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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by idanone(m): 8:29pm On Dec 13, 2021
A man who beat is wife is cursing em self, bro what you have done is an abomination before God and man.
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by chatinent: 8:32pm On Dec 13, 2021
AbujaCitiBlog:

You don't have a wife, you have an arsehole!
No point made.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by shedy03(m): 8:33pm On Dec 13, 2021
Massiveglory:
Bros abeg cool down and orderly compose your write up. The readers may be more confused with this,
He said he i getting addicted to beating his wife, from one beating to the next and to the next. lol.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Danjikanbauchi: 8:35pm On Dec 13, 2021
sanpipita:


Lol why not just marry your mom, what is all this.
don't be stupid.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2021
culf:
Bros no vex but to be honest, I don't think you're mature enough for marriage, no offence please.

Your wife dey try, if you dey some people shoe here you go don kill your wife be that.

Yes he was wrong beating her as there are non-violent ways the issue can be resolved. But are you saying the wife's attitude towards his mom is right?.

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Joe4real1988(m): 8:45pm On Dec 13, 2021
This is why i like we Niggas..........when we see a stupid act committed by a fellow man, we condemn it without mincing words. I always learn a one or two things from here. Kudos guys

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Peace1993: 8:47pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
everything seems childish
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 8:48pm On Dec 13, 2021
Layormiii:


And how can your mum even complain about eating refrigerated meals, how can you go for someone's omugwo and u expect her to be making freshly made meals for you daily.. me wey just born oo.. and ontop of that I will receive slap again and beating join.. omo things dey happen oo..

Yes he is wrong for laying hands on her.
But I believe you read where he said her mom came for omugo and left 10months later after which his mom visited and spent only two weeks....why was she unhappy that her mother-in-law is paying them a visit to see her grandchild?...why the rude treatment towards his mom as he mentioned?.

You guys should stop being biased please, both of them are wrong.

I believe the wife knew of her husband's closeness to his mother before marriage. If she can't stand it why go into the marriage in the first place?, was she expecting him to always pick her over his mom?, I guess you ladies don't understand the mother and son bond.

My advice to ladies out there, if you want a peaceful marriage, try and be in good terms with your husband's family. If you know you can't then don't go into that marriage.

Peace!.

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Layormiii(f): 8:50pm On Dec 13, 2021
enonche85:


Yes he is wrong for laying hands on her.
But I believe you read where he said her mom came for omugo and left 10months later after which his mom visited and spent only two weeks....why was she unhappy that her mother-in-law is paying them a visit to see her grandchild?...why the rude treatment towards his mom as he mentioned?.

You guys should stop being biased please, both of them are wrong.
so because of that you just go ahead and be beating someone's child. undecided
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Hotguy27: 8:56pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

I just have this feeling that this is a fiction with sole intent of gathering traffic otherwise I would say that the Op is truly a senseless human being.

Which one is this "beat..., mum's boy..., my mum..., this...., that..."?

You are supposed to be in kindergarten. That is where your sense mates are!

Nonsense!

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Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 8:59pm On Dec 13, 2021
Layormiii:
so because of that you just go ahead and be beating someone's child. undecided

I never said he was right beating her as there ways he could've handled her without violence. She is wrong acting that way too.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Hkff: 8:59pm On Dec 13, 2021
Both of you need to grow up you will always fight just learn to say sorry

Women are problems someone need to calm down
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Solatium(m): 8:59pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.




If you want to enjoy your wife,decree that her mother stop coming,it is then she will realize her stupidity and adjust her way or else she will continue to take you for granted.besides how did you manage to keep her Mum for 10 months?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 9:00pm On Dec 13, 2021
Hotguy27:


I just have this feeling that this is a fiction with sole intent of gathering traffic otherwise I would say that the Op is truly a senseless human being.

Which one is this "beat..., mum's boy..., my mum..., this...., that..."?

You are supposed to be in kindergarten. That is where your sense mates are!

Nonsense!

And the wife?, She deserves a medal too I guess?. sad
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Olorilolo(f): 9:01pm On Dec 13, 2021
Train your Child in the way he should go and when he grows, he shall not depart from it.

Mummy's boy my dear, your Mumsy failed big time. Like she f*kd up in your training my brother. Go back to her and ask her why she chose to ruin your life this way.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Olorilolo(f): 9:03pm On Dec 13, 2021
enonche85:


I never said he was right beating her as there ways he could've handled her without violence. She is wrong acting that way too.
Teen titans, isn't this conversion a little above your knowledge?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Mayorwer: 9:06pm On Dec 13, 2021
chatinent:





You talk about beating her like you are talking about breathing!

About your mom, your mum should know her place and stop picking on minor things and controlling your family! Everybody knows that the wife’s mother will most likely want to come for the omugo unless it is mutually agreed on both mothers-in-law who should come first or last!

Mummy’s boy my arse!

You are also not doing your wife a favour marrying her! I will never mince words for rubbish!


Egbon, inasmuch as I don't support her not wanting you close to your mom, if na my sis you beat like this, I for don nack good grammar enter your body. That's not the main problem...the problem is you'll call the police for me and you will be asked to write statement, you go go copy another man murder case statement!

Nonsense and ingredients. Anyways, I am still available for Turnitin-friendly research writing services.
sorry to say this but you are a fool, how can you say "everyone know that wife's mother will likely want to come for omugo" maybe in your village, not mine. Man's mother is the rightful person to come for omugo. Get sense oga
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 9:07pm On Dec 13, 2021
Olorilolo:
Teen titans, isn't this conversion a little above your knowledge?

It's past 8pm, go to bed. You can continue watching teen titans tomorrow.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by brainhgeek(m): 9:07pm On Dec 13, 2021
OP, your one-sided story is either a fable or you simply need to get a formatting. You are marriage defective.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Olorilolo(f): 9:10pm On Dec 13, 2021
enonche85:


It's past 8pm, go to bed. You can continue watching teen titans tomorrow.
Don't forget to drop your Brother's phone on your way to bed before he spanks the crap out of you in the morning.

Adults are talking, chukuli like you is contributing. What do you know that you're saying These Children will never cease to amaze me.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by enonche85(m): 9:12pm On Dec 13, 2021
jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.

Oga the fact you said you laid hands on your wife and you feel good about it, no one here will side with you on that. You could've handled this matter without violence.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Hotguy27: 9:21pm On Dec 13, 2021
enonche85:


And the wife?, She deserves a medal too I guess?. sad

That I didn't talk about the wife or her faults does not make my observations untrue.

You can make your own observations.

The man and anyone who sides him on this are senseless.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Philadelphia: 9:23pm On Dec 13, 2021
OP, your wife is a f00l to have agreed to marry you. But you’re a bigger f00l to be treating your wife that way. However, your mother is the biggest f00l not to know her place in your home.

By the way, you were never ready for marriage in the first place.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by frostmate2: 9:25pm On Dec 13, 2021
Beating your wife is very wrong. You need to change your attitude.

Your wife and child are your number one priority now. You are no longer single. Try as much as possible not to involve your Mum in decision making. Be a man and make your decisions put your wife and child first. Not saying stop loving your mum but sorry you can't be a Mummy's boy again if you want your marriage to succeed. Your wife also shouldn't disrespect your Mum but that doesn't warrant beating her. There are other ways of dealing with it. If she said she warm soup from freezer for her own Mum as well, why don't you believe her? Do you have trust issues with your wife?
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Cognitivedisson(m): 9:27pm On Dec 13, 2021
Try and grow a pair of Balls. Don't let any woman emasculate you; regardless of whatever role they play in your life. Keep everyone in there own place. Mother's should be treated with love and care. But you can love your mother without been tied to her apron strings. Be kind but don't be nice. Nice people are like doormats they let everyone walk all over them. Kind people deal with people based on universal principles. Kind people have boundaries. They find ways to be firm without been abusive.
J
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by uzoexcel(m): 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2021
Na this same slap slap land most of those squid game players for inside the game

jaksmillioniar:
hello room.

I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .

Most People mock me, but I got married.

We had a baby last year, a corona baby.

I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.

When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.

I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.

When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.

I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.

I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.

She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.

I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.

So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.

As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.

Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .

When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.

My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .

I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.

I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .

I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.

she denied me sex until I slap sense into her.

marriage has challenges it is s not easy.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by SweetDipBenny(m): 9:41pm On Dec 13, 2021
Be calming down bro
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by FLYFIRE(m): 9:45pm On Dec 13, 2021
Whether married now or not, ALWAYS REMEMBER to treat your spouse the way you want your daughter or son to be treated.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by EndRape2(f): 9:46pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mumu old man with small sense

You slapped your wife for giving your mum food in the fridge, same food she gave to her mum,
Reason why most ladies do not like mother inlaws they have entitlement mindset,

Uncle. Way mumu your head dey under your mama rapper.



Set your self free before it is too late
















Just wond ring why you did not cook, she want freash food , from a nursin mother instead of her to be the one cooking for the nursing mother, then the mumu son, that has big head without sense slapped the wife ,






quote author=MiddleDimension post=108469675]

YOU ARE MAD WOMAN FOR SAYING WHAT YOU JUST SAID![/quote]
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Zinpat: 9:48pm On Dec 13, 2021
If u r really mature as u claim, stop being a mummy's boy. From ur write up, ur wife hs done absolutely nothing wrong.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Nobody: 9:56pm On Dec 13, 2021
Keep on slapping, you will go out one day & come back not seeing her again.
Re: My Wife Is Getting Me Angry by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 13, 2021
OP you are a very Useless human being. Sed how you Talkin about beating your wife as if it's a right thing. aNIMAL

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