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Geestarry:
Smelling entitlement mentality!!

She should better learn how to be financially responsible, if not she will remain a liability to others.

@OP you should encourage her to learn a skill too, or she should buy and sell.

With 6k, she can buy and sell sachet water sef.

If she is not adding value to you, then you are better off alone, than being drained.

My 2 cents.

So no be all women dey stewpid? Abi u just type dis by mistake?

Candidlady:
lol

majority of my friends are males and trust me when isay iknw how ya'al dudes reason!

so bros i be "banny" wud like to see my "teetees"

Yessssssssssssss

Magnoliaa:
Ehyaaaa. So initially, she pretended like a good girl, ba? Traditional, virtuous, submissive, stove, grinding stone and washing machine? Now she's disturbing you for money? She's exactly the type I had in mind when I made a post some days ago. When redpillars tell you AWALT, una no go hear. See am now?

I don't disagree. Me, I am like every other woman oh. Don't goan be thinking I'm different in any way. You'll just go and disappoint yasef.

If as a man, you don't know what to do about this on your own, op -- I have nothing helpful to say to you.

Evil creature

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Quite a SIMPle man!

I no get strength for dis kind useless matter

I’m very sorry to say this but op the actions you took are VERY stupid. Smh

[Contact me, my mum works at Immigration, 08189308336(Whatsapp) author=ahnie post=107070571]Pls how much do I need to budget in acquiring a Nigerian passport and how do I go about it and how long will I have to wait?

Pls do well to answer my question.[/quote]

She is tired of you....noboooody should be compared to his\her ex

Just take a break

nesgeeek:
imagine comparing u to her ex. Op Nigerian ladies don't worth all the sacrifice u have made so far, try to develop yourself and ur family first, with that there will be a return on investment. Most ladies in Nigeria don't like good men.

You can say that again especially at the last statement! They are considered boring and last option to marry when they have gone through their hoeing phase. Just saying it as it is. I just wonder how marriages will be in the near future with the women and very few wives are SMH.

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Lol keep loving her, until our brain does factory reset. You think she loves you? Think again! Its conditional.

My advice: cut that excess baggage and move on with your life.

Divoc19:
I am team V.

You dn dey confuse Local man the more...
Team Va GI Na abi na team Virgin??

Nobody should blame this guy as 98 percent of guy's are into the same mess all because of stupid Love.

My own self worst pass this guy own, until I give myself brain small

By the way if she says she was testing you or that can't you take a joke or she will change. Exit the relationship. University age is not the age for stupidity.

Nonywendy:
DIY will take approximately 20,500 and you get it within 8weeks maximum. If it's urgent be ready to cough out like 35,000 to 45,000.
Did mine mysef and it came out in 7weeks time

I meant international passport.

1EmmyKay:
[Contact me, my mum works at Immigration, 08189308336(Whatsapp) author=ahnie post=107070571]Pls how much do I need to budget in acquiring a Nigerian passport and how do I go about it and how long will I have to wait?

Pls do well to answer my question.

I meant international passport.
Pls treat as urgent.

Once you start dating a Nigerian girl, be rest assured you've automatically become her ATM. They see it as their right to take care of them. Not minding your financial status. And when you give excuse for not having to give, they tag you "Stingy Man".

Invite a girl over for one night or weekend, as she;s going she expects you to give her money. Mean you did the whole work over night by satisfying her. Bot of you enjoyed the fun, but she will still expect you to give her money. Like say she give you money to keep for her. or like she did you a grat favor over the night.

Men..... we stop making it look like you're obliged to give these girls money. if they give men money no be bad thing.

If a man is the one asking for favour they'll tag the guy as a gold digger!

yemi1504:
You can say that again especially at the last statement! They are considered boring and last option to marry when they have gone through their hoeing phase. Just saying it as it is. I just wonder how marriages will be in the near future with the women and very few wives are SMH.

exactly

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

It's either you keep loving her and be ready to spend more to keep her and not allow her being snatched by another man

Or you use this her ungrateful character and drop her to go and look for a man she will milk for her pleasure

You can't be suffering for nothing, you can't, use your brain that's why it's inside your head

Beze992:
More like he created it to stimulate the usual women bashing here. Even a kid knows what to do in this case.

Exactly...!

Dextre:
Bro, it’s not that easy as it sounds to just walk away. He has clearly fall in too deep, If you have never fallen that deep in love before, no judge am o honestly. I have been a victim of falling too deep in love b4, but since the day wey e clear for my eye wey I japa, I don staunch. So I get his position, e nor easy at all, love na very crazy thing

Pele oo love raster...


Funny how this days many turn love to weakness pill can't you still love and stay strong ? ..

Moreover nah cock and buull story plenty for nairaland....

Please what should I do guys?
U can sleep well.


She's planning visiting me next month.
Wash your bedspread with hyssop


I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Please continue loving her.

Pls mature minds only.
Ur mind na omniMature

Your input will be of help.
Garbage in Garbage out output

Thanks guys.
Simp





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At least ur parents will know that they wasted mixture sperm and egg.


Goodluck


But if u get mind, text her now now that u are not interested again. Tell her ur ex did not stress u like this. And she wants to visit u next week. End of isiokwu.
No be only her get ex.

InoGetJoy:
How bro?
Do you have a contact who can help me with this?

I don't have. Just enter the I migration office at alausa. You will see them

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn, op,if to say you use that 300k buy bitcoin back then,I believe say by now you for don dey ball small small like yahoo boy..

I won't be surprised say na this type of op go settle down loosegaurd him fellow guyman because of ordinary 2k....But imagine am na,if to say na your guy you spend 1% of that money on,you think say that guy go fit ever loosegaurd you?

Well, let's bygones be bygones,like I normally tell my guys wey dey mumu follow women....Dem no dey tell blind man say fight don tear for Market before he dey TULELEH........But like seriously op,you fvck up,no be say I dey say na bad thing say you dey spend on your woman,but it's very important for every sensible guyman not to start any relation-boat with money....Even if you get too much money self,at least try use sense small..

Las las, no NIGERIAN lady worth one second of my headache

Hahahhahahaha

Fahdiga:
How much do you give to your mom monthly? Let's start from there

Hahahhahahaha wickedness

mybiz234:
You are an idiot. Do you have low self-esteem and you have to pay money to get love?

You are among the dumbest men I've encountered in a long time.

Haha

SILENTandSMART2:
Pele oo love raster...


Funny how this days many turn love to weakness pill can't you still love and stay strong ? ..

Moreover nah cock and buull story plenty for nairaland....

I think you have comprehension problems o, honestly and that’s sad. I’m talking about the person in question, not saying love is weakness.

Dextre:
I think you have comprehension problems o, honestly and that’s sad. I’m talking about the person in question, not saying love is weakness.

Be like you dey read ham upside down...... It's clear I'm referring to the guy .... That's just English...... People in that sentence means one person....

SILENTandSMART2:
Be like you dey read ham upside down...... It's clear I'm referring to the guy .... That's just English...... People in that sentence means one person....

Did you just say that’s just English and referenced people as one person? Lmao. Wetin Buhari nor go see for aso rock

I owe you #1000 credit

Geestarry:
Smelling entitlement mentality!!

She should better learn how to be financially responsible, if not she will remain a liability to others.

@OP you should encourage her to learn a skill too, or she should buy and sell.

With 6k, she can buy and sell sachet water sef.

If she is not adding value to you, then you are better off alone, than being drained.

My 2 cents.

Dextre:
Did you just say that’s just English and referenced people as one person? Lmao. Wetin Buhari nor go see for aso rock

Nah your problem be the rest boss..... E no concern me...