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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by BabaAgba79(m): 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

If that is all friends are talking about, a lot of homes wud have scattered! Mr. Falana, face ur own family!!! Dont break another man's home! Pls, it is not advisable to do so! Leave ur friend's family! Did he appoint u as his private investigator?

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Autobot05: 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Tell him. Why do almost every woman cheat tho

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by money121(m): 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by elganzar(m): 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2022

Kollins11:
Nigerian girls are usel*ss.... All of them

You're better and bigger than this...

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Islandlady(op): 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2022

meobizy:
Seun Must Chop. The story is too basic. Hire better writers.

Do I look like a paid writer to you...So I should give you every details of the story including their names right! Ode

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Hassanmaye(m): 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2022

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

Lol very stupid gender you think Those of us shouting that gender we are misogynists

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by sync(f): 3:04pm On Jun 17, 2022

You can inform him but stay anonymous

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

What if the man is business or work associate?

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by DonMcek: 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2022

According to you , her husband is your man friend. You saw her with a friend simply because the friend is a man you want to cook up a story for the husband to elicit suspicion. But all these while, I am sure you do stop and talk with her husband but if another person does it with her, you as an external person will see it somehow.
Reason it

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Tvoice: 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2022

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

Aswear na laff u put me since , which wan come be fuckup o clock , chaii u scatter my ribs .

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

BROS DROP THE PICTURE HERE MAKE WE DECIDE

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by IbrahimSkiba(f): 3:05pm On Jun 17, 2022

killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by delzbaba(m): 3:06pm On Jun 17, 2022

Please tell the husband so that pandoras box will be opened,, then he will leave her for you.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Mozegee: 3:06pm On Jun 17, 2022

You said it exactly,why keeping u as my Friend when you can't tell me what is happening around my family

Joezinho:
If a friend of mine knew that my wife was having a close relationship with someone and I found out later that he knew and did not tell me, that would be the end of our friendship. Your friend has a right to know what is going on in his marriage/life.

Telling him could be saving him from lots of problems further down the road of life..Make sure that you are absolutely certain before letting him know. We guys need to know the truth about these lying, good for nothing , self centered ladies.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Idaytesj29(m): 3:06pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Buy a new Sim card and use it to send a WhatsApp message to the hubby. I pray that man has not favck the wife already cos if he has, you friend has no wife or marriage anymore.

Send an anonymous message.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by NoToPile: 3:07pm On Jun 17, 2022

Picture of 2 people at the mall means nothing, except theres something else you saw, cuddling, kissing etc.

You will need more proof if truly she's cheating.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:07pm On Jun 17, 2022

DonMcek:
According to you , her husband is your man friend. You saw her with a friend simply because the friend is a man you want to cook up a story for the husband to elicit suspicion. But all these while I as sure you do stop and t and talk with her husband but if another person does it you as an external person will see it somehow.

He is her friend and she is not comfortable with the closeness. She needs to let the husband know to clear it up with his wife. It might be nothing or something. But, as a friend, she needs to let him know.

I do not think she would feel comfortable doing such to her boyfriend or husband because she finds it inapporpriate. No need attacking her.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by oneTIMEman(m): 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2022

If you tell him and he chase her away, you will marry him ba?
Idiot, use that energy to better your future, you snap them, Mumu woman

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by omartins(m): 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2022

Cropped out the guy picture and ask if he knew him? If not, give him sometime before you follow anonymous opinion above.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by VirileNelly2420: 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

It would've sounded better if u were a male.

...and very unreasonable if u're a single lady.

Meanwhile, u may know d man too well, but maybe not d wife. Maybe her relation. Or even a friend, just like u're to her husband.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by DavSagacity(m): 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2022

Kollins11:
Nigerian girls are usel*ss.... All of them

including your mother and sisters, Cousins and your would be daughters

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:08pm On Jun 17, 2022

NoToPile:
Picture of 2 people at the mall means nothing, except theres something else you saw, cuddling, kissing etc.

You will need more proof if truly she's cheating.

She said she saw them multiple times. For a married woman, she finds such closeness inappropriate. The husband needs to sort that out with his wife. I won't want my wife to have such closeness with a man.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by ajailer(m): 3:09pm On Jun 17, 2022

Mind ur business o or better still tip off the husband anonymously cos if you tell the husband directly, he will eventually let his wife know that you are the source of the information. We humans are very funny, we frown at our friends for not telling us bad things happening behind our backs that concerns us and yet we are still the same person that will leak the informant's name to the other person as their source of information.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Idaytesj29(m): 3:09pm On Jun 17, 2022

Eaziimoney:
I'll advice you to mind your business. Na Nigeria we dey. Your friend might even know about their relationship.
Incase your conscience doesn't let you rest, you should try and bump unto them so you can see and decipher her reaction.

Bad idea. Avoid them as you have been

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Rhozabeth(m): 3:09pm On Jun 17, 2022

duduade:
Please mind your business

There is no othet way to say it better: Mind your business!

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by CorperKola: 3:09pm On Jun 17, 2022

See me see something
All the women are saying she should mind her business.

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Jolomenas: 3:09pm On Jun 17, 2022

Prettygirl200:
Aboki namanama. Pple are talking an aboki fish fish brains also wants to talk.

It is the Aboki fish brains that are ruling over you disgusting smelling slaves.
Shegu yan kutumar uba, duk sai munci uwar mamanku
Shegiya karuwar banza

Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Pimine: 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2022

duduade:
Please mind your business

Sharaap

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2022*

oneTIMEman:
If you tell him and he chase her away, you will marry him ba?
Idiot, use that energy to better your future, you snap them, Mumu woman

What makes her an idiot? She asked a question. If you have a suggestion, make it. From what I am seeing in your post, you have not made a suggestion. That toxic reply is inappropriate. She has not done you anything. She is concerned for her friend. 11 years is not beans.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Streett: 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

I seriously implore You to Mind Your business

Your Intel at the end won’t save a marriage that’s meant to nosedive nor can it break a marriage that’s meant to last for a lifetime

Your friend self fit dey cool off with him own side babe self during his travels

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by sprints1: 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

having an adulterous wife is way more deadlier than cancer.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by kunle75(m): 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2022

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Confide in any of his relatives and let them do the job for you,with concrete evidence ooo.

Before some unknown gun men with kpai your friend because of pkekus wey no worth anything.

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