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Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hamachi(f): 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022
toobusy:
........I just saw a thread where you were complaining about your brother who is constantly monitoring you, restricting you from all social network and wouldn't let u Ming with others,you also claimed to be in ur mid-teen.......how come you already had a date to the extent of observing a turn off at the beginning..... are we supposed to believe you have already started dating in ur mid-teen or was the other thread all about chasing shadows?.
Teenage sex is on the rise, I read a publication on about it on daily times
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Dukeolumidemans(m): 11:37am On Mar 14, 2022
Beebah2000:
Small pencil. sad

If you don't get it, forget about it. undecided
But if u see very big pencil now, u will just be screaming anyhow that someborri wants to kill u before ur time... grin grin grin tongue
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by OdenKelechi(m): 11:38am On Mar 14, 2022
Comparing my salary to that of her ex
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 14, 2022
He was rude to the waitress and when I pointed it out he started his statement with "una wey be women" . I found it misogynistic.


And I wasn't wrong, because I observed him from there on and discovered he was a red pill fan and had misogyny running through his veins.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Shegzdave: 11:38am On Mar 14, 2022
pocohantas:
More like that thread was only created for traffic. Too many of them these days. Does that person sound like a mid-teen to you?
I knew most of these thread are created for traffic and to catch cruise but what’s funny is she busted herself almost immediately,
she couldn’t wait for some days before shooting herself in the foot grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ishilove: 11:39am On Mar 14, 2022
Shegzdave:
undecided
Ishilove,
Come and see who you were advising on her thread.
Imagine a mid-teen ooo and she said her brother is caging her..
Seems I’ll get a big padlock to add to the cage undecided
He/she is obviously using his forefathers to catch cruise
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:41am On Mar 14, 2022
If I find out you have ever cheated in a previous relationship, red flag I am not asking you out again

If I find out you have temper issues, red flag I’m not asking you out again

If I found out you’re saucy or have a way of being insultive in a sly way, red flag im not asking you out again.

If I find out it is in your nature to flirt on chat without indulging in the immoral sex and kissing gan gan, just chat flirts using erotic sexual stickers that could pass flirty green lights, even if it is not in your nature to proceed. I’ll take it one day una go hook-up, red flag I’m not asking you out again.

If I find out you’re too demanding or beggy by nature, red flag I’m not asking out again.


Most difficult part for me is finding out these things in my woman during the courtship stage cos most of them will hide it and pretend to be decent just for you to ask them our first.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:41am On Mar 14, 2022
Ishilove:
He/she is obviously using his forefathers to catch cruise
she is a troll
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Abdotcom(m): 11:42am On Mar 14, 2022
Miss liar, if there is "liar pageant" I would to sponsor her and I'm very sure she would definitely win the crown
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by blackgold2018(m): 11:42am On Mar 14, 2022
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
no he is not stingy.
He is a man. He’s free with you without no pretense.

I do the same. Why should I just buy anything without pricing because I wanna impress a lady. Rubbish.

Because some of all this sales person use that as a advantage on couples, like telling the buyer a high price because the guy wouldn’t want to fall his hands when with a lady.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:43am On Mar 14, 2022
Wittyduchess:
He was rude to the waitress and when I pointed it out he started his statement with "una wey be women" . I found it misogynistic.


And I wasn't wrong, because I observed him from there on and discovered he was a red pill fan and had misogyny running through his veins.
That’s sad

How are you
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Shegzdave: 11:43am On Mar 14, 2022
Ishilove:
He/she is obviously using his forefathers to catch cruise
It’s funny considering how she busted herself almost immediately cheesy
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:43am On Mar 14, 2022
OdenKelechi:
Comparing my salary to that of her ex
disgusting
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:44am On Mar 14, 2022
Ebubu:
That’s sad

How are you
I'm ok.

To top it all he was a narcissist and a chronic gaslighter.If not that I was aware of the antics of such people I would have been sucked up into a dark hole.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:45am On Mar 14, 2022
Sonnobax15:
. grin. And his only mistake was that his small pencil couldn't write anything in the big for nothing black board you call a pot of beans grin
Hahahahhahah Why are you wicked
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo grin.
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease grin


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"
Haha another wicked boy feminists will come for you
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
Wittyduchess:
I'm ok.

To top it all the was a narcissist and a chronic gaslighter.If not that I was aware of the antics of such people I would have been sucked up into a dark hole.
Glad you’re out as you use a past tense. Hell is over, welcome on earth.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
blackgold2018:
no he is not stingy.
He is a man. He’s free with you without no pretense.

I do the same. Why should I just buy anything without pricing because I wanna impress a lady. Rubbish.

Because some of all this sales person use that as a advantage on couples, like telling the buyer a high price because the guy wouldn’t want to fall his hands when with a lady.
Nah pikin the worry am, ask that said individual if she have ever worked for 100k in her life. I read a teen claim belong to the individual.
God actually saved the young dude from extravagant spender of a Wife. Like me I have the box,wife knows that but i will price until I'm comfortable, nobody help me made my Money.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Crafteck1: 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
Prechgold1180:
Ok come let’s talk about Russia and Ukraine
How about how small and medium scale business will survive the nsija electricity supply /diesel onslaught
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Beedude(m): 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
Met online, claimed to be a big girl. Came with a Lexus on first date. I ordered something of 3k but she order 15k. I paid and we move.
2 days later, she made a disress call that she forgot her ATM at home while going to work and she already filled up her car with fuel of 13k in the station. So i should bail her out with 15k. She wanted to send the fuel attendant account. I told her bluntly, why cant u do the transfer from your own account since you only forgot your cards and not your phones.
She hissed and hung up immediately.
I helped her by blocking her on every platform she can reach me on.
Some ladies are just mad
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Edipet(m): 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
OdenKelechi:
Comparing my salary to that of her ex
how did you get to tell her your earning
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by JohnnA1: 11:46am On Mar 14, 2022
pocohantas:
More like that thread was only created for traffic. Too many of them these days. Does that person sound like a mid-teen to you?
Meaning Nairaland takes the majority of its members for fools.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ebubu: 11:47am On Mar 14, 2022
Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo grin.
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease grin


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"
grin
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Miyachi: 11:47am On Mar 14, 2022
Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.
The right term would be "haggling".
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 14, 2022
Ebubu:
Glad you’re out as you use a past tense. Hell is over, welcome on earth.
lol. Thanks.
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by maximizer61(m): 11:47am On Mar 14, 2022
Offpoint1:
She doesn't know who Einstein or Isaac Newton was, couldn't held any intelligent conversation.
lol you're very funny,��
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Ishilove: 11:49am On Mar 14, 2022
Ebubu:
she is a troll
So many jobless mofos on this forum. It is so annoying
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by JohnnA1: 11:49am On Mar 14, 2022
toobusy:
........I just saw a thread where you were complaining about your brother who is constantly monitoring you, restricting you from all social network and wouldn't let u Ming with others,you also claimed to be in ur mid-teen.......how come you already had a date to the extent of observing a turn off at the beginning..... are we supposed to believe you have already started dating in ur mid-teen or was the other thread all about chasing shadows?.
Don't you know Nairaland? That was a fake thread for traffic purposes. Deplorable undecided
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:49am On Mar 14, 2022
nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is import I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho
Wow what a good guy have you read the redpill
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Prechgold1180(op): 11:49am On Mar 14, 2022
Crafteck1:
How about how small and medium scale business will survive the nsija electricity supply /diesel onslaught
Nice but I do prefer to discuss about obaseki and wike

Do you think obaseki is doing the right thing
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:50am On Mar 14, 2022
mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me embarassed
Lol olosho
Re: What's The Biggest Red Flag You Ever Spotted At The Start Of A New Relationship? by darediamond(m): 11:51am On Mar 14, 2022
Beebah2000:
Small pencil. sad

If you don't get it, forget about it. undecided
What is it if not PENNISS?
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