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| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Sebgajere(m): 7:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
How do some guys even manage to stay with cheating partners? I catch u once u ar gone. I don't hav dat patience. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Slynation(m): 7:37pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:You still want your wife back after all you narrated here?? Just collect your kids and move on, that's if they are even your biological children because you might be shocked you have been living with a stranger ever since... |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by onlinestaff2020: 7:38pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Ovwie Edo, woye? That's my cordial greetings to the Op...Anyway, my best submissions to his problems are as follows: 1. His wife never loved him one bit....She was just marking time and looking for the best time to strike him like a deadly cobra or green mamba...She used him woto woto. 2. The husband sacrificed his time, energy and money on the said wife and kids...That's a big waste and a drawback. 3. Furthermore, the Op took a loan of N5 milla to help the wife and she squandered it on her old custom lover. 4. Op, most or all of those kids are obviously not yours...DNA is a sure bet out of this predicament. 5. Op consult your family and your wife's family for a way forward. 6. Report the custom officer to the custom's HQ. 7. File for divorce, do DNA once more and forget about the woman because there's no ounce of love anymore...The marriage has shattered. 8. Last advice, if you can raise N5 million naira loan for your wife, I suggest look for another loan of N1 million naira and give it to some heartless assassins to snuff the life out of the custom officer...He's no invicible, I repeat, he's not invicible...He can die, just like any mortal. 9. After snuffing life out of the custom officer, relax yourself, do not struggle to retain your foolish ex-wife and purported kids. 10. Look for better woman or women to bang the way you want...Drink to stupor but control yourself and never you go into depression...There's more to live for. Last line: Tupac Shakur... LIFE GOES ON! |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by annisy(f): 7:38pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:smh |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Jaqenhghar: 7:38pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Visasolution048:Like I said you are not there. We have also seen lots of situations where men abused their women forcing them to run. All this your talk na mouth. The reason the man wa ts her back is because he knows he is wrong. Most likely a violent man. The customs officer is probably just getting them a place to stay temporarily so he doesnt kill them |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Solamilove: 7:40pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:My brother, i can feel your pain... I can link you with an human right media personnel that specialises in cases like this. Believe me, he will definately help you..., luckily for you, he is based in ibadan... |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Awise09(m): 7:40pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb: |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by kelmicheal: 7:40pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
You no be Yoruba u go marry Yoruba woman u no see fellow edo woman or delta woman marry for your side bro na ur fault |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Nobody: 7:41pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Bro are you sure you are really Edo not just Edo but Ishan?? You are a big disgrace shame on you. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by annisy(f): 7:41pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Let them be!! If am in your shoes I won't worry myself & I won't go after them , how are you sure the four kids are yours? You better put your act together and move on with your life!!! |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Awise09(m): 7:41pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb: |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Awise09(m): 7:42pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:How sure are you that those children are yours? |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by AkuFather(m): 7:44pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
[quote author=oseahumenb post=112204696]. Pics attached.. About six months ago, I returned home from work and discovered that my wife and four children were no where to be found. I also noticed her that belongings and that of the children were missing. I quickly dashed out of my flat and went to my neighbours to enquire of their whereabout. I was shocked to my bone marrows when they narrated to me how a man accompanied my wife to move out her belongings. When they tried to intrude the man warned them of serious consequences. That was when it dawned on me that my wife whom I have caught severally on the phone discussing with her lover on the phone has finally done her worst. On two occasions I caught her sneaking around with her phone, in the midnight I discovered an Sms that the so-called lover sent she was fast asleep . I cannot divulge the content here because it was disgusting to me at first. I reported to the pastor and she was warned. Then the identity of the lover wasn't known to me. I just let it go, because I still needed the marriage for the sake of my four children. However, I began to investigate without her knowing. Then I discovered that the secret lover was a custom officer, named Adeniyi Adesola, he was in Ibadan command. He is married with children. One day he called my wife and I just could bear the insults, I confronted him on phone I warned him to stay away and reminded him that she was married. Then he started abusing me and even threatened to kill me. He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me. I reported the matter to the ekpan police station warri. The IPO who was a lady advised me to thread with caution and report to my family which I did. I am from Edo State and my wife is from Ondo state. The custom officer is from Ekiti state. The custom officer, Adesola was intimidating me because I was not understanding their language. I gave my wife everything she needed. I got a loan of 5m from a bank to set up a business for her. She squandered the money and there is nothing to show now in the shop. The bank has started moving in on me, I don't know what to do. Op, go to Brekete family in Abuja, they'll go all out for you and recover your wife and children. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by ppogba: 7:44pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Me, I just want to know, what will the opinions on Nairaland do to this man? Just curious |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Visasolution048: 7:44pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:As I said, were you also there to know all these ?? The reason why the OP wants her back is because he isn't a real Man...Na pussy he be... Most likely a woman wrapper...If not woman nor go dey your house dey knack elsewhere. You know..and you kept mute.....No reasonable man acts that way... |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Ghostnick: 7:45pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by BeardGangJnr1(m): 7:46pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Fake news ![]() |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by pedrilo: 7:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
U dey mad? Edo men dnt behave like jelly fish. Drop d custom officer number make we relate |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:The custom officer didn’t even mind the old evening newspaper after four of a lady. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by abdulkadirmusa1(m): 7:54pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Hmm ...Am not generalising but If u ain't Yoruba please don't marry them...E get why |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by pocohantas(f): 7:55pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
cococandy:He didn’t mind at all. I guess she is bringing a lot of value to the table. ![]() |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Omodua(m): 7:55pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
simpleseyi:Good advice! I am a traditionalist and believe in efficacy of traditional religion. So potent to toy with. The two must die. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by oseahumenb(op): 7:55pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Not once did you mention the family you married her from. Is she an orphan? Even orphans were raised by people.[/quote]The father is late, he died when she was very young and other members of the family including her mother her not corperating. When I went there the people in her community were not happy with what she has done but the mother went into hiding. Right now I don't even know where they are now. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by emkz: 7:56pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
So sorry to read about your story. When you discovered the first time, you should have gone your separate ways. A cheating wife hardly ever stops. She'd still cheat on the Customs officer. Find a way to deal with your case to preserve your mental health. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Mendy101: 7:56pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Sir please and please forget about your wife and your marriage, even If she comes back do not agree, that woman can kill you in cold blood, I know you love your children but let them be please... Relocate from your current life and begin a new life |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by thinkmoney(m): 7:57pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Gerrout jare, you annoy me. What kind of men are this. Your wife noticed your weaknesses that's why she could be making those calls in the night. What do you need her again for. Fight to get the children that's all. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Testimony1988(m): 7:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
If he does not bring your wife back, he will be punished as seen in the case when Abimelech took Abraham's wife in the book of Genesis. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by MARKone(m): 8:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
oseahumenb:Your concern now should be your children, I mean your biological children, that woman is no longer your wife. Get the command the custom officer is working in, go there and report to any superior you see there. It is a serious offence in military and para military outfits, he could loose his job sef. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by LikeAking: 8:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
pocohantas:You smart! Love u for dis. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by oseahumenb(op): 8:02pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
As I said, were you also there to know all these ?? The reason why the OP wants her back is because he isn't a real Man...Na pussy he be... Most likely a woman wrapper...If not woman nor go dey your house dey knack elsewhere. You know..and you kept mute.....No reasonable man acts that way...[/quote]I am a real man.. I want her to return my money afterall she has not returned the bride price. I need my children back.. For many of you saying the children are not mine.. May God help you. The children are mine biologically and customarily. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
So sad. Similar thing happened to an acquaintance. This time, it's the man that eloped. After, getting remarried and cohabiting, two decades passed, no child came from the unholy union. Two Years ago, we heard the man slumped in his sitting room and kicked the bucket. It's very prevalent in the south west. They can straff anyhow irrespective of whether they are married. It's evil. |
| Re: How A Custom Officer Impregnated, Kidnapped And Eloped With Wife & Four Children by steveodo(m): 8:04pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
You self na mumu, what charm are you talking about, instead of you fighting to get your children, you are here calling her your wife. |
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