LINTUNE:
"instinctively"...incase u don't understand that word, it means doing something without thinking, cos u are so used to doing things that way, such that such character is almost considered a reflex action.........I'm just trying to educate u here...what is bad is bad and should be condemned.

Kobojunkie:
So the woman's own son who didn't "instinctively" take the broom from his own mother to sweep, didn't do a bad thing, instead it is the visitor who acted as her own son did that did bad?.

kernniejay:
[s][/s]I did not bother to read your Baldadash because I know it will be full of Junks, just like your name. Don't reply cos I'm done with you already.

LINTUNE:
madam rest, it's obviously a test ...if u are wise enough, u would have known from the beginning, if not , why should the mother be sweeping when guest is arround....there are little things and signs that matters especially to elderly ppl..

UyaiIncomparabl:


It beats my imagination because these men will never meet half the standards they set for women. And I am not capping! They want virgins, but ain't virgins. They want a woman who can cook, clean, be a mistress in the bedroom and also a top-performing manager at work like Alakija, while they are under performers.

They can't meet half of what they set.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

Kobojunkie:
It is a "test" which her own son obviously failed but never mind since it was blindly targeted at another man's child and so her son's failure of the same test should be ignored?.

So people don't clean at all when guests are around meaning it was OK for the son to disrespect his mother in front of a guest?.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am angry because men are hypocritical most times. They can't take what they dish out! So, why won't I sound angry? I'm pained for the female gender.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning or he should not have removed a rib to create a woman goes both ways at least less drammer for man..

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. you might want to practice what you preach by not replying every quote. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic. only people with inflated egos think like this

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. like it was planed by both him and his mother...presummtious to say the least...It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance. the guy dodged a bullet as well...thanks to his mum

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist. The wall is fast approaching get ready

LINTUNE:
don't quote me again, u obviously lack understanding....we men like to observe little things in our women...I kid u not, if that guy had come with a casual friend,he would have collected the broom from his mom,but here,he brought his wife to be home....I'm sure he just wanted to observe something....u are not a man so u will not understand....same thing applies to guys,there at times u as a woman need to test for certain trait in your man... opportunity will come and u will capitalize on such to test your man...how would u feel when u bring your man home,and u observe he's been staring lustfully at your kid sis, at that point it might look insignificant,but I tell u not, such observation is essential......only intelligent ppl make do with every opportunity to observe and learn one or two things.....young woman be wise......don't quote me again, u really lack understanding..

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are a guest. My dad will never oblige your request.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ask your father.

Kobojunkie:
I see you continue to evade my questions. ...

I love to see the confusion you all exude. So why again do you greet only your father in the morning? Why not extend that same respect to every human being you meet each morning instead?

Why are you sisters alone to help your mom in the kitchen? Are you and your brothers Lepers that you somehow can't help your own mother in the kitchen?

2. If you already pay maids or robots to do all of your chores for you, then why do it yourself? The money you pay them you work for , don't you?

3. Unsubscribe from foolishness and it will abandon you in time..

LINTUNE:
don't quote me again, u obviously lack understanding.... we men like to observe little things in our women...I kid u not, if that guy had come with a casual friend,he would have collected the broom from his mom,but here,he brought his wife to be home....I'm sure he just wanted to observe something. ...u are not a man so u will not understand....same thing applies to guys,there at times u as a woman need to test for certain trait in your man... opportunity will come and u will capitalize on such to test your man... how would u feel when u bring your man home,and u observe he's been staring lustfully at your kid sis, at that point it might look insignificant,but I tell u not, such observation is essential......only intelligent ppl make do with every opportunity to observe and learn one or two things.....young woman be wise......don't quote me again, u really lack understanding..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
My frustrated ugly old hag WHORÈ mother is a big fool and me HARLÒT took over her

Kobojunkie:
... so men are willing to disrespect their own mothers in order to observe these so-called little things of others or women?.

Sigh....All these you offer here are meaningless ramblings, distractions, excuses

Admit to the fact which is that the son disrespected his own mother denying her the right to judge another man's child, and move on abeg!

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are a guest. My dad will never oblige your request.

Ishilove:

Keyboard warrior. When we check offline, you are probably in one 2 by 4 cubicle in Makoko. It is on the internet that agama lizards fancy themselves crocodiles

ELEYIofNigeria:
1
Your perspective is influenced by the cultural setting you grew up or has adapted much to.
African culture setup and approach isn't the same as the whites cultural setup.

2. As an intending wife or even girlfriend, it costs nothing to act like you really want to take the broom. You know quite well, the woman was not even going to give her the broom because she is a guest.

3. complexities of our contemporary society doesn't mean some things aren't still facts. Helping your mum's boyfriend isn't a big deal. If it was someone you didn't know, you'll still help them without expecting anything back

UyaiIncomparabl:


You have a poverty mentality! All the best.

KoshCAD:
What is this one saying?

If I visit your house and see your dad or mum lifting something heavy, will I sit there watching?

You ladies don't have brain at all.

KoshCAD:

[s]Even if I am living in pig house, I did not feed under you or your parents.

So you are useless to my existence.

I can slap and speak to you the way I like.

You can only tell your brother that he can't talk to your face.

Or maybe your dummy boyfriend that you are feeding.

I repeat, I feed someone like you.

Useless thing.

So go and say that to your useless lazy brother at home.

Online feminist, man's slave in reality.[/s]

Ishilove:

I didn't read this trash. Makoko slumdog 'millionaire'. Ripe, bile filled pimple on the ass of humanity. See as you're vibrating like a faulty China phone. You come online to pass on the frustration of the poverty in your lineage unto to total strangers. See ehn, go and tell your useless family in Ondo that they are a disgrace to Yorubas for raising a failure like you whose only sense of relevance is when he comes online to brag about slapping strangers. Oloriburuku ashiere. Eni kuu re.

Kindly fvck off to whatever local slime pit you oozed out from. You are soundly ignored henceforth

GloriousGbola:



Ishilove dishing out the vawulence on a wet Friday evening

UyaiIncomparabl:


Her son will take over from her.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.