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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by donforeign: 11:26am On Mar 14, 2022
KingDash:
you no wise you for collect the job jakpa
na u no wise
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Angelfrost(m): 11:27am On Mar 14, 2022
czarr:
Small yansh
That's not a Red flag na...

That's simply something way outside your preference... Meaning, there can be no relationship in the first place.

A red flag is what you notice beyond the physical appeal... Something that springs at you when everything seems to be okay. tongue
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by rafcrown(m): 11:27am On Mar 14, 2022
A car dropped her after hanging around to check on her.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by emmhynet18(m): 11:27am On Mar 14, 2022
grin
EmptyGarden:
Fada lawd!
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Shegzdave: 11:27am On Mar 14, 2022
undecided
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
Ishilove,
Come and see who you were advising on her thread.
Imagine a mid-teen ooo and she said her brother is caging her..
Seems I’ll get a big padlock to add to the cage undecided
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Lizzydonnah(f): 11:28am On Mar 14, 2022
He is a nairalander undecided
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by udomonday: 11:29am On Mar 14, 2022
Selfishness. Took her to a restaurant she ate like someone who has been starving for the past one week. dipped her spoon into my plate and packed all the meat and put them in her plate.and kept wolving everything down. after that I just played along and bleeped her to my satisfaction and made a quick fade.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Chummynoni(m): 11:29am On Mar 14, 2022
JONNYSPUTE:
... Thought you said you re in your middle theen? Smh. Your brother was right after all.
her imaginary brother. Most stories here on nairaland are fake bro. Read for fun, dont take them to d heart grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by superCleanworks(m): 11:30am On Mar 14, 2022
Palema007:
She has the right to state her red flag, why get all insulting like you are guilty?
walahi we have lots of childish guys on nairaland that is why you see a thread very scanty in a situation where ladies should NATURALLY comment without fear of being judged or attacked.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Timoleon(m): 11:30am On Mar 14, 2022
Fade grin
udomonday:
Selfishness. Took her to a restaurant she ate like someone who has been starving for the past one week. dipped her spoon into my plate and packed all the meat and put them in her plate.and kept wolving everything down. after that I just played along and bleeped her to my satisfaction and made a quick fade.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Calibrator: 11:31am On Mar 14, 2022
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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by moralex(m): 11:31am On Mar 14, 2022
Offpoint1:
She doesn't know who Einstein or Isaac Newton was, couldn't held any intelligent conversation.
meet someone like that too, doesn't know who Elon musk is and Tasla
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by leobergy(m): 11:31am On Mar 14, 2022
czarr:
Small yansh
grin grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Joseph08(m): 11:31am On Mar 14, 2022
Crafteck1:
Is it only relationship people talk about here... Everytime man and woman
Me too I tire o bro grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by DarkJeddi(m): 11:32am On Mar 14, 2022
AdiokOnoNland:
Omo na lie everytime, she just dey lie dey confused me grin grin
I can relate.. cheesy

Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:32am On Mar 14, 2022
Chummynoni:
her imaginary brother. Most stories here on nairaland are fake bro. Read for fun, dont take them to d heart grin
....Naso I dey see am bro.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by bigcee(m): 11:33am On Mar 14, 2022
mybiz234:
It is cotton ball, not cotton board
Cotton buds...mtchewwww undecided

Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 11:33am On Mar 14, 2022
Shegzdave:
undecided
Ishilove,
Commands see who you were advising on her thread.
Imagine a mid-teen ooo and she said her brother is caging her..
Seems I’ll get a big padlock to add to the cage undecided
More like that thread was only created for traffic. Too many of them these days. Does that person sound like a mid-teen to you?
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:34am On Mar 14, 2022
Prechgold1180:
Good evening everyone
Came across this exact topic on Facebook
What is the biggest red flag you have ever spotted at the begging of a new relationship

Would love to get comments concerning this topic

BRB for my own REDFLAG
we just started dating and she told me her ex whom she just left to be with me recently visited her in her school girls hostel and she threw the bread he brought to the ground because of a quarrel between them at that moment.

Not too long after we started dating she revealed her elder sister and herself fight often and the mother is fond of supporting the eldest daughter against her. Fight got so serious this time the elder sister took all the clothes she dashed her and burnt.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by olamoses75(m): 11:34am On Mar 14, 2022
Beebah2000:
Small pencil. sad

If you don't get it, forget about it. undecided
if you see big pencil you go still complain
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:34am On Mar 14, 2022
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
........I just saw a thread where you were complaining about your brother who is constantly monitoring you, restricting you from all social network and wouldn't let u Ming with others,you also claimed to be in ur mid-teen.......how come you already had a date to the extent of observing a turn off at the beginning..... are we supposed to believe you have already started dating in ur mid-teen or was the other thread all about chasing shadows?.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Godwin25king: 11:34am On Mar 14, 2022
[quote author=Sonnobax15 post=111011311]. grin. And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans
Guyy grin grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Godwin25king: 11:35am On Mar 14, 2022
Sonnobax15:
. grin. And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans grin
Guyyy grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by lolu2019: 11:36am On Mar 14, 2022
Stealing.she stole from my mum shop.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Dukeolumidemans(m): 11:36am On Mar 14, 2022
Sonnobax15:
. grin. And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans grin
Savage... grin grin grin tongue
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by billgabb(m): 11:36am On Mar 14, 2022
We stay in the same street and I have lost count of how many cars has dropped her off from work. Men visits her like swimming pool.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Titaniumental: 11:36am On Mar 14, 2022
YoungDaNaval:
The yeye Ogoni girl said she can help me get a job in Shell but I won't use the money to help my family...only her family....I jakpa cheesy
She tried to seal the deal with convenant?

If No,i see no reason to Jakpa,get the Job first,and make she watch as u go dey use the money take care of your people grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by olamoses75(m): 11:36am On Mar 14, 2022
YoungDaNaval:
The yeye Ogoni girl said she can help me get a job in Shell but I won't use the money to help my family...only her family....I jakpa cheesy
you fall my hand o. I go tell her say no problem, sebi na her account my salary go Dey enter.lol
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by GlowDee: 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022
KingDash:
you no wise you for collect the job jakpa
Lol.. Not with an Ogoni or Eleme girl. You want make dem blow your destiny like powder.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by seyz91(m): 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022
Confirm!
Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo grin.
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease grin


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022
superCleanworks:
walahi we have lots of childish guys on nairaland that is why you see a thread very scanty in a situation where ladies should NATURALLY comment without fear of being judged or attacked.
It's nauseating....
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