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Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

I was coming back last week and some robbers robbed me and cleared my account on gunpoint...haven't you been noticing I have emaciated..but baby I didn't want to tell you so you wouldn't think I am dodging all these your bills even as I'll love to assist you but it's fine...God will help me. All I need is prayers.


Must we teach you everything?

Guy RUN.
She nor love you

give her the 15k, for her to open up to you about her financial needs immediately she saw you ,means she's an open person.

Green light means go red light means Japa. Just two weeks enough red lights already?
Don't be a SIMP.

If you date ladies with no means of income, then be ready to spend and carry some of her financial needs...!! That's how it works here in Nigeria!!

Run for your life, she came to drain you.

If she ask you for money, tell her you don't have.
Also, don't flaunt material things around. Your virtues (honesty, hardwork, resilience, fear of God, etc) is enough to win someone's heart ( females inclusive)

She is a manipulator and sees herself as an investor. She has invested in you with her yeye valentine gift, now she is out to milk you dry. Nigga, run and never look back.

With everything she dey do, you no still get sense.

You met a girl less than two weeks ago and you are already giving her gifts?

What is wrong with you, man?

Ok, see what you will do - give her the 15k now, then by the end of the month, you buy her a new one. Shey that makes sense?

I wonder where all these una wahala dey commot from and how e dey start.
Na wa ooo

Slynation:
If you date ladies with no means of income, then be ready to spend and carry some of her financial needs...!! That's how it works here in Nigeria!!

But we are still in the talking stage, don't you think it is too soon?

Tell her you don't have, and watch her reaction to it. If she is still good with you. Then she's probably not a wrecker, though one can't actually pin point gold diggers of recent, all girls have switched to friend zone scams. It's their newly found niche.

Nonexisting:
She is a manipulator and sees herself as an investor. She has invested in you with her yeye valentine gift, now she is out to milk you dry. Nigga, run and never look back.

This is my guess.

E come be like Esu wey go give you 10 naira to collect 1k from you.

Loud it. Met one like that oo on my street,Madonna University chick oo..collected number, came to da crib the next evening..25k things to repair phone..Imagine oo, Oya gimme kiss,mama gimme kiss,lemme lick bress,mama gree..Okay let me proceed to the permanent site,issues of period came up oo instanta and throughout the entangle mama no wear pyant oo. I lock up,escort am..so so phone calls on top the 25k. Okay come and see me ,mama form traveling Enugu that morning ,say make she just branch collect the money for the phone,say she go see me when she return. Mama call me well well when she reach my gate,I just look am from window,throway dey enjoy my p.s4 dey go. Mama block me ooo..olorun

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

The only way is to dump that liability for your own good

IkranDragon:
But we are still in the talking stage, don't you think it is too soon?

Omo...seems like you don't know this girls As it stands now, to her, you guys are dating oO...This type is automatic

chatinent:
You were coming back last week and some robbers robbed you and cleared your account on gunpoint...haven't you been noticing I have emaciated..but baby I didn't want to tell you so you wouldn't think I am dodging all these your bills even as I'll love to assist you but it's fine...God will help me. All I need is prayers.


Must we teach you everything?

I love this scope but don't you think it is too much?

I told her that I have lent a lot of money out this year and I have been managing.

As I dey like this now...the last thing I need in my life right now is problem and extra burden, Keep your kpekus make I keep my preeq...!!

IkranDragon:
I love this scope but don't you think it is too much?

I told her that I have lent a lot of money out this year and I have been managing.

She will still be expecting when they pay back naw. Do everything to avoid billing.

Slynation:
Omo...seems like you don't know this girls As it stands now, to her, you guys are dating oO...This type is automatic

Wahala!

chatinent:
She will still be expecting when they pay back naw. Do everything to avoid billing.

The next script will be that they don't pay me back and I have learnt not to borrow money to friends and family again.

posty56:
give her the 15k, for her to open up to you about her financial needs immediately she saw you ,means she's an open person.

Okay thanks. but I don't think so. She don see golden boy na.

IkranDragon:
Okay thanks. but I don't think so. She don see golden boy na.

my reply was sarcastic, you know the obvious thing to do yet you come here to ask , any woman that starts to bill you immediately you guys just started talking is a red flag a big one,it show she's not interested in you,she just wants to use you then along the way dump you, do the right thing,move on!

posty56:
my reply was sarcastic, you know the obvious thing to do yet you come here to ask , any woman that starts to bill you immediately you guys just started talking is a red flag a big one,it show she's not interested in you,she just wants to use you then along the way dump you, do the right thing,move on!

Okay, thank you brother.

IkranDragon:
Wahala!

on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

Slynation:
on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

You have a BIG point. thanks for sharing your perspective

E get one girl like that wey follow me try this thing. She say make I help her add money make she take buy phone. She say make I give her not borrow her. You wetin I do?

I come compose sweet message, come tell her say I no get for the end.

Just because I like you and you like me too no mean say make you come become liability for my neck.

Bro, you self bill her. Tell her say your rent don expire make she borrow you money.

Slynation:
on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

Bros, forget. Some girls no get shame.

Even if una meet for white house, girl wey go Bill you go Bill you.

To some of them, the thing na like sickness wey no get cure.