HardMirror:
It seems Nigerian girls are indeed created, designed, configured, trained, programmed, predetermined, orientated,... to collect collect and collect.

I started dating this girl and by our standards this girl is as good as they come. She is truly a good girl with good character. I cant be dashing her money, so I asked her to come and work for me. Already had 4 employees but her work experience would be valuable to us and honestly she has been an asset and worth the money i am paying her. But what surprises me is how she still manages to get me to buy food, airtime for her everyday ....

Naija girls.. una matter no be here

Try to not spend as much money on her maybe? if you get someone used to a certain lifestyle, it's quite hard to change it later on...

ilduce31:
oga miror when hard you be senior man na. Show your boy love nah.

"ilduce" - and here I thought almost no other Westerner knew of/used this website - a nice surprise

HardMirror:
at first it did not matter, but when I thought about it, the meals alone adds up quickly over the month. Sort of hard to eat and know she has not had lunch at work

Oga you stated she even followed you to work today that is Sunday, so that means she is doing extra for you aside her normal work duties, so when you do extra aside her normal pay duties don't complain

HardMirror:
at first it did not matter, but when I thought about it, the meals alone adds up quickly over the month. Sort of hard to eat and know she has not had lunch at work

Oga you stated she even followed you to work today that is Sunday, so that means she is doing extra for you aside her normal work duties, so when you do extra aside her normal pay duties don't complain.

oke2018:
Yes Bsc in Accounting,

Where in Lagos do you stay?

Kingmena:

Oga you stated she even followed you to work today that is Sunday, so that means she is doing extra for you aside her normal work duties, so when you do extra aside her normal pay duties don't complain.

it is not like I am complaining, the thing is just funny to me and I decided to share.

Kingmena:

Where in Lagos do you stay?

@ Surulere but presently I'm in Mowe.

HardMirror:
I am not complaining o. I am marveling and want to hear the experience of others. I am happy cos she is actually my best staff now so worth every penny

Bros, go marry her so that your spending will have and add Value to u.

On the main matter, if a girl that receives such amount from you still wants u take 100% percent of her upkeep, then broo, u are doom for something

You are a mumu man

OAra:


Try to not spend as much money on her maybe? if you get someone used to a certain lifestyle, it's quite hard to change it later on...



"ilduce" - and here I thought almost no other Westerner knew of/used this website - a nice surprise

I nid money joor all this your capping capping U no understand, I no hear english.

Updated.

This niggar is not in Nigeria o. oya oya oya make I drop aza?

ilduce31:


I nid money joor all this your capping capping U no understand, I no hear english.

Updated.

This niggar is not in Nigeria o. oya oya oya make I drop aza?

nah just thought you were Italian as well gives your username is in Italian.

DroppingLiquid:
Whatever man. You're giong into politics, which I don't care for. The question was how do men influence the life of women.

Men don't influence women life, because they want to, it's women that want to be influenced by men, that is why they are being influenced by men, Most women are lazy. Most women rely on men for daily bread. They don't want to work hard, because they feel they are too sexy or pretty to do so.

Continue it is called love

OAra:


nah just thought you were Italian as well gives your username is in Italian.

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You be Italian bobo. This is my first time meeting a foreigner here. Ah ah abobi make them credit my paypal nah for chrismas.

Miracood2:


How is that your problem?
Drop ur acct number so I can send u 1k

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drop am go my sporty .. I'll withdraw from there


090 1092 3466

oke2018:
@ Surulere but presently I'm in Mowe.

Ok surulere is fine. Let's keep in touch, something might come up by next year. Will let you know

You are paying her 50k that’s for the work she’s doing na
U need to buy things for ur girl normally but a right thinking girl that’s working won’t be asking for everything na

HardMirror:
it is not like I am complaining, the thing is just funny to me and I decided to share.

The way you doing extra for her after paying her is funny to you is also the way doing extra for your business after doing her normal work duties is also funny to her, but she doesn't go about like you creating thread on nairaland or saying men this men that. We should live maturely and not like overgrown babies, always bringing everything online to seek opinions

Kingmena:

Ok surulere is fine. Let's keep in touch, something might come up by next year. Will let you know

ok thanks.

ilduce31:
oga miror when hard you be senior man na. Show your boy love nah.

U are a guy. What will he gain from u by showing u love?

lexy2014:


U are a guy. What will he gain from u by showing u love?

Who is this one.Talo ba eh dasi. C if I give you slap you life will never remain the same.

ilduce31:


Who is this one.Talo ba eh dasi. C if I give you slap you life will never remain the same.

Oya come and give the slap. Am waiting

lexy2014:


Oya come and give the slap. Am waiting

No worry na my grand mother when die 12 years ago go visit you this night. You go know say I be the son of umuwayin.

Stingy Nairalanders. Mark this name next year I go dey do giveaway. rich men when dey broke. Bleep you all.

ilduce31:



No worry na my grand mother when die 12 years ago go visit you this night. You go know say I be the son of umuwayin

I thought u said u want to slap? Pls come and slap or have your hands withered?

lexy2014:


I thought u said u want to slap? Pls come and slap or have your hands withered?

go and dip you hand in your ass and smell it. Dirty boy.

ilduce31:


go and dip you hand in your ass and smell it. Dirty boy.

Is that how u pass time when u are bored? Meanwhile, I thought u said u want to slap? Pls come and slap or have your hands withered?

Dem dey tell baba say hin mix pleasure with business, ahbobi dey cap say na employment hin give her...

Wetin we no go hear for Enerhen junction sef

Your headline is misleading. U talk am like say na your girl friend and you de pay her monthly stipend and dash am money join. Guy go stay one place joorrr. If you dash her money, wetin come be d big deal? Tell me say you know de plan something for your mind for the babe.

Guys, mk una check my link for my signature bo. Real comedy stuff there.

U no be man bros!

Karleb:
Na una dey spoil all these girls.

She has more to lose if the relationship crumbles.

Her job is on the line, she knows this of course. So you are at the position of power here. You can do shakara however you like.

Bros, no dey fall hand o

I beg to disagree ,I dont think you have seen where someone is so damn good at what he or she does that you cant replace them. Except the girl is not good at what she does , she is not losing.

malaria:

I beg to disagree ,I dont think you have seen where someone is so damn good at what he or she does that you cant replace them. Except the girl is not good at what she does , she is not losing.

I guess you don't know how emotions work.

Even the best of the best will get sacked for an inconsequential reason when emotions are involved.

Her job is at risk if the relationship crumbles and she knows that more than anybody.

HardMirror:
It seems Nigerian girls are indeed created, designed, configured, trained, programmed, predetermined, orientated,... to collect collect and collect.

I started dating this girl and by our standards this girl is as good as they come. She is truly a good girl with good character. I cant be dashing her money, so I asked her to come and work for me. Already had 4 employees but her work experience would be valuable to us and honestly she has been an asset and worth the money i am paying her. But what surprises me is how she still manages to get me to buy food, airtime for her everyday ....

Naija girls.. una matter no be here

No be una decide to begin worship women

Karleb:


I guess you don't know how emotions work.

Even the best of the best will get sacked for an inconsequential reason when emotions are involved.

Her job is at risk if the relationship crumbles and she knows that more than anybody.

If she is good at what she does, she can get another . Even if she gets sacked , does it mean their relationship is over . Bear you in mind that the guy is paying for services been rendered. Nobody is doing anyone a y favour here. The guy should simply take care of her girlfriend period . It does not mean he should be stupid in spending . So if the girl is working for someone else he wont still take care of her if the needs arises .