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Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by lordaltruist(m): 5:13am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Dear Nairalanders, I got this job in 2019 and it turns out that now I am the only male senior staff except from the security guard. Way back in 2019 there were 2 other guys but they left in 2020 after our company transferred to a different location and since then, I have been the only male staff other than the security guard whose job is not in internal affairs. She is actually my senior colleague and way older than myself but over the past year and some months now, we have been so friendly though we don't discuss relationship together or talk anything boyfriend and girlfriend together but something seems to be odd in her look whenever I talk about a girl likewise myself I felt odd when she talks about a guy she flirted with. In my office every other staff have a nickname for us both even my boss was the one who initiated the nickname because of how close we are and even though I nurse getting under her skirts, I do not have yet the muscle to tell her that and lately I am beginning to like her more as we share everything about ourselves. I have been to her house and can go to her house at anytime and she was the one who persuaded me to return to the company after I didn't want to return when it relocated and also convince my boss to retain me; sometimes she buys me food in the office likewise myself and always like to have me around her like working together and whenever she needs assistance over a job, she will want me to be the person to help. I notice she and my other female (married) colleague who work in the same department with us had almost had squabble because of whom I should be assisting and since she's the most senior colleague she won over that one. She is very single and above her 40s but I don't mind as age does not define my relationship and right now I am growing so fund of her in a way I can't stop imagining and I need your advise on how to relate my feelings and make her confess hers to me. All criticism and advise will be duly accepted. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by raphroye: 5:22am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Office relationships don't end well. Steer clear of her 281 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Totilopussylick(m): 5:23am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Before you decide to make the move, be sure to find another job compare to the company you work currently. Women are full of strange surprises. She may act like she's down with you from the start. But beware she can call you small boi by the time e red 272 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by fikayormi(m): 5:26am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Office romance ? Na express you dey go werey 222 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Ayo081(m): 5:29am On Jan 27, 2022 |
If you're doing the right thing, go for it
I just hope you're using your head and not she thinking for you 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Boogyman557: 5:42am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Holly Gram I go ADVISE to START to de SMOKE WEED.. maybe half Stick of WEED.. Bcus WEED de give MIND... E de give ORIENTATION... E de give BETTER O.T TALKING to BANIS no go be ur ISSUE if u de BLA WEED.. try it.. Na u go thank me later... WTF MAN 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Merlissa(f): 5:49am On Jan 27, 2022 |
You: hello (add the lady's name),I have something to tell you and I can't hold it any longer. The lady: ok You: I The lady: blushing OK i'd think about it.. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Elianawalker(f): 5:53am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Did you say higher... You want to tell a woman who has higher power and status than you that you are in love with her, one who has control over you in the work place... Be wise my dear sir and don't... You shouldn't be planning to say it but planning to make her fall in love with you more. But since you both work in same place, I don't really know. They say office romance can be something else 54 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by zed7: 5:59am On Jan 27, 2022 |
You're probably lusting over her. Having a relationship with a colleague is not even a good move in the first instance. Dating a woman who is older and more successful isn't good for a man. A man needs to be able to take charge of his relationship, something that wouldn't be so easy when dating a more successful and older woman. 76 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Qatar2022: 5:59am On Jan 27, 2022 |
lordaltruist:Office romance is not good, they no tell you? 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Nobody: 6:02am On Jan 27, 2022 |
All diz feelings nah for Bleep. 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by andysmith123(m): 6:10am On Jan 27, 2022 |
you came out from a hole and now you are trying to go back to that hole! WTF MAN 17 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by MrCork: 6:23am On Jan 27, 2022 |
lordaltruist: |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by dingbang(m): 6:23am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Men just want to fvck! 39 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by MrCork: 6:27am On Jan 27, 2022 |
lordaltruist: SON..U CLEARLY LACK EXPERIENCE.. therrris enough beautiful marrryed women out there u can chase....DO NOT $HIT WERE U EAT....it never ends well!!! ((Real ralk) 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Aboks(m): 6:29am On Jan 27, 2022 |
You are playing with your job 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by MufasaLion: 6:29am On Jan 27, 2022 |
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Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Kingpin1000: 6:42am On Jan 27, 2022 |
It's like you don't know your priorities. Avoid problem and more importantly run from problems that involves women 32 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Comedian2019: 6:50am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Face your job. That's why you're there. Think about and plan for your future. That should be your priority. 18 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Clinghton: 6:54am On Jan 27, 2022 |
A lady above 40s and unmarried I think you should dig deep to know why, probably your feelings are lust. 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Nobody: 6:54am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Una no get sense for this country? Y you wan begin shit where you dey eat? 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 6:56am On Jan 27, 2022 |
I know how to solve this debacle but since I'll never support the wahala office romance definitely brings, I won't give you any advise on how to win her heart because your salary is more important at this time 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by biggy00000(m): 6:56am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Most company by policy will not retain a couple--- if you intend to marry her; find another job. If the intention is just fling, hit and run baba find another job still as she would deal with you when it goes south. Either way, find another job. Oluwa a wa pelu e. 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by superCleanworks(m): 7:03am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Your whole narration stinks of childishness like someone dreaming of a Cinderella story with happily ever after.... How old are you? 13 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Styluss: 7:08am On Jan 27, 2022 |
lordaltruist:I hope you know ladies within such age brackets comes with alot of desperation and pretense 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Haakeem(m): 7:10am On Jan 27, 2022 |
See as this one won chock in leg inside fire. office romance isnt good at all. op u need a hard slap to reset your brain. 40yrs old and more financially stable than you,she would be bossy fah. if she was the one that proffesis her luv for u, it would have been better. At still that, office romance is a no no. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Goldbw122(m): 7:12am On Jan 27, 2022 |
My brother for your own divine good stay away 4 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by chatinent: 7:28am On Jan 27, 2022 |
I don't support office romance. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Nobody: 8:17am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Merlissa:Too much romance novels dey worry you lol 13 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Oga, Remove business from pleasure and stick to the game 5 Likes |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Truvelisback(m): 8:28am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by Truvelisback(m): 8:44am On Jan 27, 2022 |
Haakeem:If he is an Alpha male, it would be easier for him. The only issue is abt her age. She is over 40. And i doubt he would be able to handle the relationship. I would advice that he goes for younger girls or ladies. 1 Like |
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