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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by SafetyPlug(m): 8:06pm On Nov 13, 2021
Please, come and buy fire extinguisher from me and use it to extinguish that her behaviour. cheesy


I am still your surest SafetyPlug. cool
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by ossyla(m): 8:10pm On Nov 13, 2021
Davash222:

This is where your problem lies...

Why do you believe she's a good woman?

It's easier to see chilled water in Hell than to meet a good Nigerian girl.

What are you saying?
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Bigpapi: 8:10pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.




She's a bastard bro

Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Coldie(m): 8:10pm On Nov 13, 2021
She might be a good person, using of fowl language might just be as a result of her back ground
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by rickyboss333: 8:11pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Bro, if this is d only problem u have with her, (and u even say she also apologizes later), my brother u don't have a problem na. With all u have said about her, pls she is an A grade 4 a partner. No body is 100%. There is always a bad side to everyone. She uses foul words and curses because that's d best way she can actually express her anger. Brother, is it not better than having d one that will break and spoil things in d house or even threatening u with a knife? It's even better than those that will keep mute n say nothing, lol cos u don't know what's on thier minds.
My advice will be that u deal with that part of her life.I don't want to say u talk to her cos am sure u had probably done that already. Just try abeg, manage that part of her excesses. I understand how it is to be insulted, especially by ur woman cos I also hate insults. So what I do is I try as much as I can to avoid getting her or anyone infuriated to such level. And if it does happen and she insults me knowing fully well that I hate such, I'll simply leave d house just 2 ensure I don't do something I'll regret cos 2 wrongs doesn't make it right, n make sure I am inassessible to her for some days and punish her emotionally cos that's d only way to punish an adult, just like we flog a child when they do wrong.

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by ossyla(m): 8:11pm On Nov 13, 2021
call her to order. Talk some expensive senses into her
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Clinghton: 8:14pm On Nov 13, 2021
I think you're in a better position to advice yourself, because most people are naturally verbally abusive which I don't like, so you should know if you can endure it in marriage, or better still talk to Ber about it.
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Exczz: 8:17pm On Nov 13, 2021
Really
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Prenonjebose: 8:18pm On Nov 13, 2021
DeipTruth:


Sorry, but your initial submission is out. FOR THREE YEARS CONSECUTIVELY SHE HAS INSULTED OP, E REMAIN TO BREAK BOTTLE FOR IM HEAD AFTER 5YEARS OF MARRIAGE.

DONT EVER ACCEPT AN ABUSIVE PARTNER IN YOUR LIFE.
My bad. I missed the 3 years period. It would be difficult for things to genuinely change if the guy had never tolerated not failed to express his dislike for that behaviour of hers.
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Meenabee(f): 8:19pm On Nov 13, 2021
Na wa oh. When she has kids she would ruin their lives with her words. Words have power to build or tear down. Curses and foul words from a wife or mother is DOOM!.
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Solatium(m): 8:23pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.



A woman who is yet to have a stake in your home is already cursing you and you said she is a good woman?
Wait until when she is fully established in your home,you go hear am

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by MummyD2020(f): 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.
You are the one in the relationship, the one been insulted and the one to get married. And you think we have an opinion over your decision. I dont know why some posts here dont go through scrutiny before going public. Oya curse am back na or call off the union. Asking a bunch of strangers who have their own unresolved issues

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Solofresh2: 8:30pm On Nov 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You endured it for 3 years and now you want to come to ask us what? If you can break up with her because of it? undecided

There is nothing illegal about having a foul mouth and it could even be a symptoms of mental issues she has yet to tackle. You can suggest mental health counseling to her but know that there is nothing wrong with her as as person in that. undecided
Watsup dear
You good cool
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Dantee8433: 8:32pm On Nov 13, 2021
Oga manage it like dat good women scarce pass 3 for 200 kpanla for Nigeria....My own go swear for both my mama sef but i no send her ....i take am say her craze na follow come... grin grin
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by cownobygo: 8:32pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.
for three years bro you really tried but you can still change her way have patience and report her to her friends for advice
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by BlissGod: 8:34pm On Nov 13, 2021
As a woman, this is highly preposterous.

If you can tolerate insult and curses for 3years, sorry you might not live long after marriage.

She will upgrade to physical abusive and most likely might kill you.

If she doesn't succeed, you'll be frustrated and might even change into a monster to defend your pride.

Get sense o! God is showing you mercy don't marry there girl.

I say do not marry any woman that disrespects you. She will never never ever honor you as her head.

A broken relationship is better than marriage ooo.

Don't allow sentiment make you regret your entire life.

Marriage was designed to be enjoyed not tolerated.

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Leshyne(m): 8:36pm On Nov 13, 2021
For u to bring this here, that means you have am issue with it. Answer this question, after u get married, and she insult ur family. Will u be able to stomach it?
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by lonelydora: 8:37pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by November24(f): 8:37pm On Nov 13, 2021
Polynek:
Lol grin U win marry angel abi grin
My Broda nobody is complete, if her good side is above %80 out 100 go ahead bcox even u get ur own shortcomings.
I rest my case

A woman who curses her husband or fiancee is 100 percent nonsense.
Men love their respect
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by muheeb01(m): 8:38pm On Nov 13, 2021
This is deep red flag oo,abort the mission

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Elidrisy20: 8:41pm On Nov 13, 2021
Just give her Belle , she will know that you are the oga
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Ubanz: 8:43pm On Nov 13, 2021
And u still call her ur fiancee shocked

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by 15ssDRIVE(m): 8:43pm On Nov 13, 2021
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.


advice number 1: lower ur voice to the lowest, when ever she raises hers.

If that remedy doesn't work.

Advice 2, seat Madam down and let her know, you are a real male, if disrespect is the order of the day.

if this no work tooo......


You get it? if you dont get it, forget about it.

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by wildikeman(m): 8:49pm On Nov 13, 2021
Bleep UR FIANCEE MEN.. Bleep HER. SHE IS A PUTA.. PUTARINA
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by madjune(m): 8:51pm On Nov 13, 2021
Years ago, I had one similar Delta babe like this too.
She was the nicest babe I ever had but once I cross or she doesn't get what she wanted, she'd start raining curses here and there.
I loved her as much as a ring on her finger but when I sought the counsel of a wise old man in my village,

He told me, " No poison has greater potency than the
the curse of your spouse whom you share same
Bed with..."

That was it.
I changed my mind and moved on, for the sake of my inner peace and stories that touch...

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by Nnamaka1: 8:52pm On Nov 13, 2021
Give her a good slap and you too apologize later.
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by CALCULUS16: 8:53pm On Nov 13, 2021
Prayfortheworld:
If she swear for you swear for am na..

Na when Marriage set she go show you pepper, she just dy do good woman so you go fall inside her trap (marriage) na then you go know reason why fowl dy look up when them dy drink water.
cheesy
Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by elasticlala: 8:54pm On Nov 13, 2021
Don’t try it bro, it will not end well. It’s a one chance thing…I made such mistake about 6yrs agoi when I had no one to advice me then and it ended in setback (about 7yrs backward). The painful part is that entering it is easy but going out is very difficult …if at all u survive it. Presently, I avoid such girls more than somebody with covid-19 symptoms. Bro, RUN!
Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

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Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by elasticlala: 8:56pm On Nov 13, 2021
elasticlala:
Don’t try it bro, it will not end well. It’s a one chance thing…I made such mistake about 6yrs ago when I had no one to advice me then and it ended in setback (about 7yrs backward). The painful part is that entering it is easy but going out is very difficult …if at all u survive it. Presently, I avoid such girls more than somebody with covid-19 symptoms. Bro, RUN!

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