ojonugba2014:
Some oponuu will be defending that girl nonsense act now.

Watching my mother sweeping the floor?.

Omo, that relationship is over, even if we are engaged, no more marriage, I swear.

You can still give her the benefit of doubt when love dey shack you. Naa wetin men dey do

U have my respect! It's her type that won't tolerate that from a lady her son brought, the raising of legs for his mom confirms the lady has little or no respect for her mother. Who knows maybe the guys Mom used her instinct and equally observed some facial expressions from the said lady. This is Africa, keep promoting that rubbish whole the ladies with wisdom knows how to build solid foundation for a lasting relationship. I guess OP was raised by single mother, most are toxic

BRATISLAVA:


She shouldn't have a child? Or what are you trying to tell us? That because she's 40 she dare not have a child? Or that she should be childless because she's a feminist?

You need to grow up.

Now, according to your tale, she has a child, and you can't call her womb destroyed, so what other unrealistic standard will you have for her next? That she can't get married because she's 40+ and has a child?

You lot are laughable.

Even if you insult females all day, it will not make them drop their standards to accommodate your unrealistic standards for them. The threats of growing old and childless are pointless when there's IVF, and when there are willing gigolos everywhere.

I have nothing wrong with her posting a new child. But she was busy then writing that she can't submit to man; can't do house chores; won't obey any man's standard.

But las las, she still meet man she can't obey man's standards

jaxxy:
1. Even if I'm ot marrying u or ur justcmy friend I will expect u to take the broom from my mum and sweep the damn floor. its having good manners bt it's only few that had this home training.

2. U font see elders u know doing difficult jobs or carrying heavy load and just be looking like luscosade. My mum will turn my ear till I scream. That's how they trained me.

1. You won't take the broom from your own mother but you will expect your friend to take the broom because by showing up at your house, the person automatically submits to being judged by you by a standard which you don't even hold hour own self to?

2.

Ishilove:

I didn't read this trash. Makoko slumdog 'millionaire'. Ripe, bile filled pimple on the ass of humanity. See as you're vibrating like a faulty China phone. You come online to pass on the frustration of the poverty in your lineage unto to total strangers. See ehn, go and tell your useless family in Ondo that they are a disgrace to Yorubas for raising a failure like you whose only sense of relevance is when he comes online to brag about slapping strangers. Oloriburuku ashiere. Eni kuu re.

Kindly fvck off to whatever local slime pit you oozed out from. You are soundly ignored henceforth

You guys should use WISDOM to deal with this matter and not insulting yourselves which sounds childish.

KoshCAD:
I didn't read the mumbo jumbo.

I don't have time for a useless bitch who thinks cos her father grew in the ghetto, and she was born in the ghetto, everyone is also born in the ghetto.

We know your type, if we check your home where you come from, it is smoke yam and palm oil una dey eat in the morning.

But will come online to form what their father couldn't achieve throughout his life.

Fishpus.

Oloriibu mashanfani olobo runrun.

Ebina.

Useless mufu.

Idiot, e fit be fufu her mama dey sell under sun n rain in one dirty market place o.

If your useless, worthless parents aren't a disgrace to human raise, they would have known how to train a dunderhead like you.

Shame on them.

I spit on them for being a total complete failure.

A man don't talks too much......He use WISDOM and ACTION......both of u should deal with this matter AMICABLY.

Karleb:


You tell the owner of the house what to do in her own house. Do you pay her rent?

Do you know what you are talking about?

What sort of insolence is this?

The bitch deserves a very dirty slap.

Kobojunkie:
In the same manner, if you visit the house and find the dad or mum sweeping, will you take the broom to sweep or will you watch instead?

I notice how many of you keep shifting away from sweeping to mention instead other tasks and situations as if to suggest sweeping is beneath you or something..

Is sweeping a man's job.

If her father was the one sweeping, yes, i will gladly collect it, it doesn't make me feel less of a man or make me foolish.

It is a sign of respect.

Fira09:



A man don't talks too much......He use WISDOM and ACTION......both of u should deal with this matter AMICABLY.

She always thinks she has mouth.

I need to give her the way she worth it. After all, she introduced parents into it. So I will help her since she has no regard for her parents.

KoshCAD:
Is sweeping a man's job.
If her father was the one sweeping, yes, i will gladly collect it, it doesn't make me feel less of a man or make me foolish.
It is a sign of respect.

A sexist kind of respect where you feel somethings are beneath you, right?

You only take the broom if you see another man sweeping, else, regardless of age, you will not take the broom from a woman hence no respect for them as elders in that abi?

Kobojunkie:
1. You won't take the broom from your own mother but you will expect your friend to take the broom because by showing up at your house, the person automatically submits to being judged by you by a standard which you don't even hold hour own self to?

2.

yes I would if my idiotic fiancée doesn't. Ladies should be homely and home builders even if a man would help around also. That's my grouse.

as for my frnd I won't be too bother because I also used to act that way till my mom home trained on it being rude. if I go to my funds house and his mom or dad is sweeping close to me I will take it over them even if he lacks the manners to do so for his parents.

It's my home training and I adopted it.

Kobojunkie:
A sexist kind of respect where you feel somethings are beneath you, right?

You only take the broom if you see another man sweeping, else, regardless of age, you will not take the broom from a woman hence no respect for them as elders in that abi?

You don't get. Do you?

UpInTheSky:

I have sensible, educated parents who won't do something like that in a guest's presence. Anything they need to do would've been done before the guest arrives. Should that happen, however, my parents would expect me, their child, to help (as I would've done), and not the guest.

No parents will expect a guest to help out.

Even if the girl offers to help out, the woman will not allow that.

When my brother's wife was brought home and my mom was busy cooking in the kitchen and was watching plate while I just came in before taking over.

The responsible lady offered to watch the plate that is not really dirty but my mum did not allow her step into the kitchen. She did everything and served her.

That is a sign of respect, not all these useless education you talk about.

The lady In question is a master's degree owner.

So carry education to one side.

You don't tell owner of a house when to do things in there house.

jaxxy:
1. yes I would if my idiotic fiancée doesn't. Ladies should be homely and home builders even if a man would help around also. That's my grouse.

2. as for my frnd I won't be too bother because I also used to act that way till my mom home trained on it being rude. if I go to my funds house and his mom or dad is sweeping close to me I will take it over them even if he lacks the manners to do so for his parents.

It's my home training and I adopted it.

1. Your own mother we are talking of here yet you expect someone else to do it first? That alone reveals a Crack in your own upbringing as far as the standard you hold others to.

Ladies should be homely and homebuilders? According to what Law is this? Why can't a mother equally raise her own sons to be homely and homebuilders?

I can my girlfriend...1000% u are not marrit cos u can't

FERNANDEZISBACK:

They are st**pid for a reason..

KoshCAD:
Even if I am living in pig house, I did not feed under you or your parents.

So you are useless to my existence.

I can slap and speak to you the way I like.

You can only tell your brother that he can't talk to your face.

Or maybe your dummy boyfriend that you are feeding.

I repeat, I feed someone like you.

Useless thing.

So go and say that to your useless lazy brother at home.

Online feminist, man's slave in reality.

Always feeding people's generations. Please, ask for her account number.

ojonugba2014:
Some oponuu will be defending that girl nonsense act now.

Watching my mother sweeping the floor?.

Omo, that relationship is over, even if we are engaged, no more marriage, I swear.

Who your marriage proposal epp? To hell with you, your marriage and entitled family.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Always feeding people's generations. Please, ask for her account number.

Ask for her acount number, for what exactly please?

Is this a style of begging or what?

Atleast you should have reason for that.

Ishilove:

I didn't read this trash. Makoko slumdog 'millionaire'. Ripe, bile filled pimple on the ass of humanity. See as you're vibrating like a faulty China phone. You come online to pass on the frustration of the poverty in your lineage unto to total strangers. See ehn, go and tell your useless family in Ondo that they are a disgrace to Yorubas for raising a failure like you whose only sense of relevance is when he comes online to brag about slapping strangers. Oloriburuku ashiere. Eni kuu re.

Kindly fvck off to whatever local slime pit you oozed out from. You are soundly ignored henceforth

Don't degrade yourself to that poor urchin's level. He's possibly a benefit boy who begs Emoney on Instagram and partakes in Twitter's giveaway for a living. I know his type.

Zane2point4:


See marriage isnt for everyone,with this mentality,within 4yrs in Nigerian you’ll be in your 3rd divorce’
Dont even try to get married blc most Nigerians especially igbo men come frm well structured traditional home’

Case closed’

Guy, get lost.

KoshCAD:
Ask for her acount number, for what exactly please?

Is this a style of begging or what?

Atleast you should have reason for that.

Are you foolish? Do you even have the money to give, you this nitwit? I thought you said you can feed her and her generations? Ask for her account number to validate that.

advanceDNA:


U want to ignore women.??...thats world war 4...
Wetin dem like na all these fight and arguement wey dey go on here....na women way be that...imagine women dey post thread on nairaland and boys no dey indulge their capping.....

My brother I understand. But I will rather use that time to watch YouTube video than to indulge in all these their baseless argument

nams77:

My brother I understand. But I will rather use that time to watch YouTube video than to indulge in all these their baseless argument

Kobojunkie:
1. Your own mother we are talking of here yet you expect someone else to do it first? That alone reveals a Crack in your own upbringing as far as the standard you hold others to.

Ladies should be homely and homebuilders? According to what Law is this? Why can't a mother equally raise her own sons to be homely and homebuilders?

U conveniently left out the part I said I can do it for other elders I know or a friends mum also? That is a crack in ur counter analogy of my upbringing.

2ndly I didn't say every woman should be homely bt mine should be and if I reject a gal for not meeting my fair standards I'm well within my rights.

Culture and biblical wise women are also ment to be homely.

jaxxy:
Culture and biblical wise women are also ment to be homely.

No follower of Jesus Christ, male or female, will do what you claim since Jesus Christ Himself commanded His followers to abhor the teachings and traditions of men. So don't deceive yourself thinking scripture has anything to do with your traditions/cultures cause it doesn't.

Kobojunkie:
No follower of Jesus Christ, male or female, will do what you claim since Jesus Christ Himself commanded His followers to abhor the teachings and traditions of men. So don't deceive yourself thinking scripture has anything to do with your traditions/cultures cause it doesn't.

Nope Jesus and disciples followed Jewish traditions ASLONG as they were against God's word.

Stop trying to twist the truth.

jaxxy:
Nope Jesus and disciples followed Jewish traditions ASLONG as they were against God's word.

Stop trying to twist the truth.

What Jesus Christ instead followed was the National Constitution of the State of Israel aka the Law of Moses given by God to the people of Israel. These laws are not of the ideas and traditions of men but of God Himself. So try to pay close attention, will you?

Your cultures and traditions are of men, and not of God , and Jesus Christ warned His followers not fo follow after such in His name..

UyaiIncomparabl:


When I am not mad.

The man whose post is the bone of contention for this thread has his choice, you reacting to his post has your choice of a partner. But I tell you the probability of that guy meeting and marrying his choice is far higher than your probability of meeting and marrying your choice partner. It is even more likely that you will end up shifting ground

EMEKAodogwu1:

The man whose post is the bone of contention for this thread has his choice, you reacting to his post has your choice of a partner. But I tell you the probability of that guy meeting and marrying his choice is far higher than your probability of meeting and marrying your choice partner. It is even more likely that you will end up shifting ground

Compromise? Of course everyone does that. But, based on this? NEVER IN MY LIFETIME. He will meet his likes. You need to go out more often, though. So many better men.

Ishilove:

I wonder o. My mum will never allow my brothers' girlfriends to assist in chores because they are just girlfriends. They want to turn somebody's daughter to a housemaid.

Una go dey yarn as if Dem born una for Yankee

Anybody wey get sense suppose make life easier for the elderly, has nothing to do with being his mom.

Kobojunkie:
What Jesus Christ instead followed was the National Constitution of the State of Israel aka the Law of Moses given by God to the people of Israel. These laws are not of the ideas and traditions of men but of God Himself. So try to pay close attention, will you?

Your cultures and traditions are of men, and not of God , and Jesus Christ warned His followers not fo follow after such in His name..

Traditions of men doesn't mean culture it means lifestyle of the man or the world system.

Jews have a Tradition formed from laws of God bt God has changed those law and now they are mere jews Traditions which are still ok if not against the word of God in the new dispensation cos some have been discarded.

Same way others have their Traditions and any that goes against God's word should be discarded.