Karleb:
Has the world gone mad?
How were you raised?

When elders are doing a chore, are you not supposed to at least offer to help?

It's what guys do easily.

This is a type of conversation that needs to happen real life. Someone needs to slap you back to your senses.

nafama:
See ba babe you have to be calming down,it could be the mother way of testing the lady... In my opinion the lady should have collected the broom. It is just like me seeing someone elderly lifting a log of wood but I just passed by, morally speaking it's bad
I still maintain it has nothing to do with standard, look every gender have their own characteristics and it is lack of respect for these differences that are causing problems.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

Jeon:


And a submissive woman

nams77:

Na Una dey bother to respond to these people.

I treat a woman with respect only If she is deserving of it
Eod

Tozic:
And in the end, it all end with ''carry me de go my husband house''

UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

postmann:


This would have been absolutely none of my business but since you made it a public statement and thereby advocate it as a standard for your readers to imbibe, I'm obliged to make my point.

Now, to the emboldened as highlighted; you need to let your wife have the dick dangling purposelessly in-between your thighs since you picked her for her business sense and she probably picked you for your domestic sense.

What a Wuss!

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

Kobojunkie:
Why did her own son fail her own "test"?

The lady was a visitor he brought to his own home, right? So why did her own son stand and watch as his own mother swept? What audacity does she have to judge another's child on standard even she does not judge her own child?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

Cromagnon:

Stop deceiving them
Nobody will marry angry black woman

Bunsenbun:
Tbh, you didn't need to do this..Every reasonable human should know that dude is just being idiotic on purpose,even the Twitter thread had people laughing at his folly

saggyboy01:
To the lady that first commented I won't really say much but whatever you decide to do is your CHOICE. This is AFRICA and we have CULTURE.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

nafama:
Well, like I said it could be a culture, we all have one and even though some cultures are bad but we can't deny the fact that some of these cultures have/had mould us to become responsible.
Now I don't want to be judgemental but you might find out the lady got some questionable characters.
I get your point but I want you to look beyond what the lady posted online

lookingfly:
hahahaha.......if you're married already, your husband really have a big hearth to accommodate you. If you're not, it will be very hard to get a sane husband like us.....it's not a prayer but conclusion from your attitude.

Kobojunkie:
You lot and your use of "culture" as cover for the obviously foolish!

How have these "cuiltures" which are set on unfair standards helped responsible mold you as an individual?

This is the year 2022 in which you all still complain of how unjust your Nigerian laws are, how even your police disrespect and treat you like garbage, yet you sit here justifying what is an unjust act in the name of culture, proclaiming how you were responsibly molded by it?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

nafama:
Looks like u can't look at others view and understand except yours..... Seems like you are a self acclaimed feminist

pragmatistm:
How old are you please? I asked because you reason like a 7 year old. Immature.

If you are matured enough, you will know that when elderly ones are doing something in the presence of young ones, courtesy demands that the young one should help out. But if you still disagree with me, i will say wait until you become a mother/grandmother and come back here to argue. Bunch of unreasonable feminists everywhere.

Who raised this generation of ladies thinking with their buttocks sef!! Bunch of unreasonable feminists.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

UyaiIncomparabl:


In your mind, you are a sane husband? Not all men are like you. I will rather stay single than marry a man like your ilks then.

Kobojunkie:
So why did the woman's own son stand and watch his mother sweep for his own visitor?

Why did her own son not show courtesy to his own mother?

pragmatistm:
How old are you please? I asked because you reason like a 7 year old. Immature.

If you are matured enough, you will know that when elderly ones are doing something in the presence of young ones, courtesy demands that the young one should help out. But if you still disagree with me, I will say wait until you become a mother/grandmother and come back here to argue. Bunch of unreasonable feminists everywhere.

Who raised this generation of ladies thinking with their buttocks sef!! Bunch of unreasonable feminists.

lookingfly:
hahaha......well, if you can stay will husband's like us, I gladly recommend other options of living alone to you e.g sole parent via AI from sperm donors or get surrogate mother because as a man would not marry a woman who can't respect the elderly talk more of my parents. It seems the western culture is really affecting our youths these days.

lookingfly:
that's the test if it's not clear to you yet. One thing I've come to realize with most ladies is this tussle they have with the mother in law's on who should control the son but time will tell when you also bear children and it's their time to get married in the future. Even if you can't do it as a lady fake it even if it's just the first time.

lookingfly:
1. that's the test if it's not clear to you yet.

2. One thing I've come to realize with most ladies is this tussle they have with the mother in law's on who should control the son but time will tell when you also bear children and it's their time to get married in the future. Even if you can't do it as a lady fake it even if it's just the first time.

UyaiIncomparabl:


The western culture is emancipating the youths from swallowing trash and I stan it as a movement. Enough is enough. To hell with your archaic mindsets and approach.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ask your ancestors.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Village man with a local mentality. Test? Is that how you were tested? If you were, would you have passed? If the girl's father invited you to come farm with him, would your tiny and withered fingers have been able to even lift a cutlass?