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NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

adecz:
⏩The man is good at bedmatics,
⏩Generally a nice guy
⏩Helps you around the house
⏩Helps you cook


So, what do you really want❓❓


Maybe he doesn't have the kind of
money you are looking for.☹️☹️

❌❌ You women are never satisfied☹️☹️

jaxxy:
If u don’t like ur bf why don’t u just break up with him instead of complaining about every damn thing all Night long.

U don’t like this guy u only like the fact he gives u sex when u need it and help clean ur house like a house boy. Let’s Face the facts and be honest here so we don’t waste everybody’s time.

He sleeps in ur house till new year or in his house what’s the issue sofar ure both together for New Year?

SocialJustice:
Homeless boyfriend, them full Abuja and Lagos.

Eject that fucker out of your apartment. Tell him it's too early to move in together.

You're dating the lowest class of men.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,this is what I call--"paper bag marriage".

The guy just wor invite see-finish come him life . Personally, I've refused to spend even a night at my gf's house....Not because I'm rich or I'm proud,but it's because of the numerous outcome of it I've witnessed and seen with my two eyes......Men moving in with women ain't supposed to be like that.........How you wor take get peace of mind at the first place self? . You dare not question her actions,nor even do anyhow,if not,na outside you go find your paper bag of clothes . Guyman suppose to always be like a guyman and man up to act like one...

"As a guyman,No let brokenness bring see-finish come your life,no matter what"

I don talk my own finish......Make who get ear use am hear word......No be only who get long ear like goblin suppose to dey hear word

Bobmarie:
She even complained of his snoring and eating too much. Lol.

She doesn’t love the guy at all.

abidem4real:
Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot.
You have to keep enjoying him after all his eating a lot makes him Bleep you a lot. Everything is for your own good my dear. I wish you both happy staying life.

oladele239:
I am the boyfriend

franchasng:
That guy is broke, no lady dates a broke guy with joy and happiness, na one condition de always make crayfish bend lolz

opeyemi634:
It is because he is broke thats why you are complaining. Please get him a job and move on with him.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

tunize:
Na preek dey sweet you na only you complain sey e waka comot you nor hear from am, and now only now is complaining he is back and you want him out again nor worry "go play timaya telli person"

jaxxy:
But she hasn’t said he’s broke. He might be rich. Lolz

Bigcowhorn:
I rob for a living

franchasng:
Rich ke lol


Bro, no rich guy eats anyhow. A rich guy seldomly eats, except when with friends for a party or some sort of occasion.



Any guy that eats too much at home is broke. You can take this to bank.



If he was rich, she won't highlight his eating too much as a turnoff cos his heavy supply of fund will make her enjoy seeing him eat lol



If you want a Nigerian woman to hate you fast, eat her food always without giving her more than enough money lol

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

orgylover:
I'm a professional armed robber and gay scammer

Starships4u:
Yhu like him because he is a really nice guy,good in bed, helps in house chores, does the dishes, cooks well....
Yet yhu want him out of yhur house?
Well, tell him not us.

Some love their men with all these qualities around yhu want yhur own out.
Different strokes for different folks indeed.

Tell him it's time to move to his place as agreed.
We won't do that for yhu ma'am.

jaxxy:
True that bro. U are right. She must be fvcking with a real broke ass hungry niggah.

orgylover:
omo me I be gay scammer