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Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by GooodHardDick: 2:09pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
[s] Vivian16:[/s] Shut the f*ck up. Humanity kill you there!!. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Is that girl OP's wife? Are you OK? What is wrong with u Nigerian girls You want the op to help a hoe who's probably still exploring and collecting dicks around, and someone who will still bring guys into the apartment to bang her pussy. You dey ment?. The OP should look after his own family and spend the money on his wife, his mother and his sisters. Stop being a liability and a parasite!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Shadysen: 2:10pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:op just help ur follow man with 5k pls 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Nwaotu10(m): 2:15pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
4kin simp. You disgust me! |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Mydazz(m): 2:15pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Let her character get her a house,..... If there's something else you want from her be bold enough to to say it,............ Or better still ask your wife |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by nestorpaschal: 2:15pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
It never ends well having anything to do with an ex She's an ex, meaning she's in the past now. Girls always have their way bro, they are known to always have plan Bs so focus on your marriage and let her sort herself. And I know she has a boyfriend, that should be the guy's responsibility. My humble advice though. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by nedekid: 2:18pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Guy, it seems you want to marry second wife. When you rent the house, hope you will furnish it, food money nko? Dstv subscription etc. Ok when the rent expires, what next? Your intentions might be good but na small small e de start. Before you know, you don hook. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Pootle: 2:19pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
fulfil your promise...dont later go for the cookie |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Whatshallido: 2:21pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Hmmm! See this one, if na guy man like you, you no go help oo. You can assist her if you have the money, because you have already promised her. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by mizz2posh: 2:21pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx: Since your intention towards your ex is pure, why not ask your wife for advice |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Reinvented: 2:22pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
EmzyT:Ask your wife for her advice. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by funkmrflexx(m): 2:22pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Whatshallido: If na guy man like u I go help u. I've helped guys with more than houses |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by deavicky(m): 2:24pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:it's not bad thing except u are planning to visit her there sometimes, which will automatically turn a bad idea |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by funkmrflexx(m): 2:24pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
deavicky: She'll be staying in another state |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by moodyguy: 2:25pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:You are just opening the door to more requests from her. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by deavicky(m): 2:26pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:go ahead I'm at back |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by kemjoe: 2:27pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
It's not a bad idea helping her out but I would suggest you discuss this with your wife and assure her that you are not doing it for any ulterior motive other than just to help her out and fulfill the promise you once made to her. funkmrflexx: |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Ndidi2: 2:28pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:my question is can she continue paying d rent after d first? Having issues with one baby mama is my bq now. Since after d first payment from baby daddy na wahala to pay. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by silibaba: 2:30pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx: STOP MAKING A BIG SHOW OUTTA NOTHING. YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST AND POSSIBLY NOT GOING BE THE LAST. EX OR NO EX, ALWAYS HELP WHEN YOU ARE IN THE POSITION, EVEN WHEN IT DIFFICULT TO DO SO. GOD LIFT THE POOR AND SCATTER THE PROUD HEARTED. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Vivian16: 2:31pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:you are a big fool and your foolishness will kill you, yes she is a hoe and the op was hoeing with her till they parted their ways and he had it in his mind to her knowing fully well that she needs the help so allow him to do what he wants to do with his money after all it is not stated any where that you should help only your immediate family nembers, some people are where they are today because someone they are not related to helped them, so carry your demonic and selfish reasoning and get out. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by EmzyT: 2:33pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Reinvented: I'm not the OP na, y'all should stop quoting me |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Analysiscorner: 2:33pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Get a moderate one room for her. Help her to be getting some income. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Jennifer89(f): 2:34pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Don't open your mouth to tell your wife that you want to rent house for your ex, if you do you're in deep sh*it she will suspect your every move and begin to accuse you of sleeping with her infact there will be issues in your home. If you know, that you know deep down your heart that you want to help her genuinely without any strings attached please help her. Don't help and begin to communicate with her or visit her before you know it clap go enter dance. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by johhbekeboh09: 2:34pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx: Why'nt upgrade her to baby mama instead |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Ekzoba(m): 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
It's not bad to help but be very careful before you use your hand and destroy your marriage.If your wife find out na war and if you decide to tell her na war too. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Nobody: 2:39pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx: It's not you that would actually ask for something, she will be the one and there is no way you would be sending money to her without thinking of going to the place one day. She will try every means possible to always get your attention; then, the game starts from there. Reason am well Oga, if your Madam gets to know.........may God have His way. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by vRendoh(m): 2:40pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
EmzyT: Motives plenty $$$ The Guy is about to sow what may hurt him . His eyes still on the balls 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by yunqdady: 2:40pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
funkmrflexx:Shut up. You want to Bleep her I wish your wife gets to know and deal with you |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by simplesearch: 2:42pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
If you have respect for your wife, home and children then be gracious enough to inform your wife about this move, if you can't then leave it. Things like this may look little and ordinary but can land you in big problem. The said lady may just wake up one day and decide to blackmail you and viola she's got the evidence she needed to do so, especially if she wants to subtlety get back at you. Remember its your wife at that point that can come to your rescue and tell the whole world she knows about the assistance and actually approve of it. Let your past relationship and error remain in the past, once you're married looking back can be very counter productive; remember Lot's wife. So whatever you chose to do ensure your wife is aware of it, and if she disapprove of it kindly back off. Best rest assured she can and will survive without your assistance and you. Before I quit speaking, know that Some emotions are better left unattended to, for they can ruin your present joy. My one cent to you cent! Proverbs 27:5 Open rebuke is better than secret love. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by GooodHardDick: 2:42pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Vivian16: Your stupidity is extra ordinary. Have you helped any man in your life before? But once it comes to helping an Olosho and a community hoe, the man should go ahead na abi? Thunder fire u there idiot. Werey. If you help her yourself, will you die? I blame the Simp op wey no know himself. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Foolish girl, if you're broke. Get a job, not a boyfriend. |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by BouquiLake: 2:44pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Why asking us? The best person to ask or get permission from is your wife. If she says yes then go ahead.... Abi I no talk am well? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by Phrankin(m): 2:47pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Why is this place smelling simp simp? |
Re: I'm Married But I Want To Help My Ex Financially by cyndyuc(f): 2:49pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Discuss it with your wife and do whatever she tells you. If you do it behind her back and she finds out, it is cheating o. Carry your wife along or face front by forgetting about your ex. funkmrflexx: |
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