Gentlerespect76:

This lady's experience clearly shows she is naive; extremely inexperienced and ignorant in the ways of the world.

I'm smelling lies in her words..

elonmuskbaby:

Secondly didn't you think 6 months was wayyyyyy too short to marry? I suspect he smelt desperation from miles away and he capitalised on that to accomplish his selfish ambition in your life

Not necessarily. I met and married my husband within a month and we're still here many years later

Emaprince:
And when men don't want to marry a woman, you call him irresponsible and a time waster.

You see how unreasonable you women sound?

I support women marrying but not to deceitful men or through deceit,false hopes and pretence.its not too much to ask of to being real

Sermwell:

Stop being childish abeg!

you're the one who should grow up

Ellasure:
Typically Yoruba girls, very low information people. They don't do due diligence before marriage as their forebearers do.

They are so stupid that in the name of new age they discard elderly questionnaire and guidance. They would like to appear yuppie without their seniors by their side.

Now that oluwatosin has known that the Edo guy played her and she has jappa, I only hope she will move closer to her God and read the Bible as a witness to appreciate the roles of the elderly in the marriage process.

It is true that two people wed each other but Bible called all attendees as witness to the marriage. Come of it witnesses before Man and God and you know what they surely have a role to play. If you are wise you are wise.

Please don't form so that you don't continue to repeat your mistakes.

@ a FlatHe@d rep:
Well, at least the yoruba wife is not an Olosho like the ones from your area part of the country.

Shame in the ladies supporting the man's actions on this thread.

I can understand the men supporting their fellow liar and deceiver because Nigerian men are basically criminals but the dumb women supporting them are just pitiful creatures.

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

That serves you right, cos Na weytin u sabi chop bellefu u…Ole oloju kokoro

elonmuskbaby:
I support women marrying but not to deceitful men or through deceit,false hopes and pretence.its not too much to ask of to being real

They are just hypocrites.
If the topic was about a woman who deceived her husband that she had a job, and then sat at home expecting him to foot all the bills after marriage, the thread will have taken a very different turn.

PastorMIsBack:


Not necessarily. I met and married my husband within a month and we're still here many years later

you were just fortunate and lucky .

Ammishaddai:
This fool should take her own advice and stop disturbing us on Nairaland.com

Apparently she failed to do so..
The thing about advice is it sounds so much better when it's being dished out to others..

MrBrownJay1:


yeye woman.. if you had married this donkey for the RIGHT reasons, all the above nonsense you described wouldnt really matter.
no wonder a man would lie to you, if thats how you think!

a female donkey is called a "jennet" who knows that may just be her name

Very Stoopid lady...
Disgusting act to call him out,if you are tired.. you leave..

The lady and her husband are both thieves who have a common goal of stealing from each other. Forget the Jehovah witness level, those Jehovah witness ladies are dual personalities, always pretending to deceive. Make she go and meet her family and elders of her congregation to settle their differences. This is a matter of thief take am theif carry am. Nonsense

This geh would definitely be the epitome of frustration.

Serves her right

A lady can take a broke guy build with him not a lying guy claiming what is not,if has a lady you met someone claiming my dis is owing me my day is owing me just run cus all na wash.ire ooo

Authoreety:
And build the kinda life she wants with him together

She doesn't want to do that with a dishonest man though, and I see her point.

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

Hmnnn. He simply thought he could use faith and deceit in the colours of faith to hold a LovePeddler down.

Here me out! The word of God says I. The book of Proverbs chapter 24 verses 27, that we should DEVELOP OUR BUSINESS BEFORE we build our house.

Why? Once you rent or build a house, it is impossible for you to leave alone inside the house. And once a woman moves in, you MUST take care of her. And guess which money you will be using to take care of her if you haven't DEVELOPED your business? It is the money for your business Once that money is finished, you will know and understand why God said, DEVELOP YOUR BUSINESS before you build your house.

As for that dude that married you because he felt time was running out on him, he is not a wise man, if you did not leave him, with the price of Pampers today, he would still have left you anyways

Men, hustle tight! And marry what you know fits you since you have DEVELOPED your business first, meaning that you now have a good income to take care of your wife. Simple as ABC!

If you like listen, if you like don't.. God said I put before you life and death, choose one.

She married based on money not true love.

TheMan3:
a female donkey is called a "jennet" who knows that may just be her name

Testimony1988:
She married based on money not true love.

Are you minding the codedruns retireree

Oluromantic:
Lol. He deceived you or you deceived yourself. Women never admit thier wrong. He looking rich covered your eyes from seeing the truth. How can you an adult be deceived into a lifetime institution when you're not a kid. You yourself must be a covetous person too.
Your weakness for riches got you not his deceit. Your weakness just supported his deceit

it happens frequently even here in the North. Trust me women are that daft. They love fake life.

You guys are funny. A wise woman's duty is to get with the best and reliable male she can get with for security of her offspring. That the primal duty of every female. If the man deceived her that's equivalent to using pregnancy to tie a man down. She should leave before the ediot impregnates her. Nothing wrong in she agreeing to marry based on the front he put up. She's just unfortunate. The man is the fool. On her part... this is why it's important to get men to vet future husbands cos lots of women are so gullible.

Gentlerespect76:
Lady calls out her newly-wedded husband for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him

Two months after their wedding, a lady has called out her husband, Emmanuel Egba, for allegedly deceiving her into marrying him.

The lady, identified as Oladimeji Oluwatosin, revealed they got married on February 19, 2022, at First East Circular road, in Benin City, Edo State.

According to her, “We dated for six months and he said he wanted to get married. He deceived me into marrying him because we are Witnesses and we believe once we get married we can't divorce, except on the ground of adultery.

He borrowed money to show off, pretended that he was rich and came for my hand in marriage. My family and I agreed because he was acting all nice.

When we were preparing for the wedding he lied that his company was owing him N11million. So my family took the responsibility of the wedding, did everything, only for me to get to his house and find out he has been lying to me all along.

He promised to open a tailoring shop for me but he couldn’t even feed me, talk more of opening the shop. I told him I was going to tell the elders in our congregation and he thre#tened to k#ll me because he knew he would be disfellowship.

He even locked me in the bathroom one day and I was screaming for help, luckily for me his neighbors came to my rescue. I left his house that day.

Ladies that want to get married now should please make thorough research before they get married.”

MaxInDHouse:
Janosky:
Over to you. This concerns the only Loving congregation with same mind!

elonmuskbaby:
you were just fortunate and lucky .

Thank you. I am indeed lucky. He's a wonderful man

Ammishaddai:
This fool should take her own advice and stop disturbing us on Nairaland.com

It is obvious the guy is one of the benefit boys. If you understand what I mean �

So she's admitting that she actually married for money not for love. She is equally a deceiver and a fraud.

This is a serious matter

This is yahoo yahoo marriage,

I blame the guy for fake life.. which led to marriage of fraud,

I blame the lady and her parent for falling mugun,

A liar is a game player.

Spanki:


Are you minding the codedruns retireree

Lolz.

JoyousFurnitire:
Husband: 1.05

X

Wife: 65.23

What's the odd for draw..

pretydiva:
So tosin story don enter Nairaland . Both of them were my colleagues at work. The story long no be small. It's well

Abeg...we don hear you. No be only you know them o

I also know the story as well but I am not telling shiit