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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Eriokanmi: 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.
Trash

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by SugarGirl44(f): 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2022
Beautiful and smart lady.
You have done well.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by edoairways: 10:40pm On Apr 13, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.
It doesn't warrant that form of abuse to the point of death sentence
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Chidi2022: 10:40pm On Apr 13, 2022
SunMusk:
You should be ashamed of yourself, ur problem is riches in the future. Don you have sympathy?? +
you should ask him if he has SENSE not sympathy... He types like a dummy...

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BESTScientist1: 10:40pm On Apr 13, 2022
So what you smoke makes you low and not high enough to beat..... interesting..... something tells me you're lying about this smoke, smark, shark,.etc because you can't smoke like you portray and still be articulate with your write ups

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Nice...I hate domestic violence

I hate domestic violence with passion
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by jrusky(m): 10:41pm On Apr 13, 2022
Yes I support her I love that let the son of bitch go and marry his mother, useless bastard.

I hate abusive men like hell.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by luminouz(m): 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
Anything for clout!!!

Haba....will the man just beat you for nothing sakes.

If men are really that animalistic, that attack without provocation, no marriage would exist in Nigeria.

I don't get it....which kinda man beats a woman for nothing sakes Makes no sense

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by nastyesco(m): 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
People from the East too dey beat women. It appears na recreational activity for the most of their men cheesy

Quote me and be aware I will ignore you

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Kobicove(m): 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
Good decision!
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by blacknoir: 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
Look at him like a responsible person
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
Oga, it is not in a man's nature to beat* a woman, rather it is an African thing. Men beat* women simply because they feel she will not be able to fight and defeat them. African men also beat women cuz they were brought up to see the female gender as a lesser being in comparison to the males. Why don't you go to the US and marry, then we see if those arms of yours will not be pruned. As for the issue of marriage, the modern woman does not give a fuckkk about wether you get married or not.

Funny thing when you raise issues and tryna compare u.s to africa,my grand dad never did hit my grandmum,same with my great grand father who married 4 wives ,it was never promoted in our society , probably u need to visit u.s and get a data of abuse in homes ... I can only tell u that the modern woman doesnt know what it means to be a woman, growing up as a man,i was thought not to cry ,cos why,i am a man,how to be brave ,fierce and all that,what do they teach this girls ,once u re 18,u start hanging out with different men,this same lady complaining of domestic abuse,another woman will still come into that home and enjoy it,another woman will still tell u ,the domestic abuser is the best man on earth ,its not a gender thing,find who u can live with ...stop long throat cos na long throat de confuse many girls that u had to wait till u fixed a date for marriage to cancel it

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by edoairways: 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
Your excuse is lame. Domestic violence has been on the increase before the advent of feminism. Feminism resulted in this menace

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by 1F30M4(f): 10:43pm On Apr 13, 2022
Better now than later. Love is not controlling neither is it abusive. Leave an abusive relationship or marriage before it's too late. Never say he/she will change in the long run, it could get worse.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Mrnakeina(m): 10:44pm On Apr 13, 2022
This guy looks like those Issakabba boys na.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by HustlerGurl(f): 10:44pm On Apr 13, 2022
Does it really matter?? What matters still matters









Whatever, Life goes on

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Eriokanmi: 10:44pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
From the trash you put up here, It's obvious you're still single. You need to learn from the married couples or better still, your parents if that would help, before you get married. My 50 cents

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by simplesearch: 10:45pm On Apr 13, 2022
When two people refuse the fathers call to salvation, they grace the pernicious earth of pain in all ramifications and endeavors. The call to Salvation is not optional or replaceable, it is for your own good to escape all the darts of the wicked. NOW that dart has caught up with this two people who instead of celebrating grace and joy, are rather having their choices, love and joy torn apart and going cold. Without Christ life, you will be going higher in misery and lower in peace and joy.


Isaiah 57:21 There is no peace, saith my God, to the wicked.

Psalms 119:165
Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by bluefilm: 10:45pm On Apr 13, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:

I'm sure he will still beat her for calling the shit off.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by fmonigent(m): 10:46pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

No matter her offence, the man has no right to treat her like an animal. Chasing her with cutlass for that matter.
Evil men everywhere
Go and sit somewhere and stop spewing trash

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by abbey621(m): 10:47pm On Apr 13, 2022
After he paid my bride price he started maltreating me.

My Igbo parents stop SELLING your daughters! I repeat stop SELLING your daughters. Saapa is everywhere, men are not emotionally stable as they once were, many have done unimaginable things to make money, better believe directly or indirectly this affects their behavior towards bride price and marrying your daughter.

There's no excuse for domestic violence but let's not add kerosene to the fire, Buhari has shown many shege, mentally, physically and emotionally these men are no longer men but beasts in training. Be good to your daughters, let her know you are not selling her and that she is free to come back home anytime, broken marriage is better than broken face or worse......Ewo loriburuku!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Kingcalls: 10:48pm On Apr 13, 2022
Eriokanmi:
From the trash you put up here, It's obvious you're still single. You need to learn from the married couples or better still, your parents if that would help, before you get married. My 50 cents

I am married and my wife is not stupid to insult me if she feels offended... my mom wasn't also stupid like most women , she never raised her voice towards my dad...

U women just think u have the leverage to insult men and have no reaction by men, u must be deluded to think u wudnt get hit

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 10:48pm On Apr 13, 2022
All this una mumu talk,we have said it,how u make your bed ,so u lay on it, marriage bad marriage bad,i have bad temperament,anger issues,but yet i have never hit or exchanged words with my wife cos I worked for a happy home .. whether u guys are ever gonna marry or not or break up ,for people like us,we will continue to keep our marriage stable,and pray we live longer with our partner to see our grandchildren,np i had to work on my anger issues and my wife,she respects me and i respect her too ,is not a do or die affair ...if you want a happy home,u need to work for it
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Uarewho: 10:48pm On Apr 13, 2022
Don't you know that somd guys are wicked.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Uarewho: 10:49pm On Apr 13, 2022
Don't you know that some guys are wicked.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by danny56: 10:50pm On Apr 13, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
She is a very lucky woman. The sad thing is that a good percentage of Nigerian* men are like this man. The African tradition/culture was founded on pure misogyny/oppression of women, that's why mother's of old were grooming bad* husband's , poorly brought up sons who were taught that beating a wife is normal. SayNoToDomesticViolence!


Obviously if you read all the lady posted you'd know the man has a very very bad temper. Confirmed! However, judging from her own write up, don't you think BOTH of them seem very stubborn on each other? Look at them carefully.... Never judge from one side to conclude a matter. ASK, what is she always doing to receive beating like that knowing the guy has temper issues...?

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by SunMusk(m): 10:51pm On Apr 13, 2022
You re correct. Thanks
Chidi2022:
you should ask him if he has SENSE not sympathy... He types like a dummy...
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Jman06(m): 10:51pm On Apr 13, 2022
Please, if you're marrying any of my sisters, never try to lay a finger on her. It is suicidal to do that!

Report her to me, divorce her, but never lay a finger on her! I know why I'm saying this. Because I'll go to any length to have you PAY for any bleeps up. To be for warned, is to be for armed!!!!!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 10:52pm On Apr 13, 2022
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Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
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Phew!

So fulfilling doing that!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Eriokanmi: 10:53pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kingcalls:


I am married and my wife is not stupid to insult me if she feels offended... my mom wasn't also stupid like most women , she never raised her voice towards my dad...

U women just think u have the leverage to insult men and have no reaction by men, u must be deluded to think u wudnt get hit
You don't sound like you're married , you lie. Your woman must be from Jupiter to act differently from other women. Liar

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Aflix(m): 10:54pm On Apr 13, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.
you have your way dear. Nobody is putting a gun to your head to be in a relationship. You can remain single till you die and the earth wouldn’t stop spinning, so please, go ahead.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 13, 2022
luminouz:
Anything for clout!!!

Haba....will the man just beat you for nothing sakes.

If men are really that animalistic, that attack without provocation, no marriage would exist in Nigeria.

I don't get it....which kinda man beats a woman for nothing sakes Makes no sense
You are pained, soon enough you all women beaters will have no women to flex your muscles on.. grin

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