ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

I wont lie to you,I didnt propose. It didnt occur to me that I should propose before I marry. Now she is with kids.
No be matter of propose,na matter of readiness to take responsibility. Prepare yourself for second half of your life.

jeromestarks:

What!

think am joking right?

Just take a stroll there.

You never go service? When you go you will will understand that 99.9% Nigerian girls are olosho,that is why a man will say, I want to tie the nut or I want to get married.but a girl will say, I need a good husband(man that is loaded financially) or they will say, I want to settle down this year which means they have been fuuucking around all this while.

Boyfriend use ordinary indomine and egg divirgin person future wife. It is well.

You wey want come chop left over go come receive bill of N500000-and above.

Mean while na boyfriend chop the hymen ooo.




Life no balance at all.

Wishing you the best brother.
But look before you leap

It's not really about being ready to propose, but about having the necessary emotional maturity to handle what marriage entails; if he is sure of that, then no special advice is needed.

Does She Have Any Other Rings?

You Can Use One Of Them To Compare.

Or Size Your Fingers With Hers It's A Coded Way To See If Any Of Your Fingers Are Closely Related In Shape & Size As Her Ring Finger.

Or

Measure It At Night When She's Asleep. Use A Thread.

jeromestarks:

Ok ooo.
Trust me on this. You will try your best to make this marriage work. You will sacrifice a lot. You will give your all in all. But in the end, you will be deeply hurt, you will cry and you will soil yourself in despondency.
I give you two years mate. Just two year! You will wish you didn't.

Chai! You no well

Make sure you don't do it in public, so we don't watch you on social media entertaining us.
Do it in private and all the best.

ibinaboonline:
In case you guys are all serious about this Nigerian women thing and virgin thing, have you ever considered that a woman you married as a virgin can still step out on you after you're married? So you'all think women are better overseas or what? Godly people build godly homes, period. The weeping and regrets you'all harp about is in the homes of the ungodly.

Don't mind them, they are all void of counsel.

Abeg @ ibinaboonline do not mind these bitter guys ooo.. you know sometimes I just laugh at the way Nlanders make it seem as if marriage for a guy is an evil thing simply because they lack knowledge on how to build a good home...
Yes I agree most girls and ladies of nowadays are nothing to write home about but even in the midst of bad there is good and op if you've found a gem in your woman congratulations to you.
As for the ring part look for the closest female in her life who can keep a secret to help you out.

Don't mind the comments from these spoiled morons whose lives are worthless and always dissing ladies. They've never been loved in their lives, not even by their mothers. Best is you find her close friend and tell her to keep it a secret, her friend can actually get her ring size for you, it's just a matter of she testing out fashion rings with her without raising suspicions. That's what I did when I proposed.

ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

Eileene:
Abeg @ ibinaboonline do not mind these bitter guys online.. you know sometimes I just laugh at the way Nlanders make it seem as if marriage for a guy is an evil thing simply because they lack knowledge on how to build a good home...
Yes I agree most girls and ladies of nowadays are nothing to write home about but even in the midst of bad there is good and op if you've found a gem in your woman congratulations to you.
As for the ring part look for the closest female in her life who can keep a secret to help you out.

Of course...which other statement will I expect from a gender that marriage benefits...we are telling him to avoid jumping inside fire but what what do we know now...my dear you're not a man...it is of more risk to us to get married

Beebah2000:
People just dey marry ooo, make I go propose to my boyfriend.

You never marry?

jeromestarks:
Don't do it. You will regret it.
Your best bet is to impregnate and keep her at home; this way, she won't misbehave.
Quick question, is she a virgin?

This young men here are pained

ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

OP don't mind those pained young men. Go for it

jeromestarks:

You don't stand on the highway and pray that car should not hit you (what do you have brain for?).
Sometimes, it's too late to pray!
If he moves on with his plan to marry that girl without doing proper research, he will wish he didn't; that time, it will be too late to pray.

He sought for advice on ring size and not this gibberish!

Are u mad or wat? Upon all your wailing. Hundreds of marriage ceremonies are conducted every Saturday. Take ur bitterness away. Is it ur marriage? Wen u give birth, may ur daughters remain unmarried for life. I speak into ur life. No man will look the way of all ur daughters

Nyascobar1414:


A woman you married a virgin can still cheat on you, yea, thats for sure... AWALT.... You dont own her puc.ci. You will never own it..

But, the stup!d!ty comes, when a sane man stay committed to a non virgin..
The stup!d!ty comes, when you pay a bride price for a girl that was probably fvked with 2k or Indomie and egg.. I mean why should you pay a bride price of about 500k addition with wedding programmes and everything which I hope will cost you upto a million naira or 800k...

Her ex boyfriends fvked and dumped her.. Why should you be Ignorant to fvk and keep her.. That's where the stup!d!ty comes..

Mr.man Know your worth..

Females standard has never changed, they will always look for men who can provide for them and their children; why should men standards change from marrying virgns(our fathers) to marrying ex repented h0.e.s


She wasted her BEST years with bad guys, she is giving her REST years to you..


You literally wanna BUY the cow when The Milk is FREE

Go for the best cos you deserve the best...


Shaa your life your choice.. If you wanna settle down with a non virgin...

Then I'll let you learn the consequences of being a SIMP..

Are you married, have you ever been married or attained age requirement or success level to marry? Raised by a single parent or come from a broken home hence the unsolicited advice? Answer those pertinent questions before we take you serious.

Rayban25:


Of course...which other statement will I expect from a gender that marriage benefits...we are telling him to avoid jumping inside fire but what what do we know now...my dear you're not a man...it is of more risk to us to get married

Are u mad or wat? Upon all your wailing. Hundreds of marriage ceremonies are conducted every Saturday. Take ur bitterness away. Is it ur marriage? Wen u give birth, may ur daughters remain unmarried for life. I speak into ur life. No man will look the way of all ur daughter

Rayban25:


Of course...which other statement will I expect from a gender that marriage benefits...we are telling him to avoid jumping inside fire but what what do we know now...my dear you're not a man...it is of more risk to us to get married

silibaba:
think am joking right?

Just take a stroll there.

You never go service? When you go you will will understand that 99.9% Nigerian girls are olosho,that is why a man will say, I want to tie the but or I want to get married.but a girl will say, I need a good husband(man that is loaded financially) or they will say, I want to settle down this year which means they have been fuuucking around all this while.

Boyfriend use ordinary indomine and egg divirgin person future wife. It is well.

You wey want come chop left over go come receive bill of N500000-and above.

Mean while na boyfriend chop the hymen ooo.




Life no balance at all.

A friend just confirmed what you said to me.
Only a fool will marry a non virgin.

OutOnBail:
Are you married, have you ever been married or attained age requirement or success level to marry? Raised by a single parent or come from a broken home hence the unsolicited advice? Answer those pertinent questions before we take you serious.

That is the problem...do you need to be married before you can see that the cost outweighs the benefits?...ask a 20 year old boy if he would be eager to wed ladies of this generation that are not chaste and let him give you his answer.

Tamilore11:
Are u mad or wat? Upon all your wailing. Hundreds of marriage ceremonies are conducted every Saturday. Take ur bitterness away. Is it ur marriage? Wen u give birth, may ur daughters remain unmarried for life. I speak into ur life. No man will look the way of all ur daughter

No be me chop your noodles oo...go and cry somewhere else

Nyascobar1414:


A woman you married a virgin can still cheat on you, yea, thats for sure... AWALT.... You dont own her puc.ci. You will never own it..

But, the stup!d!ty comes, when a sane man stay committed to a non virgin..
The stup!d!ty comes, when you pay a bride price for a girl that was probably fvked with 2k or Indomie and egg.. I mean why should you pay a bride price of about 500k addition with wedding programmes and everything which I hope will cost you upto a million naira or 800k...

Her ex boyfriends fvked and dumped her.. Why should you be Ignorant to fvk and keep her.. That's where the stup!d!ty comes..

Mr.man Know your worth..

Females standard has never changed, they will always look for men who can provide for them and their children; why should men standards change from marrying virgns(our fathers) to marrying ex repented h0.e.s


She wasted her BEST years with bad guys, she is giving her REST years to you..


You literally wanna BUY the cow when The Milk is FREE

Go for the best cos you deserve the best...


Shaa your life your choice.. If you wanna settle down with a non virgin...

Then I'll let you learn the consequences of being a SIMP..

Best post of the day.

Quick question, is she a virgin?
Violent question. Question that gives Nigerian girls nightmare.

AyeMoJuba:


Best post of the day.

Guys dey para ooo....

vicksbaba:
Hello OP, how do you do? I have read the entire thread and I totally understand the angle you're coming. You're in love, you have made the decision to get married, you're about to pop the question.

First ,I'll start by answering your question;
You can-
1) Ask her directly
2) Tell her female friend or sister your intention; they'll come up with a very good plan independently, and they'll get you her ring size
3) Take her out on shopping to the place where you want to purchase the ring; let her select the one she likes.. then propose to her

Next; when different anonymous people are saying things that are gearing towards a similar conclusion, it means the universe is trying to tell you something... Take a pause, re-evaluate, and try to see sense in what they're saying without being blinded by emotions. Also, follow John doe on twitter... He talks about things most men wish they knew before entering into marriage based on real life experiences.


My 2 cents

Any man that follows and digests what that guy churns out is either a dunce, cannot think independently, a wasted element or all of the aforementioned. If a man has to follow misleading teachings from another man in the name of nuggets, then he's probably not fit to be a man in the first place. You guys should try to take a rest. Let this guy enjoy his marriage.

ibinaboonline:
I'm ready to pop the question soon. My question is, how do you'all codedly, abi sharply find out your bebe's finger size in order to get her a ring that fits? I'd ask her but I want it to be a surprise. Men and women of experience, help a newbie out

Buy a ring for your small finger. Then wear it on your finger in her presence, then playfully try it on her ring finger and see the fit. If it's too small, you know to buy a size bigger or two sizes bigger or if it's too loose, you buy a size less or you may be lucky and it would be perfect fit.

If she wears rings, better for you, steal one and take to a ring shop for measurements.

You can buy her an affordable jewelry set: necklace, earrings and ring. Make sure it contains a ring. You can check the fitting and know what size to buy for engagement.

Remember to tell the shop where you buy the engagement ring that you will come and exchange it if it doesn't fit.

I dnt knw how ring stuffs work. But here's my input

Once u wanna do it, do not f*cking kneel.

I repeat, do not f*cking kneel.
That sh*t is a borrowed culture.

Be creative in doing it. So many creative ways are available depending on ur kinda woman.


Finally. Incase she says NO.
No stress, No vex. Just get ursef a plate of catfish(head preferably) and support with 2 big odeku. Incase u don't do alcohol, then do whatever u normally do to stay sane.

EXPECT DISAPPOINTMENT AND U WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED.

FINITO

I don't need to ask a minor or inexperienced person such advice. You have probably been asking minors like yourself such questions but I also believe a lot of 20 year old are more sensible than this and would never think so low like that

Rayban25:


That is the problem...do you need to be married before you can see that the cost outweighs the benefits?...ask a 20 year old boy if he would be eager to wed ladies of this generation that are not chaste and let him give you his answer.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Any man that follows and digests what that guy churns out is either a dunce, cannot think independently, a wasted element or all the aforementioned. If a man has to follow misleading teachings from another man in the name of nuggets, then he's probably not fit to be a man in the first place. You guys should try to take a rest. Let this guy enjoy his marriage.

OutOnBail:
I don't need to ask a minor or inexperienced person such advice. You have probably been asking minors like yourself such questions but I also believe a lot of 20 year old are more sensible than this and would never think so low like that

The gibberish you typed up there shows you're not living in the reality of what is going on now...by the way why am I responding to a cowardly female hiding behind a male account to sound like shes making sense?..abeg shift

Kinda easy. When she's asleep, use normal sewing thread to measure d finger.

virginprincess:
Stop proposing to nigeria women they are all useless-says a broke and frustrated redpiller . Op,congratulations in addy,hope she accepts.

Stop talking like a fool, but you will want your sister (if you have) or daughters to get married abi. The ladies you are calling useless are people's sisters, daughters, cousins and relations for your information. So keep your sadist to yourself and allow those that want to marry in peace.