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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by seyz91(m): 9:43am On Dec 05, 2021
Abi

You dey mind am undecided
liya11:
This question is irrelevant at this stage mister.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by KoshCAD: 9:43am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Her parent can't just do anything, but just at least to help her.
I will advice you japa before it too late. Focus on your life and get one that will add value to your life.

Me, feed who, for where?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Fiscus105(m): 9:43am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Am not complaining, but I want to push her to her parent, at least talk to them to up their games,



You are not complaining but wailing on faceless forum.


Oga, learn how to do moderate (kindness that won't inconvenience you) to whoever comes ur way. Gf, Fiancee, even Wife. Infact ur own friend or family, with that you would not be bitter toward anyone
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Terrier99: 9:44am On Dec 05, 2021
Stop dating poor girls from poor backgrounds, you bullfrogs won't hear. They will suck you dry and their families will ruin you.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by seyz91(m): 9:44am On Dec 05, 2021
SIMPER pro max undecided

All i see here is a man trying to show off about sponsoring someone's daugher in school
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Theultimate(m): 9:44am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

You shouldn't have said that. I understand your frustration though. She must really have been hurt by those words.
However, if you still see future with her, kindly continue doing your good deeds because you're doing it for the two of you and your unborn children. You know why?
Because she is a replica of your home and the one to mold your children.
Do not mind those who call you names.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by skywalker240(m): 9:45am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.
End of story, you're an idiot, a big unapologetic idiot at that

Where Dem take de Root all this idiots from sef, abi it's a fictional write-up abi this idiot na spam bot, I no come know undecided

I hate people like you..tueh

If you're telling me this face to face I for don condem your simp face. Idiot father Christmas angry

As I de read your write-up I just de vex angry

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:45am On Dec 05, 2021
I can bet you, she will end up getting married to someone else who is rich enough to carter for her needs. Why are you doing all this when u ve not married her? Na una let some nigeria ladies go lazy.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by onyenatruchi: 9:46am On Dec 05, 2021
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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Timekeeper: 9:46am On Dec 05, 2021
frozen70:


You know what, is either you drop this girl if you know you can't finish the work you started

Or you continue, you already knows that they are poor, you don't need to remind her why her parents can't afford anything for her and the rest of her family

Finally bear in mind that, once she is still having affairs with her, you must be responsible for her since you know that her parents can't afford anything for her

Butwt me ask you, all this your involvement and spending on her, is it for anotheran to marry her or you just want to assist her

Because all you have spent on her is enough to marry her and keep her at home

Well, the decision is yours, just make sure you don't complain of wasting over 500k on her

As for her taste and desires to be trending with her mates, you don't need to provide that for her, is not a necessity

Honestly, he Sud wife that lady B4 another man take the fruit of his labor.. He knows the lady parental status B4 dating her and while dating her.. I don't understand his complain now....

If he is nt careful, he will be the one to lose... Cox the babe no go lose at all, after all antoehr man go come carry her and her life goes fine...

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Timekeeper: 9:47am On Dec 05, 2021
onyenatruchi:
Yoruba Ladies cannot do without men lipsrsealed they depend on men for Pant lipsrsealed Bra lipsrsealed Tight lipsrsealed Yoruba Ladies will seize to exist if there are no Men available lipsrsealed Yoruba Ladies sha lipsrsealed

Another senseless fowl spotted shocked
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:47am On Dec 05, 2021
Something like this av happens to me, but av learnt my lesson. Women are unpredictable.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by skywalker240(m): 9:47am On Dec 05, 2021
Make I no mumu like this Op, that would be the greatest injustice done to my soul

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Lance7621: 9:49am On Dec 05, 2021
I can't believe what I am reading. Is this a made up story?

As a lady, dear OP my only advice for you is that you are the greatest SIMP of all time.

I am out

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Uchemus(m): 9:49am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Useless men everywhere, I pity ladies that give you people free sex all in the name of expression of feelings, even Adam couldn't touch Eve till God asked him to do something which serves as the bride price before he was allowed to touch her but some ladies wey nack head for ground will begin parting their legs over nonsense expression of feelings. Its unbibilical to have free sex,go and find out.So Oga Op if you can't feed her then leave her for her parents and go your way,you did not complain when you were winning your pelenge waist on top of her.

If you are a prostitute just tell us straight.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Edusouls(m): 9:49am On Dec 05, 2021
How many of ur fellow men have u helped? Or maybe there no poor men to help?
yinkaOdutuyo:


Her parent can't just do anything, but just at least to help her.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by nams77: 9:51am On Dec 05, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.
Loool I almost fell from my chair.
It marvel me how young men spend money on girls.
I can't even imagine doing these things not to talk of actually doing it.
I will share a story and i hope mods push it to fp

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by prophetfire: 9:51am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves
. Your life is all about sex? Do you have any value outside sex at all?

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:52am On Dec 05, 2021
Uchemus:


If you are a prostitute just tell us straight.
It is your stupid girlfriend that parts her leg endlessly for you over mere "I love you, talk your own" that's a prostitute.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Talibanis: 9:54am On Dec 05, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.

Supported. Amin.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by BigBashiru: 9:54am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

mugus and mumus never learn
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Edusouls(m): 9:54am On Dec 05, 2021
Parasitic Nigerian girls, they go suck una till una dry and die. Una never see something

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by kaziblake(f): 9:55am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.
Why did you bring this story here?
Don’t you know that some Nairalanders are sadist?They will Insult you and your Babe and even her parent,chai

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by BigBashiru: 9:56am On Dec 05, 2021
Yinkakolawole:
Something like this av happens to me, but av learnt my lesson. Women are unpredictable.

they are greedy and selfish. it is these two factors that leads to their unpredictability.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Makinaki: 9:57am On Dec 05, 2021
Better to give am belle sharp sharp o. That way all your investment nor go go up in flames. At least your future pikin go benefit from your investment
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Lexusgs430: 9:57am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.


Investment with 0% ROI ............ cheesy
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by skywalker240(m): 9:57am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


But you also pay to Bleep asawo now. You be simp also
I don't school fees and house rent and money for foodstuffs for ashawo

Simp

You disgust me I swear, I hate you undecided

I thought the last simp in Nigeria died in 2015 buhari era undecided angry
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Dshocker(m): 9:57am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

So according to you,sex is what a woman holds dear?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by BigBashiru: 9:58am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

and one day she will leave you for another man without blinking an eye lid.... harden your heart bro b4 it's too late.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by phorget(m): 9:59am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.


Nah your type dey give all these girls moral to dey misbehave. Nah this type of parents go still dey expect big pride price when time to marry don reach. Which kain useless family you wan carry yourself enter so? You better leave that girl make she dey with her parents like that.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Newboss(m): 9:59am On Dec 05, 2021
Mumu simp think say she's the love of his life. Olodo
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by dennis7179: 10:00am On Dec 05, 2021
Ahhh i wonder where some people get their brain from if it was God who made it like other sane people too or an assistant when God was resting?How can you make monetize sex like the girl was doing him a favor?like she didnt enjoy it too?Thats one of the reasons Nigeria will not progress when ladies like you think the only good thing and benefits they can add to this world is to have sex for what they can get in life.Success is far from people with that kind of thinking.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

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