siofra:


Show me where I insulted you guys in my first mention

That was how you called the mods the other time I mentioned you in one harmless post.

You're always in the habit of using cuss words on me which I overlook most times. But, you will rush to call the mods when you're in the receiving end. You're a snake! Try to avoid me please.

Zonefree:

That was how you called the mods the other time I mentioned you in one harmless post.

You're always in the habit of using cuss words on me which I overlook most times. But, you will rush to call the mods when you're in the receiving end. You're a snake! Try to avoid me please.

Hei God!


See this man.

Ever since I came back from my last ban in March, show me on this forum where I have insulted Zonefree or that your other popular moniker I've forgotten.

Bring out the receipts, I'm ready to acknowledge my faults. If you can't (because I'm very sure I've not insulted you since my last ban) then you have no issue against me.

Yesterday or the day before, you swore on my left breast and expected me not to report you when I didn't even insult you


Mbanu!

You type rubbish, you collect!

Zonefree:

You and your fellow girls here are in the habit of calling my family members out here on many occasions but you don't see me report or call the Mods on anyone. I prefer to use the ignore button if I feel attacked unnecessarily.

So, to swear with your left breast is now an insult ? Breast that is not even big.

Don't mention or quote me if you can't take half of what your dish, please.

You're a very insincere person. I told you to show me where I insulted you and you're bringing up another thing.

My beef is with you. I have never reported you when you insult Nigerian girls I ignore but when you insult me directly, that's the only time I report.

So because the breast is not big, that's why it's okay to cybersexually harass me. I swear this you people's mentality ehn, very disgusting!

I'll continue mentioning you when you type rubbish.

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone,so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now,no issues
He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad,that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff,that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue
Cos if it comes from me,then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??


Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something,I didn’t know him well enough

swear that you have been faithful all those years. Abeg anty, move on

He's right, has they say "truth is bitter" omo go get a life instead to look from where to Leach on

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone,so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now,no issues
He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad,that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff,that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue
Cos if it comes from me,then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??


Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something,I didn’t know him well enough

siofra:


You're a very insincere person. I told you to show me where I insulted you and you're bringing up another thing.

My beef is with you. I have never reported you when you insult Nigerian girls I ignore but when you insult me directly, that's the only time I report.

So because the breast is not big, that's why it's okay to cybersexually harass me. I swear this you people's mentality ehn, very disgusting!

I'll continue mentioning you when you type rubbish.

You don't expect me to start digging posts searching for where you insulted yourself.

I got no beef with anyone including you. I insult no one, rather, I say things without minding who suffers it. That's me.

Breast is part of the body, why do you feel offended when I mentioned your left breast? Will you be offended if I mention your eyes or nose?

I got a lengthy ban cos of you and I wouldn't want you to mention or tag me if you're not ready to take what you dish. Thank you

Chatinent, someone and one in one leitmotif is always a hit back to back

Zonefree:

You don't expect me to start digging posts searching for where you insulted yourself.

I got no beef with anyone including you. I insult no one, rather, I say things without minding who suffers it. That's me.

Breast is part of the body, why do you feel offended when I mentioned your left breast? Will you be offended if I mention your eyes or nose?

I got a lengthy ban cos of you and I wouldn't want you to mention or tag me if you're not ready to take what you dish. Thank you

Ehyaaaa no wonder! You dey fear ban like this and you still get mind to dey talk anyhow.

You won't find any of you dig because I haven't insulted you since March.

Even if you insult any other part of my body, I'll still report you.

Meanwhile, the breast is a sexualized organ, so you mentioning it like that is cybersexual harassment.

I'll keep mentioning and reporting you when you type rubbish. Get ready.

Nairalanders with bad mouth.

I hope the Op has the mental fortitude to withstand all these thrashing.

siofra:





Ehyaaaa no wonder! You dey fear ban like this and you still get mind to dey talk anyhow.

You won't find any of you dig because I haven't insulted you since March.

Even if you insult any other part of my body, I'll still report you.

Meanwhile, the breast is a sexualized organ, so you mentioning it like that is cybersexual harassment.

I'll keep mentioning and reporting you when you type rubbish. Get ready.

Please unfollow me immediately.

Zonefree:

Please unfollow me immediately.

Mehn...stop behaving cowardly, when she speaks bad against you.

Report her to the Mod ASAP...she will get the appropriate banning and never insult you again.

Zonefree:

Please unfollow me immediately.

No.

Anytime you insult a female nairalander, I'll see it and report.

When d guy was ready, u aren't ready then but now u are ready and the guy is not ready.
Finai, Satan use u play and unfortunately no goal goal.

Fira09:


Mehn...stop behaving cowardly, when she speaks bad against you.

Report her to the Mod ASAP...she will get the appropriate banning and never insult you again.

I'd rather deactivate than to report anyone. That's cowardice.

Besides, most of the Mods here are feminists and SIMPs. To report a female here is meaningless.

Did you introduce him to #Land? Maybe Ubunja don feed am with too much red pills.

Anyway, you should know it's high time you gave the r/ship less attention.

Zonefree:

I'd rather deactivate than to report anyone. That's cowardice.

Besides, most of the Mods here are feminists and SIMPs. To report a female here is meaningless.

OKAY... your side of it though.

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.

The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.

So which one is I want to use him to travel now??

I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??

Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough.

It might be best you end the relationship if he is unyielding. You can't needlessly put your life on hold because of him.

Another reason why he isn't desperate is that he has someone taking care of his sexual needs. If there wasn't any, he'll be keen to tie the knot rather than commit immorality. I'm not an advocate long-term long distance relationships in marraige.

Okay

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.

The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.

So which one is I want to use him to travel now??

I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??

Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough.

You think you're deceiving anyone here?

All of a sudden you now want marriage abi?

If the guy decides to come back and base in Naija, will you still want the marriage?

chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.

You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.

Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.

Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?

I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.


Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.


I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.


NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:

You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!

Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.

You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?

A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.

To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.

If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.

Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.

Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.


Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.



Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.

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chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.

You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.

Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.

Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?

I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.


Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.


I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.


NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:

You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!

Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.

You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?

A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.

To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.

If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.

Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.

Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.


Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.



Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.

What rubbish is this one typing?

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone, so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now, no issues. He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria.

The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down.
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad, that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough.

So which one is I want to use him to travel now??

I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff, that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling.

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue. Cos if it comes from me, then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??

Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship.
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something, I didn’t know him well enough.

Marry a serious man my dear. Nothing is special about USA! You too can travel without him. See, if he is not serious, marry another man who loves you and wants to settle down with u. Working class only. Hope u too get a job sha? If not, forget marriage and look for job.

OP next time don't bring this type of issues to NL you can see the childish comments you are getting. Most people here are not even up to 25years what do they know?

He may not have qualms marrying you if you're both in naija, but naija marriage is not american marriage.. too much power to the wife in marriage abroad... Maybe that's his fear... I mean concern. now paul of p- square's wife wants to sue him abroad for good money. Because she has relocated to the u.s. and all those stupid oyinbo lawyers are telling her that she can get a lot of money from her husband's Infidelity.

Hahaha! 3 months is not enough for you. But 2 years plus is enough for you to settle down. Just say you raised the question when you realize that you are not getting younger. .

It's not his fault at all. Since after 3 months of dating you refused his proposal because you think of him as a rapist and a serial killer, he also will think of you pushing a proposal at this time after 2 years delay as an opportunity to jaapa.

Kollins11:
Your boyfriend is a real nigga. He knows you're a cheap girl and you don't have value just like ₦5.

You're talking as if you're a faithful girlfriend... Why can't you go settle down with Kunle that stays in Ikorodu? or Kareem that stays in Mushin?

Wait... If the guy was in Nigeria will you date him?? Because he stays abroad you wanna force him to come settle down with a "thing" like you.

Madam, go and marry that guy who stays in Ajegunle that has been disturbing you.. And leave that America dude alone.

Worthless wh*res everywhere.

Bro, that was harsh

If ur intention are clear and u feel like u didn't offend him, give him time to think, stop bothering him for now.

If he refused to reply to ur thought, or make make move to speak with u about his thoughts

U re free to take another step

In everything u do back it up with prayers
Life is once

Abroad no means say him go get money many rich guys or people that will be rich tomorrow full Nigeria.
Many are poor there but u won't know

chatinent:
Uncle met you. He said he wanted to marry you within four months while in Nigeria.

You said no. You said it was too early. You said you needed to know him better. You didn't even give him a timeframe as to when you think it's possible. No wahala.

Uncle travelled oversea. Some 24 months later, you are feeling insecure about what he'll be doing with ladies there and wants to settle down. Uncle is pissed off because he feels he had asked you before the abroad plan and you rejected because you wanted to seek God's info, but now he is abroad, you are certain he relocated from one estate in heaven.

Hanty, so you no know say man wey tell you e wan marry after three months of dating has no time for the long dating waiting process...and fit don marry within two years?

I know you didn't want to agree then so you wouldn't look cheap or desperate, but how can you look cheap then! No bi him suggest am? No bi him meet you? Una Naija girls tho. If you no fit marry am you tell the person, no bi say it's too early. It's too early for marriage but not too early for dating for two years? Na diploma? Na this same “I don't want to look cheap and desperate” don make Bisola turn 49 and all her prayer points don bi “God when.” Of course, because society has time to remember every lady out there unmarried and getting overripe.


Person propose to you, you reject am. How dare you propose now? You get mind o.


I no dey force you into marriage but if you mah know say he is marriageable, by now una for don marry with kids, probably with him overseas.


NOW, THAT'S YOUR OWN STORY. HERE'S WHAT I THINK HAPPENED:

You didn't want to marry him while in Nigeria because he seemed broke to you!

Na as you hear US later, oil begin commot your body.

You ladies are funny sometimes. You need revelation from God for six months to know if a not too wealthy guy is for you but a rich man is the answered prayer and your opportunity comes but once...and you feel the rich guy has no common sense? You feel he doesn't feel he is doing you a favour?

A lady who says she is not ready for marriage then that is now disturbing for marriage is actually inviting sb to use and dump her. If you say you aren't ready for marriage then, keep quiet until he asks again. Repeatedly saying it is suspicious abeg.

To me, dating is for marriage straight-up. Since I don't cheat, I no get time to come dey share girlfriend with dick-hungry Nigerian wild guys. Now imagine the girl disagreed and I come travel from that location she come dey yarn okoto later. No nah.

If you wanted to end it, you would have...na the abroad string wey dey make am difficult for you.

Believe me, if the true story is that you rejected his advances while in Nigeria but are now eager for marriage while he is abroad, you have been dating yourself....and will continue to be used by him...yet the one thing about you that will relocate abroad will be your imagination.

Uncle is now woke and has realized that after all, you aren't bringing anything to the table. I know you'll say you are the table. Well, you don't have table manners.


Please break up with him.
I have no option for peace.



Sorry, I don't mince words.
Have a nice century.

Did u see where she wrote he has been a us citizen frm d beginning of relationship