FahBuLous:
You are boring

odinson1:


Op do not confront her about it yet,she will just lie her way around it.

Wait and dig deeper until you are absolutely sure. If possible,employ someone to track her down to her location on the day she will go and meet this Man

Kaleidoscopeman:


Well, why is she offering to see him? Where? When?
Why is she asking God to see her through in order not to fall the guy's hand? What will she do not fall the guy hand?

Several other questions...

patricknz:
I disagree with you sir. I’ve seen this before and honestly it can be ugly. The girl’s response to his messages are clearly that of someone who is keeping an open mind. I’ve been there. Though it may not be her intention, but she is clearly leading that guy on(she just left the door open, and that guy can just walk in easily). Op should just sit and have a good conversation with his girl.
There is nothing wrong in clearly spelling it out to the guy that she is IN A RELATIONSHIP and that he should behave.
You see these ex’s? If you cannot avoid them, then you are not ready for marriage. Wisdom is profitable.

By the way, in my own case, the guy succeeded. Making it more painful, i caught the guy in a boxer short and lying bare chested on her bed.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok

EndRape2:
She might not be dating the guy, but the guy is her side guy toasting her, if you still want the marriage

Call her, collect the guy number tell her to call the guy in your presence ,please do not say a word, also she must not let the guy know you are with her, them let her tell the guy on phone that she is having her wedding in four months time , she must put it on speaker, listen to the guy response, if she refused to do that ,please let her go.

But she must call the guy in your presence put it on speaker and talk about you to the guy, like she has a fience, they are planning wedding she loves you so much etc


But how come your fience is hungry, and she can not call you?



uote author=Kaleidoscopeman post=109668957]We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

Kaleidoscopeman:
I don't know that dude but he seems I have had a hunch about him 2 years ago when me & her had small issue.
I guess that's her Achilles heel.

Kaleidoscopeman:


Well, why is she offering to see him? Where? When?
Why is she asking God to see her through in order not to fall the guy's hand? What will she do not fall the guy hand?

Several other questions...

Faber:
When you toast her u no tell us
When you first bleep her u no tell us
When you proposed to her u no tell us
When you did introductions u no tell us

Now you come discover na cheerful, shareful giver you want marry, u come dey worry us...

Op let me remind you there's a military revolution underway in Francophone West Africa...the West wants to destabilise the peace of West Africa...
So save us the drama with your yeye street urchin

fasa199:
In my opinion you need more proof to show she isn't genuine.

If you confront her with this, lemme show you are defense mechanism

Husband: what is this chat about?

Wife: So you don't trust me?

Husband : Tell me what it is!!!!

Wife: That guy is asking me to marry him and not disappoint him because he loves me. I said lets see so that he can send me the money I asked him.. He wanted me to come see him, but I have told him I will see him later so that he can send the money... So you think so little of me? Start crying and rolling on the floor

Stargurl20:



On top wetin? Mitchewwww

BadRadio:
e shock you !!!

saintnegroid:
if you look carefully,you will see that the girl is trying to avoid the guy... The guy said I love you but the girl did not say that back, she keeps saying really? Why? Okay... She just wants to get money from the guy that's all.... I ain't see any attached feelings in that chat... If the girl actually liked that guy, you would have seen her expression in the chat when that guy said he will send her money

Stargurl20:

Yes, your height of mumuism is shocking.

luminouz:


You are a new definition of dûmb. I don't usually abuse people here but your selective blindness dey vex me.

Which nonsense clue do you want again? He said he loves her,gave her money and warned her never to disappoint him....

Shey na her brother she dey talk to ni?

Weathered:
you dull o.

Na men like you make idotic double-dating women full everywhere.
So with everything on that chat this nonsense is your response.

May God Almighty deliver you from stupidity when you think is wisdom.

Corrections:


But she wasn't ghosting the money that is about to be offered. A DESCENT WOMAN would not do that with the fact she was about to get married in 4 MONTHS time. A descent lady would let the guy know that she is taken already by another man and four months time they would be married.

Why take money from the guy when she will fail to offer whatever the guy is asking for? A DESCENT GIRL will NOT smell what she will not EAT.

luminouz:


You are a new definition of dûmb. I don't usually abuse people here but your selective blindness dey vex me.

Which nonsense clue do you want again? He said he loves her,gave her money and warned her never to disappoint him....

Shey na her brother she dey talk to ni?

Elianawalker:
Waw... Did you say wife to be?

Can I tell you the perfect way to hurt her back?

Save this screenshot then go silent on her, disappear if possible and end all wedding plans and say no reason why...



Another way to solve this, confront her about it.

In the end you might still have to end it all...

Kaleidoscopeman:
We are getting married in 4 months. I don't check her phone except for hotspot or she is showing me something. Just one message popped and I was supposed to click something else but the message.
What's your candid opinion on the screenshot?

Corrections:


But she wasn't ghosting the money that is about to be offered. A DESCENT WOMAN would not do that with the fact she was about to get married in 4 MONTHS time. A descent lady would let the guy know that she is taken already by another man and four months time they would be married.

Why take money from the guy when she will fail to offer whatever the guy is asking for? A DESCENT GIRL will NOT smell what she will not EAT.

Elianawalker:
Waw... Did you say wife to be?

Can I tell you the perfect way to hurt her back?

Save this screenshot then go silent on her, disappear if possible and end all wedding plans and say no reason why...



Another way to solve this, confront her about it.

In the end you might still have to end it all...

franchasng:
Honestly its no longer safe to get married as a young man when you are still struggling financially. Gone are the days, our current world is hugely monetized that ladies of today hardly cope or stay faithful when there is financial handicap






The other guy seems to be more financially buoyant than the lady's fiancee.



God help your bachelors, sighs.