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My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:12pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Hi all We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating. Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry. The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else. A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this. (no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female) Please how do we the children handle this issue? 114 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Bola146(f): 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else. A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this. It's a real jazz, 85 old man can't have that power, the woman is just collecting his money. Your father need a serious prayer 283 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by MRDEE01: 7:19pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
I don't want to imagine how he lived in his youth 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by xpressionx(m): 7:19pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Be ready to meet your new siblings from far and near 285 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:23pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
xpressionx:let them come we are waiting. 96 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:25pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Bola146:upkeeps I send Before a week and half am starting to get calls. i just tire 7 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Imagine ooo.Please I want to ask,do old men have erection? 88 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Kobojunkie: 7:28pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave:Be honest! For how long has your dad actually been cheating on your mom? From what you wrote, it doesn't sound like the man suddenly started this, for lack of a better word, habit of his in his old age. 20 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Bola146(f): 7:31pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: The old man is not in his senses unless you relocate him to a far distance. God will punish the woman unless she is not using juju, but if she is using juju God will spoil her jazz 143 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year. he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out. the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel. after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month. 126 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:34pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Bola146: don't insult him please, act mature. 41 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by JimmyfixDesigns: 7:36pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Selfishness is the root of all family problems. https://familymatterssolution..com/2021/10/are-you-family-person.html 6 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Bola146(f): 7:37pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: Act matured for what pele, I wish you and him the best solutions. 82 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by ExAngel007(f): 7:38pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
relocate him to another place. 10 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Bola146:people like you make us regret bringing our problems to the outside world in search of solutions. do have a good evening. 191 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by tommy589(m): 7:52pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Sometimes it is good to have fun and experience some adventures in your younger days. You realised your mistakes in the course of doing this and be a better man as you advanced in age. It is not jazz,he is now experimenting what he missed in his younger days. Tell him to be discreet about it for your mom sake. He has few years left, don't let this affect your relationship with him 115 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by greenie77: 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Start by seriously slashing the money sent to him as the woman is collecting it from him. If he is on medication, get a pharmacy to deliver the drug(s) to him and pay the pharmacy directly. Once he has little or no money to give the woman, it would gradually lead to the woman cutting him off. 418 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
ExAngel007:he lives in his own house, we should go and rent house for him. not possible. 14 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 8:00pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
greenie77:thanks very much for this, but don't you think it's a little bit too harsh? we wouldn't want to treat him like a kid or make him feel like we are punishing him for his misdeeds. no matter what he's still the head of the family. 47 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by tommy589(m): 8:03pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: If he enjoys the woman company he would still go. Let him enjoy the little time he has left with this known area woman or you want to push him to another that will get pregnant 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 8:04pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: How old is your mum? At the stage she is in her life, I don't think she should bother herself with however an 85yr old man has chosen to live the rest of his life. So, she should simply stop stressing herself over the matter and let him do whatever and however he wants. You and your siblings should just make sure she has all she needs. Ya lefuru agadi nwoke anya! 181 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by GlorifiedTunde(m): 8:07pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Bola146: What did I hear you say? A man of 85 is not supposed to have sexual urges? 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
tommy589: exactly my thoughts, your right on point. i could remember when I was a teenager, every weekdays, the whole family spends it in the church. he does it codedly, the woman sometimes calls him when he's at home, even a dumb person will know that's her, we can't support his acts it's not right at all, thats why we are looking for a more better way. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 8:15pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
mariahAngel:she's also advanced but not like my dad, yes we send her own upkeeps differently. what is the meaning of the words you typed in your dialet. |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Bola146(f): 8:16pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
GlorifiedTunde: I know but not as before, that age is too old! 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 8:20pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: It means she should simply ignore the old man(for her peace of mind). Seriously, she shouldn't live the rest of her life stressing herself over your dad's infidelity like a young wife. She has you guys(her children) 59 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
mariahAngel:thanks. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 8:26pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
OssyMalik: Baba dey flex! 11 Likes |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 8:48pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Icouldhave: Your mum has had the best of him. She has nothing to lose. 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by crackhaus: 8:48pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Papa is a rolling stone, a living legend... At 85, so many of us will wish we still have the cojones to support our spiritual urges. A very blessed man he is, your daddy. 122 Likes 12 Shares |
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