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Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 1:55pm On Oct 04, 2021


In junior grade, during preteen age, I cried and begged one girl like that not to leave but she didn't oblige. I was weak. I couldn't walk home. I was sober. I wanted to run into the road at an incoming vehicle.. I couldn't even push myself at it. I struggled to walk..only for me to reach home and eat confirm plate of fufu and nchawu soup with achara, beef, snails and periwinkle to know say na hunger dey do me o no be nonsense heartbreak. Mehn, I chop snail sotey bite my index finger amid scratching my big head in this food happiness. O boy, I eat finish see as boning return my face en. I sat down with my protruding belly angry at how I embarrassed myself earlier.

Next day at school, I didn't even notice her anymore. Was all frowns and big boy.

It took a while and she was coming close but I think, I was fly then, I turned her down. Reverse psychology took place. She was the one begging.

I didn't accept her back because I thought then more pretty and brilliant girls were after me. It took until four years later until we bumped at each other.

grin grin




How about you?

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by iamtardey: 2:07pm On Oct 04, 2021
Lol I did ..

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by AYNL: 2:08pm On Oct 04, 2021
I go cry and beg florence to be mine if i have the chance(in a secret place though)lol

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 04, 2021
Wait, make I laugh first.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:27pm On Oct 04, 2021
iamtardey:
Lol I did ..

Tell me about it.
Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:27pm On Oct 04, 2021
AYNL:
I go cry and beg florence to be mine if i have the chance(in a secret place though)lol

First love?
Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Ekejoestar(m): 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2021
Na mumu dey love, make redpillers no catch you @op

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Ocholu: 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2021
OP! let me be real with you;

We don't do such. In this hard economy??

These days, boys no even get time to de too much ask ladies out.

Nigerian girls are also getting wiser by the minutes. Always activating Strategies to outplay us. But Mehnn, the street don shine our eyes.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:34pm On Oct 04, 2021
Ekejoestar:
Na mumu dey love, make redpillers no catch you @op

You mean your dad was a simp for falling in love with your mom..until marriage?

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:35pm On Oct 04, 2021
Ocholu:
OP! let me be real with you;

We don't do such. In this hard economy??

These days, boys no even get time to de too much ask ladies out.

Nigerian girls are also getting wiser by the minutes. Always activating Strategies to outplay us. But Mehnn, the street don shine our eyes.

I agree.

My experience was then.

Nowadays, even if we kuku exchange numbers, na status I go just dey read for WhatsApp...and that's if I saved the number...and bad news is I turned off read receipt so you aren't even gonna know I read it.

I no kuku want person wey go come cheat on their boyfriend with me since virtually everyone has sb...so I don't even ask anyone out.

Like I don't see any need to beg for a relationship or ask for it or whatever. The last time I wooed a girl is when I guess, was growing up sha. If we are friends and we grow fond of each other, lines fall into places by itself...and that is if you are creative about it. I translate it to you are single without me asking.

Bad news kwa is I am even a very boring type to be with so I think it is what makes me lose interest in creating an impression. I am also mostly interested in productive discussions and not always 'have you eaten'...too much of 'have you eaten' bores me out...that I may end up using the chat as a draft. I think it's only me who do this. Not proud of it tho but I am very lazy at forcing anything.

It doesn't mean I don't respect the gender. I do. I am just of the opinion to date when I am ready for marriage...plus the fact that many who you may ask if they are single will deny it. So I refuse to be responsible for another man's heartbreak.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:36pm On Oct 04, 2021
Beebah2000:
Wait, make I laugh first.

Lol. No bi now. It was then.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by AYNL: 2:38pm On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:


First love?
yes,never had one,and i can't give any reason why i love her,i just know that i love her

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:40pm On Oct 04, 2021
AYNL:
yes,never had one,and i can't give any reason why i love her,i just know that i love her

Lol..na so e dey do...esp when it seems like the person doesn't love you, you'll see yourself seeing her in every girl you want to meet.

Baba, na only fufu and better soup can solve this.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Ekejoestar(m): 2:48pm On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:


I mean my dad was a simp?

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by obinna58(m): 2:52pm On Oct 04, 2021
I'm too valuable to beg any woman wink


Every man is.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by younglleo: 2:52pm On Oct 04, 2021
grin grin grin grin
back in the days during secondary school, my werey girlfriend dey run me street wit our physics teacher wen we dey date, i found out nd she brokeup with me!
i jst dey cry dey beg the girl say make i dey mumu for am, but tank God she no gree(if not i for don kpai for dat girl mata) grin
i spent a week dey cry dey listen to blues grin grin grin grin grin grin
na ogun go kee R KELLY nd his devilish HAND OF TIME music
omoh i mumu dat year!

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Nostring: 2:56pm On Oct 04, 2021
obinna58:
I'm too valuable to beg any woman wink


Every man is.
shhhhh.... wan make I cast u Obi? angry

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 2:58pm On Oct 04, 2021
obinna58:
I'm too valuable to beg any woman wink


Every man is.

You want everybody to know about Njideka or not?

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by AYNL: 2:58pm On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:


Lol..na so e dey do...esp when it seems like the person doesn't love you, you'll see yourself seeing her in every girl you want to meet.

Baba, na only fufu and better soup can solve this.
as i never get one before,i no be lover guy o,fine face,azz,boob,all that no dey move me o,but this particular girl ehn.......lol,make i no talk much
that's why i dey always look all this redpillers,all of them go dey alright las las

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 3:00pm On Oct 04, 2021
AYNL:
as i never get one before,i no be lover guy o,fine face,azz,boob,all that no dey move me o,but this particular girl ehn.......lol,make i no talk much
that's why i dey always look all this redpillers,all of them go dey alright las las

Na for Nairaland dem dey do am jare. Some of them get sense for real life.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:01pm On Oct 04, 2021
Perhaps, you'd b amazed what true emotions make one do.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by iamtardey: 3:11pm On Oct 04, 2021
mi o le soh ton
chatinent:


Tell me about it.
Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by iamtardey: 3:18pm On Oct 04, 2021
Me I don't even push things again abeg... I don taya to dey meet this girls sef
chatinent:


I agree.

My experience was then.

Nowadays, even if we kuku exchange numbers, na status I go just dey read. I think it's only me who do this. Not proud of it tho but I am very lazy at forcing anything.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Jman06(m): 3:36pm On Oct 04, 2021
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by chatinent: 5:29pm On Oct 04, 2021
Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

Mehn

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by DropsMic(m): 6:01pm On Oct 04, 2021
I have never simped for any girl and will never

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by DropsMic(m): 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2021
Jman06:


But I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate.


Coincidence... If curses do work there would be no politician in Africa because they'd all be dead

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by ozome15(m): 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2021
chatinent:

Mehn
My brother it`s not only you.

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by missyojo(f): 6:12pm On Oct 04, 2021
Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.


Ohhhh......... Ohhhh........
The girl didn't do well at all and these are the type of girls that are spoiling the good one's image.
I know how hurt and painful it was back then, please find a way in your heart to forgive her. Definitely it's not something you will forget but please, Biko, Edakun. FORGIVE AND LET GO
Even thou you didn't curse her then, karma will surely visit her.

Cheers!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Goldenheart(m): 6:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
grin Not as a man but as a boy

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Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by Lagosfinder(m): 6:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
Say wetin happen
Re: Have You Ever Cried And Begged For A Relationship As A Man? by FalseProphet1(m): 6:32pm On Oct 04, 2021
Yes, when I was I secondary school...her name was mgbodichimma, she told me to kneel down for 30 minutes before she will consider my offer, I knelt down after all said and done she told me that she'll give me a reply after 3 months, I got angry and left her and started a relationship with Jesus, now I can see any and everything and I don't have to beg him before he does anything for me, I see myself becoming a world figure in the coming years.

This I have seen.

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