Dizzyyish:
Smh
https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

Hmm this your thread has a lot of powerful messages o

duduade:
Please mind your business

please don't he should do the right thing bro

if i was his friend i will get angry if he never told ne

mind is business why should he do that if you were in that his friend position would you prefer he never told you such secret

we lack honesty in our current culture our culture in the past was way better than what it is now where everyone watched out for everyone one

What's with this "Mind your business rhetoric " What are friends for if not to watch each others back?
If they are just acquaintances then its ok to MYB otherwise, u are not being
good friend.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

please let your friend know youre is friend, and not his enemy you should be there for him

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

Lol he is not a family member, you know the wife family members mtchew

Eaziimoney:
I'll advice you to mind your business. Na Nigeria we dey. Your friend might even know about their relationship.
Incase your conscience doesn't let you rest, you should try and bump unto them so you can see and decipher her reaction.

why should he mind his business just give me reason if not that your promoting cheating

arthurwillia:


Lol he is not a family member, you know the wife family members mtchew

I attended his wedding ceremony, and I meet all members of her family!

Prettygirl200:
U must be a fool.

he is not but youre the fool you call him, you guys will be using real life matters to catch cruise on Nairaland

what is the essence of her friendship if they cant tell themselves something like this

Islandlady:
I attended his wedding ceremony, and I meet all members of her family!

You are a very sensible person abd you were able to meet the whole family, from the brother to uncle to cousin to second cousin to niece to nephew.. you sure you are not lashing this your so called friend? You are so in his matter

Holy Shit!

Op na thunda go tearing that ya mouth into pieceses! What taking ya eyed to peopls families matter? U have be crushes on that ya friends and now u are wanting to framinining his one wives up so that you will married him.U was not succeed.

Peace!

arthurwillia:


You are a very sensible person abd you were able to meet the whole family, from the brother to uncle to cousin to second cousin to niece to nephew.. you sure you are not lashing this your so called friend? You are so in his matter

yes I am lashing him, oya rest!!!

RichProminent:
Holy Shit!

Op na thunda go tearing that ya mouth into pieceses! What taking ya eyed to peopls families matter? U have be crushes on that ya friends and now u are wanting to framinining his one wives up so that you will married him.U was not succeed.

Peace!

Geez whatever you are smoking is not good for your mental health...Stop it

incandescentena:
Hmm Op, What makes you more righteous than your friend's wife?

Mtcheeee!

"ALL NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE THE SAME"

Who asked u to taste all of em?

Prettygirl200:
Madam u better mind your business oooo

Why won't an unfaithful fool like you tell her to mind her business, when cheating is your hubby.

It's mind your business that has kept these country this way.

Inform her husband immediately and next time don't hide, ask her who the man is.

duduade:
Please mind your business

Why won't an unfaithful fool like you tell her to mind her business, when cheating is your hubby.

It's mind your business that has kept this country this way.

Inform her husband immediately and next time don't hide, ask her who the man is.

killmods:

Please help ur friend

Why won't an unfaithful fool like you tell her to mind her business, when cheating is your hubby.

It's mind your business that has kept these country this way.

Inform her husband immediately and next time don't hide, ask her who the man is.

duduade:
Please mind your business

Evil people, mind your business gang while someone is dying

Islandlady:
Who is this one bayi!!! Your comment is just incoherent

When you focus on your career and start building your own family, then you'll hardly notice issues like married women talking to male friends in shopping malls.

duduade:
Please mind your business

This mind your business thing, have really made Nigeria worst.
So if your house dey catch fire make i mind my business ?

Emmanuel909090:


Why won't an unfaithful fool like you tell her to mind her business, when cheating is your hubby.

It's mind your business that has kept these country this way.

Inform her husband immediately and next time don't hide, ask her who the man is.

Who is this maggot insulting his generations? U nor go look whom u dey quote? Where did i mention minding any business? U even quoted what I said yet u typed something else entirely. Abi dem swear for u

Haakeem:
Queen of harlots i greet.
You shall be exposed soon too.

Amen! Amen! Fire!

Prettygirl200:
E pain am!!!! May God never allow an aboki with dead brains nd backward thinking fellow rule this country again.

AMEN! you are nothing but an innocent fo.ol, let me shock you,you grimy asshole, i'm not hause nor fulani.

kill your self ashawooo.

killmods:

Who is this maggot insulting his generations? U nor go look whom u dey quote? Where did i mention minding any business? U even quoted what I said yet u typed something else entirely. Abi dem swear for u

I mistakenly quote you and instead of calling my attention to that you feel using your useless fingers to type on that silly phone of yours is the right thing to do?

Foolish fool.

duduade:
Please mind your business

Then what are friends for.

If you don't you don't tell him, then what are friends for.

Prettygirl200:
Why are u even answering that Nama?? Are they not northeners aboki for that matter u know very well that out of all the tribes in Nigeria they are the dullest. Dull in everything that's y u see that their leader have been taking Nigeria backward. U shouldn't bother yourself answering a backward thinking fellow, save your strength sweetie pls.

You are a typical foo.l! with a abhorent and dry lip like that of an HIV infected ape.

if you and a pig are put up for sale i'll choose the pig over a calamity like you.

i know your parent regretted giving birth to an abortion like you.

if you ever dare use that your monkeypox infested fingers to mention me again, i'l make sure i deal with you.

Emmanuel909090:


I mistakenly quote you and instead of calling my attention to that you feel using your useless fingers to type on that silly phone of yours is the right thing to do?

Foolish fool.

If u had done so without insulting me first I wouldn't have insulted u. But u are obviously a bastard sonofabitch. U should have done the right thing first

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

Please inform him and send the pictures.

Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

Lalasticlala

If you would not rat the man out if he was in the same situation then keep your mouth shut.

Keep quite since you’ve got nothing to say .

Ximenez:

When you focus on your career and start building your own family, then you'll hardly notice issues like married women talking to male friends in shopping malls.

azammi:
Keep quite since you’ve got nothing to say .

There's nothing like "keep quite"

Someone go put up an important issue,some useless people go derail the thread with immature insults n arguments....if someone insult u,ghost d person to avoid uncalled drama or maybe there is an award for the best troll Sha..@OP,cases of infidelity are to be confirm and not based on assumption..get ur fact right before u destroy wat u didn't build.