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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


It's a she,male. undecided
you mean u have a small dick and a pussy
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 12:03pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
you mean u have a small dick and a pussy

I wasn't talking about me but the one you posted the question to. The creature you described is a hermaphrodite, the person you asked the question is a she.male/transgender*A man who dresses like and identifies as a woman like Bobrisky.
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


I wasn't talking about me but the one you posted the question to. The creature you described is a hermaphrodite, the person you asked the question is a she.male/transgender*A man who dresses like and identifies as a woman.
OK.. Sorry for the mistake in personal.. And tnx for the lecture. Where are you based. Iam sapiosexual
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 12:11pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
OK.. Sorry for the mistake in personal.. And tnx for the lecture. Where are you based. Iam sapiosexual

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 12:13pm On Oct 20, 2021
EdiskyHarry:

I will advice you, start thinking this way
1. At my age why am I not living in my own house?)
2. Am I too young to drive my own car?
3. Can't I make it now in life and start assisting my parents?
4. If I start now to donate to the needy, the poor the helpless will heaven fall?
Start having all these thoughts, think of how you can make this life a better place for you and everyone around you. All other things will follow.


One crate of malt for u.....

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 12:14pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
OK.. Sorry for the mistake in personal.. And tnx for the lecture. Where are you based. Iam sapiosexual

If you mean where do I live, I'm in the US, and I'm heterosexual. I doubt intelligence is the only thing that turns you on
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


If you mean where do I live, I'm in the US, and I'm heterosexual. I doubt intelligence is the only thing that turns you on
interesting,, and about intelligence being the only thing that turns me on,, let's put it this way.. I value it more to any other physical attributes in a lady..
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Fourwinds: 12:32pm On Oct 20, 2021
Jeon:
Lolz

Fati2001 OP wan fvck pvssy...
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 12:36pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
interesting,, and about intelligence being the only thing that turns me on,, let's put it this way.. I value it more to any other physical attributes in a lady..
LMAO grin So if you met a woman who is 4'11 and weigh 300 pounds, bald headed, blind in one eye but has the intelligence of a genius, would you be sexually aroused by her intellect?
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:37pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:

LMAO grin So if you met a woman who is 4'11 and weigh 300 pounds, bald headed, blind in one eye but has the intelligence of a genius, would you be sexually aroused by her intellect?
.. Lolx, even though it not possible but yes lolx
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 12:41pm On Oct 20, 2021
Softboy001:
I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.


OP kindly explain point number 6 because I don't understand what you meant.
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Bamzyriches451: 12:47pm On Oct 20, 2021
kennykruzmason:


Awof dey tear pocket
One day yawa go gas
Tarr... Forget that tin
Person wey give you... Collect
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Bamzyriches451: 12:47pm On Oct 20, 2021
kennykruzmason:


Awof dey tear pocket
One day yawa go gas
Tarr
Forget that tin, person wey give you collect shop
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 12:50pm On Oct 20, 2021
[quote author grin=Hopeba post=106902593].. Lolx, even though it not possible but yes lolx [/quote]

So she can get some from you because she's smart? How can that work when it's time to get down to business and all you see before you is a bald headed, half blind, beach whale? grin

How do you rise to the occasion, would she have to whisper sweet physics and calculus problem in your ear to get you excited? grin

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 12:52pm On Oct 20, 2021
mariahAngel:
Channel all your energy (both physical and mental) into something productive like how to be successful, how to be a better version of yourself, what skill to acquire, and there’d be little or no room for those thoughts to hound you.

Look, what if you get someone pregnant when you’re not even ready to be married or be a father? It’ll be loss of chance and freedom for you which you might never get back.
Your time will no longer be solely yours.

Truth is, we all have weaknesses we must conquer to achieve greatness, and unless we fight and conquer those weaknesses, we’ll never attain that greatness.
Between us and greatness are obstacles we must conquer with self discipline to attain complete evolution.
Wow, nice advice dear. I love your mindset.

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:

LMAO grin So if you met a woman who is 4'11 and weigh 300 pounds, bald headed, blind in one eye but has the intelligence of a genius, would you be sexually aroused by her intellect?
smiles,,,, your descriptions are unrealistic anyways.. I stand with intelligent girls

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


So she can get some from you because she's smart? How can that work when it's time to get down to business and all you see before you is a bald headed, half blind, beach whale? grin

How do you rise to the occasion, would she have to whisper sweet physics and calculus problem in your ear to get you excited? grin
lolx.. U are Damm funny.. You got me laughing loud

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 12:57pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
Guy.. Even without money u can get a good girl to lash.. Iam in school at the moment,, and iam a broke guy,, since ladies discovered iam very good in calculations cox iam doing a science course, I have been enjoying different pussies with different shapes,, some even spent on me.. Iam not asking u to b randy, my point is you can have any pussy in the world without money.. Just b good at something
Bro which school are you?
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 20, 2021
MisterKennedy:

Bro which school are you?
y are you asking
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 1:00pm On Oct 20, 2021
Bunmhi:
Keep it up the Lord is your strength grin
hello Bunmi dear. I like your comment. You seem to be a very wonderful and nice and fun lady.
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 1:02pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
lolx.. U are Damm funny.. You got me laughing loud

Don't mind me, I'm bored and being silly, it's 5:am here and I haven't went to bed yet. tongue
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 1:07pm On Oct 20, 2021
Anobella:



Guy my last sex was in 2013 so I have stayed 8yrs without sex
wow that's very impressive.

Hello Anobella. How's your week going?
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 1:08pm On Oct 20, 2021
Anobella:



Guy my last sex was in 2013 so I have stayed 8yrs without sex
wow that's very impressive....

Hello Anobella. How's your week going?
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


Don't mind me, I'm bored and being silly, it's 5:am here and I haven't went to bed yet. tongue
wow.. It 5a.m already so it means u had a sleepless night

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


Don't mind me, I'm bored and being silly, it's 5:am here and I haven't went to bed yet. tongue
let's be friends so whenever iam less busy and you bored I can ease ur boredom a bit
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 1:14pm On Oct 20, 2021
mariahAngel:


I si momsy advice? cheesy

Mmiri a karia la garri n'okwu op. cheesy
Ike gwuru. Hehehehehehehehe cheesy
NNE biko nyem number gi. Biko nne. Ayiyo kam na yo gi.
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 1:18pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
let's be friends so whenever iam less busy and you bored I can ease ur boredom a bit

That's cool, follow me and I'll follow you.

****WARNING****
I can be quite provocative in some of my posts to people I don't care for or topics that are offensive to me.
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


That's cool, follow me and I'll follow you.

****WARNING****
I can be quite provocative in some of my posts to people I don't care for or topics that are offensive to me.
no issues,, funny enough I wanna know more about you out of nairaland. At least let me have a friend that's in the state..

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Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 1:24pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:


So she can get some from you because she's smart? How can that work when it's time to get down to business and all you see before you is a bald headed, half blind, beach whale? grin

How do you rise to the occasion, would she have to whisper sweet physics and calculus problem in your ear to get you excited? grin

Kikkikikiki.... hehehe grin
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by MisterKennedy(m): 1:24pm On Oct 20, 2021
candidbabe:
Where is Righteousness2 when you need him most?

Your attention is needed here grin grin grin
Hello dear. How're you doing?

I like your comment on his post. You seem to be a very nice and fun lady
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by khiaa(f): 1:24pm On Oct 20, 2021
Hopeba:
no issues,, funny enough I wanna know more about you out of nairaland. At least let me have a friend that's in the state..
I suggest you go to my profile and read some of my posts, then come back and tell me if you feel the same way. shocked
Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 20, 2021
khiaa:

I suggest you go to my profile and read some of my posts, then come back and tell me if you feel the same way. shocked
alright

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