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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by tritt(m): 11:46am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Good luck with your adventure. Make sure the grave you want to dig is 6ft and beyond. Warrior14: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Pemivy01(f): 11:47am On Oct 25, 2021 |
jos4kay: See talk....... imagine...... so you are saying the beating is small abi. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Dollish(f): 11:49am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:Talk to your parents about it then go straight to the Rev or pastor that will officiate it n pour your heart to him..I promise u he will stand by u and your family to call it off. Remember it's an everlasting journey a minute without joy and happiness brings your grave faster than u think. Good luck to you. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by phemmylink(m): 11:50am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: Better call it off |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by InvertedHammer: 11:50am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:/ You know all these character flaws already. So there is no cause for alarm. Apams need more customers. / |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGift: 11:50am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You can call of the wedding. You should call of the wedding But would you be Wise and courageous enough to do so? Bear the so called "shame" for a few weeks instead of bearing the sure to come pain for many years, only to maybe call of the marriage after so much time lost. If He has beaten you before the wedding, what do you think will happen after the marriage. Even if it is a day to the wedding, you can still call it off. Do something wise and courageous and call of that wedding. And may your future be brighter than you currently see it to be. Amen!. Warrior14: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by jeff1607(m): 11:51am On Oct 25, 2021 |
One sided story, so nothing endeared him to you abi? All the sweet side of him never existed or his finance and spending that made you to date him at the beginning. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Tallcutie(f): 11:52am On Oct 25, 2021 |
[b][/b]ODE!!!!!!!! jos4kay: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Rajosh(m): 11:53am On Oct 25, 2021 |
The shame is nothing compared to the hell you'll go through in that marriage. Cancel the wedding, travel and switch off your phone |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGift: 11:54am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You CAN call of the wedding. You SHOULD call of the wedding But WOULD you be Wise and courageous enough to do so? Will you make the right choice and bear the so called "shame" for a few weeks, so that you can be truly proud of yourself. Or will you choose instead to bear the sure to come pain for many years, only to very likely end in divorce or a miserable marriage. If He has beaten you before the wedding, what do you think will happen after the marriage? Love may start a relationship but it is respect that keeps it in a healthy state. Even if it is a day to the wedding, you can still call it off. Do something wise and courageous and call of that wedding. May your future be brighter than you currently see it to be. Amen!. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Wegood: 11:55am On Oct 25, 2021 |
you beta call of the wedding if you are not happy |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGift: 11:55am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You CAN call of the wedding. You SHOULD call of the wedding. But WOULD you be Wise and courageous enough to do so? Will you make the right choice and bear the so called "shame" for a few weeks, so that you can be truly proud of yourself. Or will you choose instead to bear the sure to come pain for many years, only to very likely end in divorce or a miserable marriage. If He has beaten you before the wedding, what do you think will happen after the marriage? Love may start a relationship but it is respect that keeps it in a healthy state. Even if it is a day to the wedding, you can still call it off. Do something wise and courageous and call of that wedding. May your future be brighter than you currently see it to be. Amen!. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by CableWire: 11:55am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Don't even go there... Who's raising all these girls bikonu? No value whatsoever to themselves. See **x tapes littered all over the place, girls meddling into peoples' marriages and you get to see majority of their likes appraising their ill-deeds, rape and all. You said, 'you are already planning for your divorce even when you are yet to get married in 3 weeks'. Chaiiiiii, wake up from your slumber. Case study: I'm currently in the east..why? I have a cousin sister with half-brain like this poster probably, a year ago she was thinking and analyzing her marriage like this when people that gathered to enjoy with her on her wedding day were busy taking pictures, smiling, socializing , eating, laughing and drinking. Just 2-weeks ago, the said husband picked a knife and stabbed her multiple times and later cut her open before calling their neighbors to inform her brothers so as to take her to the hospital, that she had accident. The brothers rushed to their house and met her dead in the pool of her blood. Currently, she's in the mortuary and the man in the correctional unit with no slight of remorse. The point here: The dead is dead! So poster...keep tossing around your crude ego now but hope you will divorce him alive with all these you stated in this CV of his? Parents please, let's do better in raising our children. Teach them to know their worth, value and self-realization. Enough of all these nonsense...thinking it's been woke and fly. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by MrMacinterchi1: 11:56am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:are you just realizing this now ? were you tied down to something before now or threatened? why did you accept? because if you didn't you won't have gotten to this stage Be wise now you still have time to act. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by peedeeasobie(m): 11:57am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: All the advice for you to run or cancel the wedding will fall on deaf ears. You value the idea of marriage more than your own well-being and happiness. Listen, the man will kill you. You are not married to him and he is beating you, by the time you marry him, he will kill you. That marriage may be your coffin. I know you will say 'God forbids... that's what others in the grave said when people advised them. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by incogni2o: 11:57am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: Hope you are not someone who runs her mouth like leaking tap water. This one you say you are strong and he beats you Calm down and be a wife. If you aren't ready, call it quit or better still,, suspend it girl so you don't end up sucking happiness away from yourselves. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by godofuck231: 11:57am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:go to the nearest NAPTIP office and lodge your complaints , a judge would sanction the marriage process and restrain the ceremony from taking place then your case would be heard |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGift: 11:57am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Sweet side of someone that has beaten Her twice before marrying Her? This is the kind of thinking that makes people stay in abusive relationships. You now want Her to downplay something that is sure to make Her miserable based on something that once made Her happy? jeff1607: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by marsup: 11:58am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Pls don't be foolish. You don't want the shame of calling of your wedding, but you can risk your life? If you were my sister, I would have beaten you black and blue, before taking you for brain reset. You are either lying or you are just plain foolish. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Elhabeeb1(m): 11:58am On Oct 25, 2021 |
If your are sure you won't be happy for the rest of your life in that marriage, call it off immediately, now now now. You hear me so. An advice fro. A married man. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by salvation77177: 11:59am On Oct 25, 2021 |
You are a joker. So, you are wanting for someone on nairaland to tell you what to do? O just pray you receive the wisdom that would enable you live a long life on Earth. I won't say anything more than this. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Forumobserver12(m): 11:59am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: Didn't you see all this signs before the wedding was fixed ? It's better you call off the wedding now than divorce.... You accused the guy of not being independent minded yet you exhibit the same attributes, why must you be more concern about people's opinion rather than your Peace of mind and Happiness? |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheGift: 12:00pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
"Sweet side" indeed. Sweet side of someone that has beaten Her twice before marrying Her? Surely you can't be serious. This is the kind of thinking that makes people stay in abusive relationships. You now want Her to downplay something that is sure to make Her miserable based on something that once made Her happy? ... Warped! jeff1607: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by marsup: 12:01pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
CableWire:sorry about your cousin. So sad. The op is just being foolish. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Praktikals(m): 12:08pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
wunmi590:As a married man you should know better than to base your conclusion on what a woman says. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Testimony1988(m): 12:12pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Its better to call off the marriage than to marry and divorce him, a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Bamzyriches451: 12:13pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Aunty na lifetime journey u dey go so o Better withdraw ASAP if u know what's good for you cuz that man will never change |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by ruthola(f): 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Cancel the wedding or risk living in self pity and regret for the rest of your life. A wedding called off is better than a divorce. In the end, you will discover that it's not worth it. I repete, dont go ahead.... |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by greypencils: 12:17pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14:Simply buy a new a sim, destroy the former and disappear, go stay with a friend he doesn't know for at least 3 months. You go too suffer for that marriage if you attempt it. |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Aganju849: 12:19pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: Them time you rope enter the marriage ni, abi na longathroat be your problem? |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by player007(m): 12:19pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: |
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Ayion: 12:20pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Warrior14: Look fo money, write a note and run. Make sure you write all the above stated red flags in the note. Come back after 2 or 3 years. If you’ve found love before coming back, good. If not, when you come back don’t stay long before leaving again don’t let anyone or anything ruin your life and happiness(even if it’s your parents) |
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