Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

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Tribal differences, I think she is from the West and u are from akwa ibom or so, bcs yoruba women can cause or swear for Africa.

Prayfortheworld:
If she swear for you swear for am na..

Na when Marriage set she go show you pepper, she just dy do good woman so you go fall inside her trap (marriage) na then you go know reason why fowl dy look up when them dy drink water.

Exactly on point. Her true colour is what she voices out. Her type can kill when in anger. It is hard to change an adult who has an anger issue.

Walk away from the relationship now so that we don't read ur obituary herein.

Na Yoruba girl, I come in peace �

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

My brother, that's the signal to run!!! A woman that curse and use fowl language on you in any state doesn't respect you. Don't ever make the mistake of marrying such woman, you will surely regret it!!!! Run!!!

Baamisere to fe Baamijaa


you're still in relationship stage with a lady and she's using curses and abuse on you whenever she's angry and you don't see that as problem ahead?


if a lady like that could be repeating that over and over again even after apologizing, you should know she still have many bad characters in stock for you in the marriage


wait for physical assault, destruction of properties, toxic among others



dem no dey telli person

ChiefSosa:
Then you should find out what makes her angry and how it can be avoided or reduced.
Research shows that people that use foul words tend to be more honest.

Research from where

If she curse u, curse am back. Simple.

GroundnutSoup9:
Isn’t this my neighbor? Bamisire is that you?

If it happens again..
..
Let assume her name is chioma,
Just look into her eyes and be very serious, asin mean every words you are about say..
Then tell her..
"Chioma, the very next time you use foul languages around me, just pack ur bags and leave my life..
I cannot spend the rest of my life tolerating rubbish"

Then, if she does it again..
You are justified to dump her asap..

Or if you wouldn't want to loose her, but she uses foul words after that finally warning..

Then you have to be a little more extreme in ur reactions..

Make her feel as if it is really over between both of you because of her foul languages..

Detach from her totally
No physical contacts
No calls
Noting nothing..
Just ghost her for like 3weeks or more..
Make sure no matter how much she begs, don't seem to compromise

If she loves you and cherish the relationship, she will still come back to apologize after that long, and judging from ur last reactions on her, she will do all she can to quit it..
That's if she no wan lose you be that o..

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

I Know say...Na Yoruba Girl...Na their Way...very Bad Upbringing. TALK TO HER ONE ON ONE,PLS. If She is a GENUINE Christian,She will Do away with Abuses and Curses...even her Anger Management Style will be better for it.

If things b like this then the head of the house(Man) must take up his priesthood regalia and pray in accordance with your true faith.

Red Flag ,Flee Flee Flee .. Don't Be Deceived by the Nice Nice aspect...If U don't U will b D one to Dig Ur Grave ...

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Give us example of the foul language she use on you

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

curse your own back na... but on a serious note, what are you still doing with someone like that?

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

Just know it will get worse after "I Do". So look for a way to tame the mouth

Just one word "Run"
Speaking from experience. I've been there before and I ran. No regrets today!

Red flags we ignore early in relationship most times are the things that end the relationship.

3yrs !!!!!

Keep convincing yourself

U HV already seen d write hand on d wall..what are u looking at again

Ditch her quickly.

She is not a good wife material.

Guy reason this thing very well before you put ring in her hand
U said she is a good woman but still curse when she is angry
she may be pretending to be a good woman and show you her true colors when she is angry we have seen alot of woman that Change after marriage and the man will be like this is not the woman I got married to
Secondly, a lot of people say what they really think about you when they are angry


Bro I know won talk much this is just my opinion

She don see you finish.

If you marry that thing, it will get worse. Marriage makes every bad thing worse.

Drop her and move. Don't be a simp, it's not romantic

Run for ur life am passing through similar thing in my marriage be and it can be fustrating

@OP She never enter house, she dey curse and insult you.. why do I have this feeling the lady is Igbo?

My advice is if you can't put up with her behaviour which I think has to do with upbringing, end the relationship else you won't enjoy your marriage to her.

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

What you're seeing now is just 10%

If you're foolish enough to marry her despite all the red flags you will see the whole 100%!

[quote author=Baamisere post=107561188]Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.[forget her]

Baamisere
Dump her. Foul language is a no no.

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.

However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

If you marry her, you’re done for. Ti e ba e ni yen o.
The truth is, she does not have any respect and is too much of a woman for you.

Marriage is long time forever. If she can't change now, there's no guarantee that she will change in marriage.

She might have other good qualities, so it is up to you to decide if her good outweighs her bad and if you can live with that.

Goodluck with that.

Davash222:

This is where your problem lies...

Why do you believe she's a good woman?

It's easier to see chilled water in Hell than to meet a good Nigerian girl.

Does it Mean we dot have any good women in this country apart from our mothers?

HopeVictor:
You no better leave her before you go vex one day shift her jaw..