song you should put on repeat now.




She is gone, you never deserved her.

H

So sorry

it is what it is.

wahala

All liars are liable to.......

Lol old school format backfired

There are strategic stages in life, and if you dont handle it seriously, it will cause a great shame and sorrow in your entire life.

Oya go and tell her what you just told us