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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by TheGidRedpiller(m): 5:18pm On Mar 16, 2022
Femi8586:
@ Thegidredpiller

The name calling in yesterday's post was unnecessary, be it a man or a woman. I just think it's unnecessary. It doesn't change anything.

Don't make her feel isolated in your family. Take care of her. Forget whatever wrong she did and just move on so you don't have a broken home. Peace.
Why is everybody centered on the notion that she is a big factor in whatever happens to me? Thats just bizzare!

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by TheGidRedpiller(m): 5:19pm On Mar 16, 2022
Femi8586:



The curse part got me confused yesterday. What could be wrong in his family?

Aside the heavy derogatory name callings he used on his mother which I think is not right, he shouldn't allow his mother's action get him to missbehave to that extent.

This is Africa, so emotionally people will so much drag him cos it involves a mother(a woman). If he had same issue with his father, they wouldn't have cared as much as this.
GOD BLESS YOU.
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Femi8586(m): 5:38pm On Mar 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
Why is everybody centered on the notion that she is a big factor in whatever happens to me? Thats just bizzare!

That's Africa. They believe in curse, especially one that come from parents.

Some will use this as an excuse to insult you. Some will mock you.

But you just need to take everything easy!

You're in the better position to put your family together again. Make it work again. All the best bro.
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by anonimi: 5:39pm On Mar 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
I gave her the money she would need to get herself sorted out in the hospital today.

I just walked in the house, dropped the N100,000 cash on the table where she would clearly see it, and walked out immediately. She shouldn't be expecting me to greet, at this point, she is no longer a mother figure to me, I felt like I was just helping some random person in need on the street, no pressure!

As for her curses, well, I didn't see the money on the table this morning, so basically, she accepted help from a cursed soul.
I appreciate everyone that took my situation very likely yesterday and the ones who even tried reaching out to me personally, I really do appreciate, you guys are the real KINGS around here.

I am a damaged person, believe me, I know, the redpill however is the only the that gave me the insight to everything I was going through, I am toxic, I get, but at least I have a good cause, I'm just a young man that has gone through a whole lot, and is currently still going through hell mentally, psychologically and socially!!

My life is looking like I'm supposed to be traumatized in every way, first of, I was molested as a young boy by A WOMAN, and then I have the worst woman the world can ever breed as a biological mother, so basically, I was born CURSED!! what then is the DIFFERENCE

I have given her the money, she won, but whatever....
I'm waiting for the doctor's report tonight.

Still Typing...

You should consider seeing a psychotherapist as soon as you can. All the best

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by GloriousGbola: 5:42pm On Mar 16, 2022
Natural born Red pillaz

Journey with me into the mind of a redpiller
Oozing and spilling hatred like an oil spiller
I'm in a hatred mind state with a mind full of bile
Ready to spill a hos blood on the tile,
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Toktee(m): 5:43pm On Mar 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
My post got to front page yesterday, it's still in my profile if you want to re-live it.

Let me tell you something real quick, learn to count your blessings accurately, if you come out of a very warm and functional family, you are BLESSED beyond deserved! Some of us wished we never even surfaced because it's obviously better than having to go through what we are going through on the daily basis!!

I posted yesterday out of sheer ANGER, RESENTMENT AND VENGEANCE. I was insulted yesterday, of course, what was I expecting anyways Everybody just started emphasizing on the curse she was spewing at me and the fact that I do not have a choice but to be degrade myself to her every demand simply because she is my mother, but absolutely nobody paid attention to what I have achieved, I clearly stated out where I helped my immediate younger brother to good heights with his artistic processes!!

It looked as though my mother's curse on me was more important than the impact I'm making to everyone around me simply because she is my mother, I will not hesitate to add that I know all this support is very tagged to the fact that my mother is a WOMAN!! And as such, she should be more important than every other thing I have to say! Nobody cared about ME, my wellbeing, nobody even wanted to pay attention to the awful things she has done which I clearly mentioned too though, nobody paid attention to the fact that I helped my brother gather connections in the US, UK and currently INDIA, NOBODY!!

That's exactly what the world looks like gentlemen, if you are a man reading this, you should know the take aways you should do!!

Still Typing...

All this you are spewing here is nonsense.... why will you call the one who give birth to you a LovePeddler while does that... are you her husband?
What you did is very terrible yet you see nothing wrong in ur actions.. My mother was very harsh to me to a point I once asked my father weather she's my mom... yet I never hates her instead I made her cried and beg me for forgiveness with love.... I tried all I could to make sure she lack nothing.... before she died she said I must be by her bed side.... It was a sight to behold.
Replaced hate with love and watch the offender come begging.... not to call you old woman who're.... Who dare you?

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by WoundedLamb: 5:44pm On Mar 16, 2022
The support was because you mother is a woman? Is that what she is to you? Just another woman? Dude, you also extend this sexism to your mother and you want people to support you? Sir, whatever sympathy she got wasn't because she is a woman. Heck, NL peeps would gladly support a man in any most issues. It was because she is your mother. You both have the kind of connection that even a father can hardly have with a child. You came out from her and she loved you unconditionally. That should count for something, don't you think? I don't really know the full story and I'm not taking sides with anyone. But it was important to mention that her mother status should not be undermined like you did. Even your achievements wouldn't make thar right. Go and make peace now that she's alive.

To everyone who follows the OP in whatever direction he goes, hope y'all see what you're following? Like I said, each time you come on this app to insult women, you insult your mothers. Let's stay away from sexism before it's too late.

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by IgweBUIKE1(m): 5:48pm On Mar 16, 2022
You did well.. ... This is why dele alli and his parent are at logger head... I can't have a selfish mother and I won't disown her personally... She never knew a day like this will come... She thinks beauty last forever

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Toktee(m): 5:48pm On Mar 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
Why is everybody centered on the notion that she is a big factor in whatever happens to me? Thats just bizzare!
She carried you in her womb foe 9months, went through stress while the pregn9 last.... Gone through agonising pain to bring you to this world, took created of you through out your child hood only to call her LovePeddler. May God help you.

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Prayfortheworld: 5:48pm On Mar 16, 2022
Beremx:
Kriss216, this one you’re following the cursed Op around, hope you are not planning to do same to your beloved mother? If you treat your mother bad, you will see people that you will owe explanations. Just an advice


The cursed soul even called his mother a birth giver? May we mothers never give birth to children who will bring sorrows to us
When you don't take care of the kids you bring into this world they will bring nothing but sorrows to you

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Toktee(m): 5:49pm On Mar 16, 2022
WoundedLamb:
The support was because you mother is a woman? Is that what she is to you? Just another woman? Dude, you also extend this sexism to your mother and you want people to support you? Sir, whatever sympathy she got wasn't because she is a woman. Heck, NL peeps would gladly support a man in any most issues. It was because she is your mother. You both have the kind of connection that even a father can hardly have with a child. You came out from her and she loved you unconditionally. That should count for something, don't you think? I don't really know the full story and I'm not taking sides with anyone. But it was important to mention that her mother status should not be undermined like you did. Even your achievements wouldn't make thar right. Go and make peace now that she's alive.

To everyone who follows the OP in whatever direction he goes, hope y'all see what you're following? Like I said, each time you come on this app to insult women, you insult your mothers. Let's stay away from sexism before it's too late.
Forget the guy abeg.

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Ofadaman(m): 5:50pm On Mar 16, 2022
Its all in your head brother man, don't get cut up in the gram.

The followers ,the likes, the clouts ,the comments buzzing on your phone that makes you feel special , it's just a phase , it means nothing ,by tomorow everyone would have gone back to their lives or next trending thing, both those insulting you and those supporting you, because in true sense no one gives a F* about what you do.
When the whole dust settles what really matters are the friends and family you have around you not the online validation, cause while typing cowardly behind the rectangular interface of your phone feeling larger than normal, when you go to bed, it dawns on you that you got nothing and no one. This followers and likes you see na scam, no one will give you one Kobo or offer help when you in need.. people only.give value to where they'd get value, so if you chose to make your life an entertainment for other make sure you charge them for the views and for ads but cause if you don't then you are just a big fool wavering in the sea of life and you don't realize yet that the world is a stone cold place.

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Socratiz: 5:51pm On Mar 16, 2022
A lot of responses here are based on emotions thereby ignoring the trauma of the op.

Anyone who had a toxic parent would understand the reason behind your attitude. An adverse childhood experience breeds a life long traumatic experience.

However, you cannot live in anger and bitterness against your mother all your life. It is not helpful for your health and it could overflow into your marriage. You need to seek for help.

You can send me a mail and I would help you along this line

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by IgweBUIKE1(m): 5:52pm On Mar 16, 2022
Toktee:
She carried you in her womb foe 9months, went through stress while the pregn9 last.... Gone through agonising pain to bring you to this world, took created of you through out your child hood only to call her LovePeddler. May God help you.
see manipulation... She is not his mother but a birth giver... Mother is more than labour pain

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Ahmback(m): 5:53pm On Mar 16, 2022
Jennyclay:
It's very good you helped her. No matter what happens she's till your mother.

Stop writing rubbish here, go and apologize to your mum. No wonder you're always frustrated and bitter about women.

I pity people that takes advice from you.
you're really foolish i must say the least

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 5:54pm On Mar 16, 2022
Prayfortheworld:

When you don't take care of the kids you bring into this world they will bring nothing but sorrows to you
And themselves? undecided

This Op is not a teenager but an adult with serious damage issues who thinks that by continuing to offload his foolishness in his adulthood on his mother, he can get away with it. undecided

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Nonexisting: 5:56pm On Mar 16, 2022
If you speak about your mother in this manner, you need help bro. Even if she is a monster to you, some things are better not voiced out talk more of saying it on social media.
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by ghettochild(m): 5:56pm On Mar 16, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
After calling the woman who held you for 9months a b""t"h?
Ooh what was expected of you to do before..?
Leave her with her ailment..I wonder how most of you think to be sincere..

I saw the thread and laughed off..so this is the boy always chanting wannabe redpiller all over the place..this is the person most kids on here follow and support.. someone who called his mother a slur word..what a pity..

You didn't help her..you posted it here..and the mods helped you to push it to fp for their traffic and you thought that made you popular?
Nah it made the owner some extra doe and extra members..

So what were you expecting people to do.. thank you for helping your own mother?you are deceiving yourself.. don't think you did something unique..it's what a sane kid will do for his mother..
The hypocrisy even made your thread More hilarious.. people were correcting you yesterday and some of your fellow kids were supporting you saying things like did you know what the mother do?
So what?if the mother curse you..you really had to bring it to public? NL of all places to call her in that manner..
Imagine a lady insulting her father in that manner..I bet most guys on here would have been saying something else..
You made yourself a laughing stock to everyone..I know some are still gonna support you as usual..if you like hurt her or any woman..there are still space in prison..
Thanks for giving me a good laugh yesterday.. cheesy
Calm down na..
I pray u go thru what the OP went thru

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 5:57pm On Mar 16, 2022
IgweBUIKE1:
see manipulation... She is not his mother but a birth giver... Mother is more than labour pain
If the OP really thinks of her as just that which you claim , why is he here whining about his birthgiver and blaming her for the damage that is his current existence? undecided

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by PeachtreeReside(f): 5:59pm On Mar 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
My post got to front page yesterday, it's still in my profile if you want to re-live it.

Let me tell you something real quick, learn to count your blessings accurately, if you come out of a very warm and functional family, you are BLESSED beyond deserved! Some of us wished we never even surfaced because it's obviously better than having to go through what we are going through on the daily basis!!

I posted yesterday out of sheer ANGER, RESENTMENT AND VENGEANCE. I was insulted yesterday, of course, what was I expecting anyways Everybody just started emphasizing on the curse she was spewing at me and the fact that I do not have a choice but to be degrade myself to her every demand simply because she is my mother, but absolutely nobody paid attention to what I have achieved, I clearly stated out where I helped my immediate younger brother to good heights with his artistic processes!!

It looked as though my mother's curse on me was more important than the impact I'm making to everyone around me simply because she is my mother, I will not hesitate to add that I know all this support is very tagged to the fact that my mother is a WOMAN!! And as such, she should be more important than every other thing I have to say! Nobody cared about ME, my wellbeing, nobody even wanted to pay attention to the awful things she has done which I clearly mentioned too though, nobody paid attention to the fact that I helped my brother gather connections in the US, UK and currently INDIA, NOBODY!!

That's exactly what the world looks like gentlemen, if you are a man reading this, you should know the take aways you should do!!

Still Typing...


Go for therapy with a licensed professional to help you deal with your traumatic past.

Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by mechanics(m): 5:59pm On Mar 16, 2022
Always be positive, and pray away the curses she laid on you, it won't work since you didn't offend her.
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Acidosis(m): 5:59pm On Mar 16, 2022
Saintmary:



I don't care what anyone says about their parents.


But as for my own Father, he's the best I could ever have hoped for.



Yes he made some errors as a human, he's not perfect, but I love him so much, sometimes more than my Mom, but I love that woman too, it feels like competition in my heart so I'll just love them equally.


I'm grateful they are still alive.

Love this, thanks to your dad and mom wink
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Kobojunkie: 5:59pm On Mar 16, 2022
ghettochild:

Calm down na..
I pray u go thru what the OP went thru
So many people out there have endured worse than OP has, but rarely do you find them coming on nairaland to blame their mother or father for their own damage in life. You instead read of those who chose to overcome their bitter past or seek ways to overcome it. undecided

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:00pm On Mar 16, 2022
Oga carry your wahala comot for our face abeg. You call your mother bîtch or not, that one na your problem. I've always known something is not right about you with all those threads you open upandan.

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by gadgethead: 6:00pm On Mar 16, 2022
You don't have to love or be emotional attached to your mom. But to watch her watch her suffer (even though she fvcked up) will only make your depression worse. I am sure you feel a lil bit relieved you reached out to her

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Emmanuel30a: 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK post=111083484][i]After calling the woman who held you for 9months a b""t"h?
Ooh what was expected of you to do before..?
Leave her with her ailment..I wonder how most of you think to be sincere..

I saw the thread and laughed off..so this is the boy always chanting wannabe redpiller all over the place..this is the

You didn't help her..you posted it here..and the mods helped you to push it to fp for their traffic and you thought that made you popular?


So what were you expecting people to do.. thank you for helping your own mother
@Fernadesisback Don't let your love for women becloud you from providing logical and unbias submission and plight. Op said he was molested by a woman, traumatized mentally, socially,etc... You can have a better reaction... People are evil anyway&you may do more than that if it's you. Nothing new under the sun. Like I read recently about a mother who lured her teenage son to impregnated her because she can't get pregnant for her new husband...

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
ghettochild:

Calm down na..
I pray u go thru what the OP went thru
And what makes you think I haven't? undecided
You think if everyone let emotions control how we live the world will be a better place..
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by capricornlady: 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
Why push this useless thread to front page? Do whatever you wish to your mother birthgiver and keep drowning in your red pill ocean; your eye go clear!!

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So many people out there have endured worse than OP has, but rarely do you find them coming on nairaland to blame their mother or father for their own damage in life. You instead read of those who chose to overcome their bitter past or seek ways to overcome it. undecided
Kobo thanks for this.. exactly what I told him..
Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by Prayfortheworld: 6:04pm On Mar 16, 2022
Kobojunkie:
And themselves? undecided

This Op is not a teenager but an adult with serious damage issues who thinks that by continuing to offload his foolishness in his adulthood on his mother, he can get away with it. undecided
He might.. but the parents will always regret not taking care of their kids.
The Bible told us to take care of our kids.
I don't see any reason why you will bring in a child into this world and not take care of the kid. That's why there's so much crime in this country and we're skipping the root to cut the leaves, because she's a mother she can get away with anything and the society will blame the kids.. that's why this country will never work again

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Re: I Finally Helped My Birthgiver Get To The Hospital - TheGidRedpiller by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:04pm On Mar 16, 2022
capricornlady:
Why push this useless thread to front page? Do whatever you wish to your mother and keep drowning in your red pill ocean; your eye go clear!!
As in ehn, I don't know how any of this is our business undecided. These mods self

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