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Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

This fool should take her own advice and stop disturbing us on Nairaland.com

Ammishaddai:
This fool should take her own advice and stop disturbing us on Nairaland.com

That's to show you the depth of a woman's mind.

They suit each other.

na wa

Let's start by saying the truth.only the truth can set you free.you agreed to marry him because he came with the rich guy vibes and you too fell for his sakamaje/faworaja (deceit, impersonation of a character and schemes) right?

Secondly didn't you think 6 months was wayyyyyy too short to marry? I suspect he smelt desperation from miles away and he capitalised on that to accomplish his selfish ambition in your life

Thirdly why didn't you do your personal findings before agreeing to marriage? You see in marriage once you say I do and the whole hype of wedding is over, everyone go face front and leave you with your choice so it was stupid of you to entrust your life and destiny with someone you don't fully know and you swallowed every of his lies without verifying.ok let me ask you, when you want to embark on a buisness or rent a house or get a job don't you do your findings and background checks before agreeing to go for it so why can't you apply that same meticulousness with your marriage?

This is crying over Spilled milk now.you have 2 choices,you either create your own happiness in that marriage or Japa.at least you've not yet had a baby so your japa can be easier if you choose to japa from the marriage.if you're now able to JAPA,look left, right, front and back before you chook leg in another relationship.pele

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

is this a joke?and what is d name of d congregation pls, if u don't mind. Am a witness too. We don't do things way in all ramifications

Nhmmmm so all this happens in the space of 2 months.
Point of correction the guy act like a big boy (rich guy) that's why you and your family rush the guy stop using the word act so nice

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

yeye woman.. if you had married this donkey for the RIGHT reasons, all the above nonsense you described wouldnt really matter.
no wonder a man would lie to you, if thats how you think!

Husband: 1.05

X

Wife: 65.23

Now, Whatever happened to the Blessings of the parents upon the marriages of nowadays??

Parents blessings upon marriages dont work anymore or what is happening??.......On the wedding day, does it mean parents now gather to curse their children marriage or Bless their union??......If the latter is the case, then how come we now experience the prevalence of broken fresh marriages everyday, everywhere??

My question is this: the money the lady’s family used for the wedding, why didn’t they use it to establish their daughter and set up the tailoring biz for her? Why delegate it to her (future) husband to do that?


Parents, please be empowering your daughters. It helps them make better choices. Thank you!

Mak una no blame aunty na, aunty was trying to dodge next shiloh, na en make aunty quickly rush brother man. And brother use sweet tongue marry aunty. Guys out their always bear it in mind that all these Nairaland aunties dey mak mouth only for Nairaland but for their closest, na premium tears dey full their buckets.

Gentlerespect76:
When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.
Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

Poor woman!

GOFRONT:
Now, Whatever happened to the Blessings of the parents upon the marriages of nowadays??

Parents blessings upon marriages dont work anymore or what is happening??.......On the wedding day, does it mean parents now gather to curse their children marriage or Bless their union??......If the latter is the case, then how come we now experience the prevalence of broken fresh marriages everyday, everywhere??

Blessings of which parents abeg? Haven't you realized at this age that all those are mere words meant to delude into believing there is more to you than who you really are?

So people still believe in this thing called Marriage?
Anyways, serves her right because she obviously went for the money.

Vickyvice:
is this a joke?and what is d name of d congregation pls, if u don't mind. Am a witness too. We don't do things way in all ramifications

No, not a joke bro. First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

pozehnani:
So people still believe in this thing called Marriage?
Anyways, serves her right because she obviously went for the money.

The tragedy is that many people rush into it for the wrong reasons.

pozehnani:
So people still believe in this thing called Marriage?
Anyways, serves her right because she obviously went for the money.

Good day!
Happy new year!!!!

Kobojunkie:
Blessings of which parents abeg? Haven't you realized at this age that all that are words meant to delude into believing there is more to you than who you really are?

The behaviours of people result in realities that lend credence to your position. It's quite unfortunate.

Gentlerespect76:
The tragedy is that many people rush into it for the wrong reasons.

Exactly! Reason it doesn't last.

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The woman isn't even facing the man; this union has architectural defects, seriously.

pozehnani:
Exactly! Reason it doesn't last.

True talk, bro.

Froshloaded:
Good day!
Happy new year!!!!

Yeah. Same to you.

So tosin story don enter Nairaland . Both of them were my colleagues at work. The story long no be small. It's well

elonmuskbaby:
Let's start by saying the truth.only the truth can set you free.you agreed to marry him because he came with the rich guy vibes and you too fell for his sakamaje/faworaja (deceit, impersonation of a character and schemes) right?

Secondly didn't you think 6 months was wayyyyyy too short to marry? I suspect he smelt desperation from miles away and he capitalised on that to accomplish his selfish ambition in your life

Thirdly why didn't you do your personal findings before agreeing to marriage? You see in marriage once you say I do and the whole hype of wedding is over, everyone go face front and leave you with your choice so it was stupid of you to entrust your life and destiny with someone you don't fully know and you swallowed every of his lies without verifying.ok let me ask you, when you want to embark on a buisness or rent a house or get a job don't you do your findings and background checks before agreeing to go for it so why can't you apply that same meticulousness with your marriage?

This is crying over Spilled milk now.you have 2 choices,you either create your own happiness in that marriage or Japa.at least you've not yet had a baby so your japa can be easier if you choose to japa from the marriage.if you're now able to JAPA,look left, right, front and back before you chook leg in another relationship.pele

This lady's experience clearly shows she is naive; extremely inexperienced and ignorant in the ways of the world.

pretydiva:
So tosin story don enter Nairaland . Both of them were my colleagues at work. The story long no be small. It's well

Wow! So you know the couple? It's sad indeed.

Gentlerespect76:
Wow! So you know the couple? It's sad indeed.

Yes oo. Very well

pretydiva:
Yes oo. Very well

So was she really duped by him?

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

You are a complete fool for posting this nonsense. You got married to someone you thought was rich but found out that he is poor? It's for better for worse.

SWATMan:
You are a complete fool for posting this nonsense. You got married to someone you thought was rich but found out that he is poor? It's for better for worse.

So, Nevermind that she was deceived into marrying the man, she is to sit for-better-for-worse in it with him?