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lasisi69:
I knew because, aside that, Wrong move !!!

Yeah, it was a wrong move... I figured that out early

U mean Tesla?
U mean " Met someone like that"?

moralex:
meet someone like that too, doesn't know who Elon musk is and Tasla

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

It wasn't necessary. Journey of life is farther than that.

nurez305:
That's just the summary of the whole things.... If I start explaining everything she did to me and what I did back to her, then you won't even have the strength to read it.

If she can set me up to arrest me because I demanded for my phone to be returned back, then spending millions to retaliate to clear the heart break is not much.

Some useless people will only take you for a fool in this country if you are too full and quiet. If I wanted to really wicked her, the police will never allow her to go base on the allegation they put on her.

I only do that to let her know that she is not smart with what she does to me

Bro you don't owe anybody any explanations honestly, what is good for the BALLA is likewise good for BULLUS.

Eagba:
na only her comment you see. ode

I don’t blame you. I only blame poverty for stopping a couple from buying condom. This shit won’t have happened.

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

Nice one bro I like what you did in the revenge part

You be man , listen guys these gals of today are all harlots

Imagine after doing all these for her she has the right to deny you ..so painful ..she just don't love you she put you in a friend zone and can deny you anywhere , she is a trickish girl

Thank god you were lucky to visit her that day ..if not bro you for just de used and one day she go jakpa leave you in your face follow another guy go

@womenareapess

Baba started asking me to borrow him money and to loan money from people for him the very next day i agreed to date him,.... He was a very manipulative, self-centered, greedy and a lying ass person.... Since i had known him, he was always hungry or not having money(everyday, min, hour you will hear him say"am hungry, since day before yesterday i never chop, na just water i dey drink then when you ask what he wants to eat, he says turkey, stew and rice with little beans or i go manage 5k,later again he will say hes sick and in the hospital or his father had an accident or his brother is sick" kai Akin my God will judge you heavily, nobody tell me before i off my slippers run leave am..... Lost many opportunities then cos of him but i thank God for where i am now...

Crafteck1:
Is it only relationship people talk about here... Everytime man and woman

Because na wetin dey easy kill human being physically, mentally, spiritually etc

bluefilm:
Nwoke m, you went too far over a small nonsense like an ordinary phone.

It shows that you are too vindictive.

If i were you, and i discover what she did, i will simply ghost her.

And that's the end of the relationship.

well, you understand nothing, if you think the reason is only for the phone. I even sold the phone lesser than the amount I gave the policemen.

If I had let it slide, she will think she is wise and be boasting that she will never return the phone.

Indeed you can't understand the whole thing so I won't bother explaining myself to you again . If samething happen to you, you can forget about the case and let her to go freely

mybiz234:
It is cotton ball, not cotton board

My Dear, You are wrong too. It is Cotton bud.

Tv122:
Just to collect phone,,, hian ��

what if na iphone 12

[quote author=Ebubu post=111025172]If I find out you have ever cheated in a previous relationship, red flag I am not asking you out again

If I find out you have temper issues, red flag I’m not asking you out again

If I found out you’re saucy or have a way of being insultive in a sly way, red flag im not asking you out again.
If I find out it is in your nature to flirt on chat without indulging in the immoral sex and kissing gan gan, just chat flirts using erotic sexual stickers that could pass flirty green lights, even if it is not in your nature to proceed. I’ll take it one day una go hook-up, red flag I’m not asking you out again.

If I find out you’re too demanding or beggy by nature, red flag I’m not asking out again.


Most difficult part for me is finding out these things in my woman during the courtship stage cos most of them will hide it and pretend to be decent just for you to ask them our first.


[/insulting not insultive]

Blessiing:
Baba started asking me to borrow him money and to collect loan from people for him the very next day i agreed to date him.... Since i have known him he has never eaten or had money, you will always hear him say"since yesterday i never chop, one naira no dey my hand like this"kai Akin my God will judge you heavily..... Nobody tell me before i off slippers run

He wan Simon lieviev you.

Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.

Aren't you the girl with the overprotective brother?? How come ??

now i have laughed to my full,
nairalanders no fit kill me with laugh

Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo .
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"

Shey u fit make heaven like dis?

Kobojunkiee:
What?

So your viewpoint is that a healthy heterosexual relationship revolves around the man's ego - all this because he has an outtie while she has an innie?

Like I said in one of my comments, toxic and manly are used interchangeably for some people. Male narcissists often hide under "manly" to get away with it.

mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me

GoogleMania

Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.

Are your sure you are in your mid teen like you said in your thread? Your brother is right about you.

nurez305:
well, you understand nothing, if you think the reason is only for the phone. I even sold the phone lesser than the amount I gave the policemen.

If I had let it slide, she will think she is wise and be boasting that she will never return the phone.

Indeed you can't understand the whole thing so I won't bother explaining myself to you again . If samething happen to you, you can forget about the case and let her to go freely

I’m with you.

Chummynoni:
her imaginary brother. Most stories here on nairaland are fake bro. Read for fun, dont take them to d heart

The thing tire person. I will stop commenting on personal stories henceforth.

Chukabiz:
She's hostile to strangers, my friends and family.

That one na territorial babe

nurez305:
well, you understand nothing, if you think the reason is only for the phone. I even sold the phone lesser than the amount I gave the policemen.

If I had let it slide, she will think she is wise and be boasting that she will never return the phone.

Indeed you can't understand the whole thing so I won't bother explaining myself to you again . If samething happen to you, you can forget about the case and let her to go freely

I've told you what I would have done if it were to be me.

I am not blaming you for being so vindictive.

I am just telling you that you are vindictive person which means that anybody dealing with you should be extremely careful.

Wittyduchess:
Like I said in one of my comments, toxic and manly are used interchangeably for some people. Male narcissists often hide under "manly" to get away with it.

Na wa oo!

mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me

Na retired olosho

Kobojunkiee:
Na wa oo!

E shock you?

I said it before that this forum is crawling with psychopaths , narcissists , gaslighters and every other personality disorder you can think off.

pansophist:
Asked me to book for uber while coming, I did. While at the venue, ate so much and ordered take away, i paid, then asked for a uber ride back home to the island, i paid again. Another meet up, asked me to book uber again, while choosing an expensive location which I'll pay of course.

Mehn, I ghost her instantly. I can't be spending more than the minimum wage per date, I no be thief na. Watching as debit sms keeps entering my phone almost gave me heart attack. I don't like that feeling.

You didn't jump off the Bus on Time....

Wittyduchess:
E shock you?

I said it before that this forum is crawling with psychopaths , narcissists , gaslighters and every other personality disorder you can think off.

Nah! I am used to the breeds that litter nairaland.

princejohnard:
Aren't you the girl with the overprotective brother?? How come ??

NL go shock you... Believe what you read at your own peril... Lol

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

Oga , nawa ooo for you o