| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by INCREDIBLE007(m): 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Shokoloko:
Your writeup seems to proffer a solution to females to curb sexual immorality.
While it might favour the woman, but it doesn't talk about the problems that polygamy will cause for the children Na the tweet be this Problem buckle well Well 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by gabbytabby: 1:02pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Its more a case of get exposed to STD from various sources tufiakwa. Most polygamous homes are characterised by people giving birth to a lot of children that even when they think they have money usually water go done pass garri such that it’s survival of the fittest. Children should not really be brought into this world to suffer. In our day education was almost free up to secondary and the crack starts to show when it gets to higher education. 16 children and 7 extended family making 23 children how many can afford to adequately feed, cloth, house and educate all this when they are not Dangote. Because of the sheer number of children involved, a lot of the children from polygamous homes are not educated. Toks2008:
I have many single mums as friends and most of them have been single for years as in no sex.
So tell me if it won't be a succour to even feel the touch of a man even if it is once a week.
If you know the number of ladies in the categories I highlighted you will agree with me that polygamy is the future.
The crazy part is that many single guys see ever ready to catch cruise with these ladies until they are fed up with them.
You may never understand this write up until you find yourself in any of the groups.
If he did the will well there won't be any issue. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by 1000angstroms(m): 1:04pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.
Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.
The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.
Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.
1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.
2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.
3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.
4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .
5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.
6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?
Make i stop here Headslammers justifying the main essence of islam which was fashioned around the rabid dog prophet mohammad's libido. |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Mftivi: 1:08pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
TheOnlyUyai:
An article churned from the stables of a notorious polygamist.
I don't mind being a last wife to Dangote shaa. Who cares? The ones wey no be polygamist, na still the same them be. I can't lose both ways, biko.
Look at Regina, that girl will never have any sort of problem as long as finance and influence are concerned up to her 10th generation. Let me just catch a whiff of something close. I got him locked. lol oshey locker! |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by joyandfaith: 1:09pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.
Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.
The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.
Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.
1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.
2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.
3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.
4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .
5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.
6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?
Make i stop here 1. Polygamy has never solved issue of adultery or fornication. If you can stick with one woman, you are not likely to stick with 4 women. 2. Not every person would get married and not every married couple would have children. 3. Divorcee, widow, single mum, older ladies should go for older men who are like them. Interestingly, older men, divorcee, widower and single dad tend to get attracted to older ladies, single mum and likes. It is irony that it is married men and older bachelors that like chasing young girls. 4. Every woman should set meaningful life goals and pursue them. Marriage is not one of them, though. 1 Like |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:11pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Amarabae:
Sorry I can't share my husband with another woman as a co-wife
imagine using timetable to determine when to sleep with him,
me that love playing with that thing every night 
lol
on a serious note, polygamy is a high risk, involves a lot of dramas and stress.
One pencil
One Sharpener I just bust out laughing anytime i read this line from ladies. Babe it is not in your place to decide if you can or cant share your husband. it is up to him to decide if he wants to be shared and if he chooses to, you are left with two options. STAY OR LEAVE 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by sellers4buyers(m): 1:12pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Polygamy polygamy polygamy
I support and preach it, why?
The nature that made the sperm cells with X chromosome to stay longer than that of Y chromosomes did that for a reason, which is to ensure the survival of our specie by having more females than male.
2ndly, polygamy is fun and lovely especially when the man ensures equality among the wivies to the best of his ability. There will be peace and harmony in the home.
I intend to practice polygamy and am working towards that. The two ladies in my life now has agreed to that without issues and I will definitely marry them one at a time, ones we meet the conditions we set for ourselves.
We've all sat down and define the terms both now and in the marriage proper. As for property sharing after death, what I intend doing is train the children very well interms of business and academics, handover or set up their own business for them in my life time nothing will I will to my children except my books, diaries and contacts.
As for my wives after death, they have their career and businesses to rely on. And offcause , you doing well in your business or career is part of the requirements for marrying you.
I believe this model will work for me and I look forward to writing a book on practicing polygamy. I believe that is the way to go. Our brothers in the North are practicing it and they have fewer singles than we do in the south. Peace. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Amarabae(f): 1:14pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
I just bust out laughing anytime i read this line from ladies.
Babe it is not in your place to decide if you can or cant share your husband. it is up to him to decide if he wants to be shared and if he chooses to, you are left with two options.
STAY OR LEAVE sorry he hates polygamy the same way I do. not all men love the idea. Its weird seeing a young guy like you fascinating about polygamy 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:15pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
joyandfaith:
1. Polygamy has never solved issue of adultery or fornication. If you can stick with one woman, you are not likely to stick with 4 women.
2. Not every person would get married and not every married couple would have children.
3. Divorcee, widow, single mum, older ladies should go for older men who are like them. Interestingly, older men, divorcee, widower and single dad tend to get attracted to older ladies, single mum and likes.
It is irony that it is married men and older bachelors that like chasing young girls.
4. Every woman should set meaningful life goals and pursue them. Marriage is not one of them, though. When I say curb I mean curb NOT SOLVE and I was referring to the women not men. Polygamy curbs sexual immorality in women. This is a FACT |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by pocohantas(f): 1:17pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Amarabae:
sorry he hates polygamy the same way I do.
not all men love the idea.
Its weird seeing a young guy like you fascinating about polygamy Someone that served in the 80s is young?  4 Likes |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Hassanmaye(m): 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.
Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.
The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.
Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.
1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.
2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.
3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.
4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .
5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.
6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?
Make i stop here I hope they will listen to this great advice sir. 1 Like |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Nobody: 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
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[b]Make i stop here With the possible exception of the so called unlucky ones (depending on their individual story) it really is the only option for 99% of women in these groups......but alas they will continue to fail to embrace their reality. No good single man worth anything in his right mind will marry any of the women in those groups. 2 Likes |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:18pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Amarabae:
sorry he hates polygamy the same way I do.
not all men love the idea.
Its weird seeing a young guy like you fascinating about polygamy That is what they say... They hate polygamy but still fvks side chic or you want to vouch for him on that too? Please I beg you just don't go there... One of the most hypocritical things men do is celebrating years of monogamous marriage anniversary but neglecting to celebrate the anniversary with the side chic. Please whatever you do, never eve trust any man when it comes to woman matter Nah my 50kobo be dat. And about me fascinating about polygamy... Well the truth is that I am a writer and when I write I don't focus on what I fascinate about but I write realistically on issues. This is not about me, I pride myself as one of the most sexually decent guys out there. I have been on Nairaland for years and no single lady on this forum has anything on me and no lady in the world can point an accusing finger at me. So leave fantasies out of it. IT IS WHAT IT IS 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Utoimie: 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Klass99:
I'm not sure any sensible and well grounded individual takes him seriously.
@ Shokoloko, you made nice, reasonable comments and responses to the topic and original poster. I like 
Unfollows thread at this point. Stop being self centered....we know no women like rivalry...But the truth must be told and reality faced.....just pray you don't find yourself in such situation before you appreciate what op is saying.. 3 Likes |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Righteousness2(m): 1:20pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Ignore all these confused teachings of men like Toks2008 that are wise in their own eyes. These are Ungodly and evil teachings that will Destroy your soul.
No matter your age , No matter your Matter! Stick to what GOD says. Read your Bible, see GOD'S word and abide by it.
Polygamy is not of GOD. It is a sin. That is not GOD'S Standard.
Whatever you do you in life, stick to GOD'S Standard because will account to GOD .
If you are in such a union, you are thief, home breaker and a robber. Except the legally married 1st Wife or husband is Dead.
If you value your soul, or you Desire Eternal life with JESUS Christ,pack your baggage and go back to your father's house.
GOD'S word will not change no matter how the world changes.
Eternity is not a community race.
Eternity is a Personal Race.
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| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by joyandfaith: 1:20pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
When I say curb I mean curb NOT SOLVE and I was referring to the women not men. Polygamy curbs sexual immorality in women. This is a FACT
What happens when polygamous man dies? What is the fate of 4 wives he would leave behind? Back to ground zero? |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by nellyelitz(m): 1:20pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
2 Timothy 3:16
All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. when the serpent spoke in Genesis was it inspired by God? what of when the demon spoke to Apostle Ppaul through that little girl, was that inspiration came from God? sorry sir, the scripture should be rightly divided not just running with verses out of its contexts.. |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Nobody: 1:22pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
the irony of life is that the same women who look down on polygamy are side chicks and baby mamas without fathers or will die alone. If you are a side chick you are already in a polygamous relationship without the benefits, recognition or the status whether you realise it or not.. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Nobody: 1:25pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Shokoloko:
Your writeup seems to proffer a solution to females to curb sexual immorality.
While it might favour the woman, but it doesn't talk about the problems that polygamy will cause for the children whatever problems polygamy create for a child are less than the problems of a fatherless baby. If you are in a position where you are considering polygamy, it is clear no man wants to marry you as an only wife and the best options are not available to you if you want to have a child. So its a question of the lesser of evils. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by sageb: 1:26pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Amarabae:
Sorry I can't share my husband with another woman as a co-wife
imagine using timetable to determine when to sleep with him,
me that love playing with that thing every night
lol
on a serious note, polygamy is a high risk, involves a lot of dramas and stress.
One pencil
One Sharpener Chai! Oriaku is a spoilt lady Nothing Wike no go hear for Oyigbo |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:26pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Utoimie:
Stop being self centered....we know no women like rivalry...But the truth must be told and reality faced.....just pray you don't find yourself in such situation before you appreciate what op is saying..
attached is a success story of a polygamous man that your likes won't show you....
@ the embolden, this is why I ignore comments from most of them cos they are still at that point when they dwell on fantasies.. Those in the listed groups will just read and ponder but you see those teenagers and smallies who still think it is about their beauty or wishful thinking I always tell them to calm down... They may come back to this thread to read again in the nearest future. E ni ba lo mo. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by sellers4buyers(m): 1:27pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Righteousness2:
Ignore all these confused teachings of men that are wise in their own eyes. These are Ungodly and evil teachings that will Destroy your soul.
No matter your age , No matter your Matter! Stick to what GOD says. Read your Bible, see GOD'S word and abide by it.
Polygamy is not of GOD. It is a sin. That is not GOD'S Standard.
Whatever you do you in life, stick to GOD'S Standard because will account to GOD .
Eternity is not a community race.
Eternity is a Personal Race.
Where is it stated in the BIBLE OLD AND NEW that polygamy is a SIN I will like to know brother. The only place I know the Bible goes against polygamy is in 1Timoty 3:1-2 in there, it's actually a requirement for someone who wants to be a Bishop. I will like to know any other verses that outrightly condemned polygamy as a SIN please. Cheers. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by GABRIEL6036: 1:28pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Shokoloko:
Your writeup seems to proffer a solution to females to curb sexual immorality.
While it might favour the woman, but it doesn't talk about the problems that polygamy will cause for the children Brain full ya head Joor, u reason wella. Why will the OP talk on positive part of polygamy and neglect the negative aspect. You need to re-modify . |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by TheOnlyUyai(f): 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
VULCAN:
Thanks for letting us know that your life principles are shaped by money.
Although that is the case with the many African women but it's always refreshing when one of you admits it.
Well Done
Thanks, dear. |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by donestk(m): 1:33pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
perambulator:
the irony of life is that the same women who look down on polygamy are side chicks and baby mamas without fathers or will die alone. If you are a side chick you are already in a polygamous relationship without the benefits, recognition or the status whether you realise it or not.. |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by GABRIEL6036: 1:34pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Toks2008:
I just bust out laughing anytime i read this line from ladies.
Babe it is not in your place to decide if you can or cant share your husband. it is up to him to decide if he wants to be shared and if he chooses to, you are left with two options.
STAY OR LEAVE Bros, for a lady to say this out of her mind means there is certainty of death around the corner for the man or the second wife brought in |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:34pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
perambulator:
whatever problems polygamy create for a child are less than the problems of a fatherless baby. If you are in a position where you are considering polygamy, it is clear no man wants to marry you as an only wife and the best options are not available to you if you want to have a child. So its a question of the lesser of evils. I have a beautiful single mum friend who is in the process of divorcing her husband and the sad twist is that the child she has for the guy has not set his eyes on his dad and the last has made up her mind to keep the child away from him forever and what is the offence of the guy?... He was previously married and the last has no clue. After I sat her down and explained some deep things to her, she said what pained her was the lies that he ought to have told her he was previously married and I agree with her but I reiterated that no matter the case, that child deserves to know his dad but she refused. So to buttress your point I strongly believe that polygamy does not create problem for any child but the main problem is created by divorce and ladies who think the best way to deal with a baby daddy or ex husband is to deny the kids access to him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by gabbytabby: 1:35pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Remember it’s now all about you and everyone else be damned. Your children are watching you and learning. Sleekfingers:
What good reason? I know what I was saying , when I mentioned attitude......I just don't wanna say exactly what she is doing......
Yes, if the second wife to be , is doing anyhow too, I will marry a third wife.........abi, na crime to have more than one wife? |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by yemi1504: 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
goshikid:
Never marry a liability in form of a wife if you want to live young, because na only you and you alone go suffer, because nowadays, girls are waiting for already made men, something where their papa no fit afford for them  And I wonder where they learnt it from as if our mothers did the same, most of us will not be alive today. I am an example. Reason most of these rich men play women like snookers as they won't leave due to their feelings, and if they do leave at least two to three other women are ready to take their place. My foolish sister has a mentor who thinks like most of them do these days and she is close to marriageable age SMH. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by Toks2008(m): 1:37pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
GABRIEL6036:
Bros, for a lady to say this out of her mind means there is certainty of death around the corner for the man or the second wife brought in No reasonable man brings a woman to live in the same home with the first wife... That is the angle many are seeing it from. These days you let the new wife stay in her own apartment and all you do is spend different days with each one of them. Any lady that kills or threatens to kill a man because he wants another lady is mentally unstable. She is free to leave. 1 Like |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by GABRIEL6036: 1:38pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
sellers4buyers:
Where is it stated in the BIBLE OLD AND NEW that polygamy is a SIN I will like to know brother.
The only place I know the Bible goes against polygamy is in 1Timoty 3:1-2 in there, it's actually a requirement for someone who wants to be a Bishop. I will like to know any other verses that outrightly condemned polygamy as a SIN please. Cheers. Gen-genm  you don jam person who knows bibble pass you today Righteousness2. Oya answer the charges before you before I tear you slap ooo righteo 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) by yemi1504: 1:39pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
CUMIN:
Yes. Read more about the Islamic perspective on polygamy.
The number of single moms in the dating pool is alarming. Because of most of the decisions they took in their prime and their ugly behavior. As usual and as I always say, there are consequences for actions even if our church brothers continue to marry some of these liabilities. Not most of them could be lucky in this regard. 1 Like 1 Share |
