Kobojunkie:
Oh, I did Biology and even biology clearly explains to us that many of these chemical and hormonal systems in our body happen to run on a feedback loop system meaning they are and can be controlled by either the brain or the mind in question. Need I go on?

You have ability to control your sexual urges. Exercise, meditation, and general mental discipline are good ways prescribed to helping resolve and control mood issues. The same have been recommended and prescribed in resolving issues related to lust for those with addiction to masturbation and the lot.

Go on

kumulus:
Go on

You can pick up a Human Physiology text to brush up on the rest if you care to.

Kobojunkie:
You can pick up a Human Physiology text to brush up on the rest if you care to.

I will, you should pick up quality works on the functioning of human brain and mind as well. It would prove most resourceful for you.

kumulus:
I will, you should pick up quality works on the functioning of human brain and mind as well. It would prove most resourceful for you.

Trust that all I have said so far is because I have in fact done a serious study on even my own mental over the years to know what I state to be fact.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are no longer married to him so it would be sin.
2. What is sin is the lust in your heart that usually comes before or during the acts themselves.

3. There is nothing natural about those desires or you would be born lusting from your very birth. You develop these desires over time and as such can also chose to control them rather than allow them control you.

I think we all know what is meant by sexual lust and that is what Jesus Christ said is sin.

you don't know what u are saying. She said they are only separated not divorced.

Kobojunkie:
Trust that all I have said so far is because I have in fact done a serious study on even my own mental over the years to know what I state to be fact.

Oh good for you

Gainman:
you don't know what u are saying. She said they are only separated not divorced.

Oh, my mistake. I thought I read that it had been made final- the divorce. Also, she referred to him as an ex leading me to conclude the marriage was over.

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

if u want to live without sin. Go and settle with your husband. Because if u are a good wife, husband will never leave you. Secondly

Gainman:
if u want to live without sin. Go and settle with your husband. Because if u are a good wife, husband will never leave you. Secondly

According to Jesus Christ, the only way to live without sin is instead to continue to accept and obey His commandments, His Truth, and in knowing the truth one is set free from bondage to sin by the Truth - John 8 vs 31 - 32. But here you suggest that Jesus Christ was wrong, how come?

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

go out there and get a dude and have amazing sex lady stop punishing yourself,ur not the first to be a single mom

udoji2021:


Chai!
who and who will make heaven liedis?

Don't mind the mumu postefe

Kobojunkie:
Please try not to muddle this up as it is easy to. According to Jesus Christ, God's very own Law given to those of us who wish to eventually make it into God's Heaven, you sin the moment you lust in your heart after a one you are not married to - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28. That is the point when one is said to become a sinner against God, not when one engages in any of the physical acts.

You go soon collect now.

pls try and find another good husband. no hormone

You are not lusting after another person and feeling sexual urges is normal. It is not a sin.

In this situation, you need to find something to take your mind off sex. Pray more, ask for the gifts of the spirit and the baptism of the Holy Spirit, probably fast if you can because that's one major way of regulating your body and mind.

At your age, you are healthy and lively so this situation is normal.

simpleseyi:
You go soon collect now.

Collect what exactly?

Lari03r:
You are not lusting after another person and feeling sexual urges is normal. It is not a sin.

In this situation, you need to find something to take your mind off sex. Pray more, ask for the gifts of the spirit and the baptism of the Holy Spirit, probably fast if you can because that's one major way of regulating your body and mind.

At your age, you are healthy and lively so this situation is normal.

Prayer does not take one's mind away from such things, neither does having what you call gifts of the spirit or baptism of the Holy Spirit doe any such. Also, going on a Starvation diet which many refer to as fasting also doesn't doesn't dead the body of sexual lust. Instead what does is doing as Jesus Christ commanded in John 8 vs 31 - 32 , a form of mental discipline.

Optimistic4life:


This option is definitely not in the picture at all.

He said I am free to remarry if I want but we aren't divorced and also remarrying isn't a day's affair nor a joke.

Well, the fact that he said so, doesn't mean he meant it, it is just one of those bragging things men do... If you have three kids under 10 years that is pretty a delicate matter and I want you to remember no option is ever close, for all I know the court could decide not to accede to his request because they are also going to consider the well being of the kids. I think the best thing to do is to ask yourself one simple question "do I still love him" if yes then put your matter in Baba God's table to help him reset his brain, if not then dress well and go have fun.. you can't come and kill yourself because he is probably sorting himself out

Kobojunkie:
Prayer does not take one's mind away from such things, neither does having what you call gifts of the spirit or baptism of the Holy Spirit doe any such. Also, going on a Starvation diet which many refer to as fasting also doesn't doesn't dead the body of sexual lust. Instead what does is doing as Jesus Christ commanded in John 8 vs 31 - 32 , a form of mental discipline.

Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things.

Stop misquoting the Bible.

When the Bible says if you love me obey my commandments, has she committed adultery? No.

Kobo, I know you haven't received the Holy Spirit that is why you are talking whatever you like. When you receive gifts of vision, singing in Tongues, healing and other spectacular spiritual gifts, your life will never remain the same, because you will seek to spend more time in God's presence.

The hormones must really be raging and vexing. Ultimately, you truly need to remarry so as to get over this issue.

Lari03r:
Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things.
Stop misquoting the Bible.

How does Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things abeg?

So it is a misquote to state exactly what Jesus Christ said is the only way to overcome sin, this in relation to the sin of sexual lust?,

Lari03r:
1. When the Bible says if you love me obey my commandments, has she committed adultery? No.

2. Kobo, I know you haven't received the Holy Spirit that is why you are talking whatever you like. When you receive gifts of vision, singing in Tongues, healing and other spectacular spiritual gifts, your life will never remain the same, because you will seek to spend more time in God's presence.

1. You have never in fact read up on Jesus Christ, have you?

The sin of sexual lust is called adultery...this by Jesus Christ, so if she has in fact had sexual lust, she has committed adultery - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28

2. Lol... Jesus Christ did not say only those who do all you claim are those who belong to Him. Instead, Jesus Christ said that those who continue to accept and obey His teachings are those who belong to Him - they are His followers- John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 42 - 47 & & John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 15 vs 14. Try to spend actual time reading through the Gospel aka New Covenant so you understand God's Truth as presented you by Jesus Christ from that which you have probably been fed through listening to the lies of men.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, I did Biology and even biology clearly explains to us that many of these chemical and hormonal systems in our body happen to run on a feedback loop system meaning they are and can be controlled by either the brain or the mind in question. Need I go on?

You have ability to control your sexual urges. Exercise, meditation, and general mental discipline are good ways prescribed to helping resolve and control mood issues. The same have been recommended and prescribed in resolving issues related to lust for those with addiction to masturbation and the lot.

All you're saying is pure FACTS
Learning never ends,they say,pls,keep them coming.
It takes a sensible person to sight a sensible person. You're perfectly doing well with this your assertions

Optimistic4life:


So the thought of sex coming through my mind has already made me a sinner?

Pls stop listening to the werey who has zero clue on what he is saying

It's perfectly normal to have sexual hormones

Just listen to the wisdom of the spirit...pray about it

Kobojunkie:
1. You have never in fact read up on Jesus Christ, have you?

The sin of sexual lust is called adultery...this by Jesus Christ, so if she has in fact had sexual lust, she has committed adultery - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28

2. Lol... Jesus Christ did not say only those who do all you claim are those who belong to Him. Instead, Jesus Christ said that those who continue to accept and obey His teachings are those who belong to Him - they are His followers- John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 42 - 47 & & John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 15 vs 14. Try to spend actual time reading through the Gospel aka New Covenant so you understand God's Truth as presented you by Jesus Christ from that which you have probably been fed through listening to the lies of men.

Without boasting you are pretty wrong with all you say.

Concerning adultery when Jesus was teaching about "looking and lusting" from a real perspective no one can attack you from looking at a woman lustfully as a man.

However, take a step further and sleep with that woman and you have opened yourself up to severe spiritual attacks.

Now, I know you don't understand Christianity because I mentioned the Holy Spirit but you are talking about the new covenant, have you read the book of Hebrews? Or Paul's explanation in Romans?

Do you think I am speaking of theoretical knowledge of God? No.

I am speaking of the practical knowledge of God. That is what Jesus was, the word that became flesh. And the Holy Spirit he promised gives gifts for people to show God's power in human vessels.

I know Jesus, do you have a practical experience of Jesus? Do you have practical testimonies about Jesus? Well, I do.

Because the Bible even says "The letter killeth, but the spirit maketh alive". You can interpret the Bible how you like but you CAN'T control the Holy Spirit or expect him to dwell with you in error.

On to your comments about the teachings of men, Jesus said in Acts 1 vs 8, and ye shall receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you.

The testimonies of the power of the Holy Spirit is in the book of Acts, so why are you quoting Scripture and rejecting the words of Jesus? Perhaps you haven't read beyond the Gospels?

Buskynwa:


its a made up story lmao

Made up?

It's not.

Optimistic4life:



Made up?

It's not.

Good morning, you are doing well. Stay strong and healthy. Things will change with time.

Romans 12.12 should motivate you.

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Implanon insert from your closest health care center will reduce sex drive by 50%. It's between 3500 and 5000 and will reduce your sex drive for 3 years before replacing

Look for spearmint tea in shops and drink daily.

Increase the amount of pepper in your personal meals.

Go stand in front of the mirror and talk to your body and ask its libido to be lowered. There is power in words.

Good luck

Cleave to reading the word of God & pray for abstinence,you will get it right

99% of women that had sex mastubate a lot.
I know one and she's a single mother.
She once told me she loves to hear my voice but I never knew she mastubate why we talk on phone.
Make we Bleep naaa, she con dey Form donjazzy

AutoChick4U:
Lol, stayed with sex throughout my pregnancy and until my baby clocked a year and 5 months. Practically seduced this son of man but unfortunately d sex aint nothing to write home about. I intend starving my flesh and feeding the spirit from now sha

Haaaaaaa


Naso capable men don scarce?

Optimistic4life:


Okay I get you. So if I long for sex with my ex husband, that shouldn't be a sin then.

So let me ask you. Is selfplay/selflove/masturbation a sin?

The body desiring what it needs naturally just like we eat.
Not fantasies towards anyone in particular.

Don't mind Kobo. She turns things upside down. No where in the scriptures is it written that having sexual urges is a sin. Rather, Apostle Paul exhorted that is better to marry than burn with lust.