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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Newton2024: 11:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
studentofTruth:


God answer prayers?
Yes, those who believe.
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by sammieguze(m): 11:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Inability to provide.
Cheating and being cheated on.
Falling out of love

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mine is future bills mehn!!!

As In being provider and all and your wife no come hold her side. Reality check...

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Sirwallace(m): 11:07pm On Dec 08, 2021
Vinnie2000:



My Brother!
Don't Overlook these Things o I! sad
Any lady that is an Active or Silent Supporter of diz Erica, Tacha, Tonto Dickeh Babes!

Hmmm! Better Think twice! Unless It's Fvckk and Go u want to do! sad
Lol

We move already.

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 11:09pm On Dec 08, 2021
Fescoblack:


My eyes are on you.

My rain boot is like a two edged sword, if i kick a fellow with it, they'll kick bucket

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by TomRiddle1: 11:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
tamdun:
I pity the "about to marry" them grin

Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by BigBashiru: 11:13pm On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The only thing I fear is falling out of love or death of my spouse.
I get chills everytime I think about it.

Falling out of love = hypergamy/ meeting a better man

Why dont you and him define the marriage as "open"?
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by BigBashiru: 11:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
adonainana:
Sleeping with the same woman everyday

I know it’s good to be committed but that thing scares me

Only one woman till eternity

It's all about your agreement with her. Don't agree to monogamy. I don't recommend guys to be monogamous but then don't go overboard.
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hategrin


That's my biggest feargrin
Since you understand the secret of slim women, you must be a real Nigga And a Bad boy! grin
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by studentofTruth: 11:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
Newton2024:
Yes, those who believe.

That's strange. All those sick people crying to him day and night nko? They don't believe?
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by gbolswag(m): 11:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
my fear is dating a begger
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by tradepunter: 11:17pm On Dec 08, 2021
LadyD22:


My biggest fear is my husband spending more money on his side chick than me , I don't care if you want to have sex but don't bring disease , no bring belle , no go overspend , no go stay for one person hand

It's a very reasonable fear.... It's why you as a woman should be on top of your game.

I noticed women let get go of themselves after birth... Take my cousin, he's very fit guy and takes his health very serious.

His wife after birth started letting herself go, she's very pretty ooo and my cousin when hanging out will be eyeing girls cuz he's attractive.

Then I cleared him and advised him he must open up to his wife on his feeling and her body change...

In our conversation I realized men are carried away easily and are mentally lazy at times to address issues from the oneset.

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:18pm On Dec 08, 2021
Polynek:
The fear of another man banging Her in my absence.
Na cheating de fear me pax undecided
If I find out I can destroy her
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by BigBashiru: 11:18pm On Dec 08, 2021
Icumsa45:
Mine is future bills mehn!!!

As In being provider and all and your wife no come hold her side. Reality check...

They NEVER hold their side. That's why you should define the financial part before you go in. Don't be a mugu for any woman. Let her contribute 50-50 b4 children and 60-40 afterwards.

Remember her boyfriends had the best of her and all you got is evening newspaper that you hv to be stuck with ur whole life and not only that you gotta pay for her all ur life. Someone her bfs got the best of for free lolz!

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by GoldenSpec: 11:19pm On Dec 08, 2021
Unknowingly marry to harlot

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by ednut1(m): 11:19pm On Dec 08, 2021
Women pretend alot just to get married. Na my fear be that o

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by KayCee92(m): 11:20pm On Dec 08, 2021
That she will become too fat and then develop potbelly grin
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by KayCee92(m): 11:21pm On Dec 08, 2021
AllKnowing:
My present girlfriend, whom I’ll definitely marry, will I ever get tired of her?
.

How many months u don date am, I wan check something grin grin
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by adonainana: 11:24pm On Dec 08, 2021
BigBashiru:


It's all about your agreement with her. Don't agree to monogamy. I don't recommend guys to be monogamous but then don't go overboard.

Lol Agreement with a Nigerian woman that she is not the only one you will sleep with from the date of your marriage

That’s a new one

Cos that’s like agreeing your death sentence
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Dec 08, 2021
Owo
Ego
Kwudi
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Hollyharjii: 11:31pm On Dec 08, 2021
I really love this
LadyD22:


My biggest fear is my husband spending more money on his side chick than me , I don't care if you want to have sex but don't bring disease , no bring belle , no go overspend , no go stay for one person hand
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Fisiryorh(m): 11:33pm On Dec 08, 2021
My biggest fear of marriage is literally everything..I work in a 5 Star hotel as a customer service agent and I see alot of my age grades (24 years old-32 years old) getting their juices eaten out by some old men, young men & the likes..These are ladies we should take up as wives tomorrow but the story would be "Prophet, pray for me....I can't have this & that...


I really am scared of it all....

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Maski87: 11:33pm On Dec 08, 2021
Mine fear is that I no longer get to taste many different punany
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:34pm On Dec 08, 2021
NovesaTillie:
The only thing I fear is falling out of love or death of my spouse.
I get chills everytime I think about it.

Love can be rekindled, but death? Knowing that you will not be seeing "the" spouse again is just another heart-wrenching fear one has to live with. It's inevitable after all.
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by BigBashiru: 11:36pm On Dec 08, 2021
adonainana:


Lol Agreement with a Nigerian woman that she is not the only one you will sleep with from the date of your marriage

That’s a new one

Cos that’s like agreeing your death sentence

They have to agree otherwise it won't work na she go go find monogamist
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by ActuaRise696969: 11:36pm On Dec 08, 2021
Some people are lucky.

Some of us weren't lucky at first chance but the universe helps with correct-course module.

My advise is, do not marry any woman who isnt working or doesn't have skill and doesn't have source of income.

Make sure anyone you fucck or marry must be some one who strive to EARN income.

Otherwise no matter how much you have, you'd be just loved for money and wealth and you won't like it.

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by BigBashiru: 11:39pm On Dec 08, 2021
ActuaRise696969:
Some people are lucky.

Some of us weren't lucky at first chance but the universe helps with correct-course module.

My advise is, do not marry any woman who isnt working or doesn't have skill and doesn't have source of income.

Make sure anyone you fucck or marry must be some one who strive to EARN income.

Otherwise no matter how much you have, you'd be just loved for money and wealth and you won't like it.

And eventually as kids start coming in yr expenses will double and eventually the couple will split

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by majorbravo: 11:40pm On Dec 08, 2021
Vinnie2000:

That my Wife will be a Fan of Tonto Dickeh, Tasha, Erica, Etc!.. sad

The way our Ladies support some of diz Nasty Female celebs is Pathetic sad

They never Support the Good ones e.g. Mercy Johnson, Omoni Oboli,etc..
Ini Edo just Got Pregnant for a Strange Man and they are Celebrating Wildly on social media! undecided

Don't just know How I will manage the Situation!..
Those ones you quoted are not even bad.

Social media influencers like Blessing CEO, Angela Nwosu are the real ones you should fear.

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Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
The fear of my wife becoming 'spiritual' and then giving more love and attention to her pastor and his religion
Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Gkemz: 11:53pm On Dec 08, 2021
My fear is summerized in this true life story

Re: For Singles: What's Your Biggest Fear About Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:00am On Dec 09, 2021
Fear of living in an unhappy marriage. Fear of not being able to take good care of the family

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