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Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Inspirationjb(m): 3:05pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
DenreleDave:No allow that one fear you. As long as u wake up, that means u are alive enjoyed urself, life is too short |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Saintmary(f): 3:05pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
SoapQueen: You have no responsibility to love a man who doesn't love you. Imagine Yul Edochie complaining that May has abandoned him after his mess up, is it not hilarious? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Saintmary(f): 3:06pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Why don't you bang your head on the wall, Go ahead, try it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Amumaigwe: 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
olasaad: What if it is the woman that is having extra marital affair, also explain what happened to the love for her husband. |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by cooltola(m): 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
SoapQueen: |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by olasaad(f): 3:10pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Amumaigwe: Well in this case the children's suffered more than the husband. |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:10pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
pocohantas:..... Me ma I do enjoy my outing with the kids alone. I always want them to be missing me whenever I'm not around. I heard one telling his mum yesterday after we came back that he loves their daddy because he always buy them anything they want but if it's her she will tell them to shut up. I just dey one corner dey laugh. Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by samuel051: 3:10pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Someone raised a very valid concern about things happening in the society, didn't mention names but oversabi people started tagging her and she still came to blab too.. Some people can be very senseless and na them Sabi loud pass for this forum. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by obynoceaser: 3:14pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
DenreleDave: You have time to reply that FOOL 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 3:14pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
how na Saintmary: |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Whiteshield: 3:15pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
samuel051: That Ahnie is very very stupid and senseless. If she had an iota of commonsense, she should have sidestepped this thread, but no. Chochocho, she must put mouth and show how stupid she is. Now, her family has become an object of ridicule on the front-page of Africa's largest forum. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by hairyman(m): 3:15pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
:oReading the comments, I have observed that most men have swallowed the falsehood that children are more attached to their mothers than fathers. The fact is that children are closer to the parent who gives them the most interesting attention and meet their needs. I chat with my kids all the time, we talk about everything ranging from who they played with at school, names of classmates, who didn't turn up at school, what they think about aliens, how it feels like to travel in space, how we can get 10 packs (my daughter prefers 10 packs to 6). I buy them books, talk about the books with them, crack jokes, read them bed time stories. On top of all of these, I am the dude with the ATM and I use it freely. Mehn, once I am around, my kids do not remember my wife. But there is a caveat, my kids know in very clear terms, that I am their father, not their friend. Men should learn to pay more attention to their kids. But as for preference for mother's, I can assure you that it is false. Concerning preference for children by some women, men need to understand that before you marry a woman, you should first investigate thoroughly, the relationship between her parents. If it is possible, go visit with them for a few days and sleep over. Women and men alike, replicate their parental relationships in their marriages. Never discount what you experienced in a fiancee's home. NEVER! Ofcourse there are other reasons. But at the very least, eliminate the above reason. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Midas01: 3:16pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
When they start following small girls outside and doing polygamous in nature why should their wives show them love and care ? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by pocohantas(f): 3:17pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Hahahaha. But they should shut up kwanu. Kids are easy to buy over. I have seen many cases of kids that are closer to their dad and while women could be jealous, they don’t go playing the victim, because the man earned it. But once kids are closer to their mum, your gender would start crying. Carry the child? Mba. Teach am assignment? Wahala. They would claim they are busy, but they always have time for side-chick and beer parlour. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Iphone5: 3:17pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
samuel051: Exactly, e dey pain me say some people wey i think say dey sensible for this forum are just Senseless 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by sameoldguy: 3:18pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
hairyman: If you like play with them from now till the end of the year, they’ll still prefer their mother to you cos the society have made them believe that women/mothers love the kids more 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Amumaigwe: 3:21pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
pozehnani: |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Hassanmaye(m): 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
DenreleDave:What should she work again since she has tired down the slave?? Before marriage they worship the ground you work on but after the deal is done she turned jazebl 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Beremx:Thanks Beremx... he's so childish.. how's ya health now? |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Khayordhe: 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Vawulence everywhere... Last time I checked, the op no add any sobriquet to hin post.. the attack was unnecessary Moh una dey calm down o, he raised a vital question, many homes have been broken because of this shii, u see men embarking on an extra marital journey and dey don't return.... wife shifting attention to their children, no be today wey e dey happen nah... Well, as for me, i will advice husband to date their wife again. u know how it all bagan, why u no kuku playback dose memorable event u once had and see how it goes... |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by coputa(m): 3:24pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
DenreleDave:Shut up your maggot infested mouth,merely seeing the pix of someone hanging out with her kids means that she's single or she had marital issues.Do you know you may hurt her emotional sensibilities by this brutish act,you lack diplomacy in presenting issues.your view of things and situations are myopic.i suspects you are a tennager. |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Hassanmaye(m): 3:24pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
olasaad:Lies from the pit of hell 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Godoverevery: 3:25pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Margy:Speak for yourself alone oo.....you are vouching for human beings. |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by hairyman(m): 3:26pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
sameoldguy: But which society are you referring to? You are the society your kid is molded after. You the parent has the greatest influence on your kids. It is much later that he starts picking up the influence of outsiders. I certainly don't care more about my mother than my father. I am in this society. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by samuel051: 3:26pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Iphone5:honestly, I was enjoying the thread because that's exactly what I'm facing in my house.. once there is money to throw around, that's when I'm recognized.. became angry when they mentioned her and she violently showed up as if op mentioned her name. #disappointed |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Amumaigwe: 3:26pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Margy: You must be single. This discussion seems way beyond your pay grade. At best, read comments from married men and take notes rather than talking with finality on a matter you know almost nothing about 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by Beremx(f): 3:26pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:I am okay now sis. Thanks |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:27pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
pocohantas:..... Lol. You got it right. They are very easy to buy over and iy makes them to cling more on the side of whomever that is very close to them. Don't be surprised that it can even be the househelp in some cases. So I don't believe that they love their mothers more although she is the one that is usually with them but we men should do better and bring out time for our kids. I'm always happy whenever I have time to do school runs and even the kids will be like,I want daddy to come and pick us because he will buy ice cream for us. Let's learn to do our job and stop complaining but the issue of my money is for just me and my kids is not a very nice statement. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by toujurs: 3:27pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
DenreleDave:hmm you haven't seen anything yet, any ways women have different personalities so i won't classify all women as the same. But trust me.most women of out there are very selfish. When i mean selfish like its a follow come character. You can't change it. As a man you need to open your eyes very well before you make up your mind to marry a lady. A lady who was trained in the university, so she can take care of her self. Some ladies would tell you, your money is our money, while her money is her money. Most women out there, love conditionally and expect an unconditional love from their husband. No be juju be that 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by samuel051: 3:28pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Whiteshield:Honestly.. she should have just ignored because her name wasn't mentioned.. The day anyone brings their family to the public, the person has indirectly given people right to speak anything about them. But since no name was mentioned by the op, she should have passed. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 3:28pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Beremx:Good to hear that..take care of yaself Beremx and enjoy.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by DenreleDave(m): 3:29pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
coputa: CALM DOWN MAGGOT I AM TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING GENERAL.. HERS WAS JUST A COINCIDENCE 1 Like |
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