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Kobojunkie:
He will get peace by proving to himself that he is no different from the girl? What kind of reasoning is that one abeg?

This kind of "attachment" described here by the OP is instead intended to reveal to him that he has some deep psychological chains he needs to break within himself and until he does that, he will only keep finding himself in these messed-up situations where he is having to stomach what he obviously abhors for the sake of it.

Anyone who finds themselves dealing with relationships in a similar manner as OP needs what is serious mental intervention and fast. And none of that simping/redpill nonsense you lot like to drone on about all day in here.

Profperfect:
Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Sucre6:
Op is like you just wantu die before your time, that girl is your end if you dont let her go, just stop picking her calls or replying to her text, she will eventually leave u, imagine you passing through all these crap because of just one pvssy, when pvssy full everywhere, u want die put for one bitchhh, sorry for you op, your simping is on another level

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong . guy you know wise oooo...you beta go look for another lady

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Kobojunkie:
What exactly are you here for us to help you out with?

You claim you endured all of the above for 6 years with her, why? For whose sake did you do all these things you now want us to believe you hate? And why are you bringing it all up as an issue list against her if you remain with her? And as for her relationship with her boss, or whatever the story you are telling self... are you saying you want to share her with the man then?

I put it to you that the girl isn't the problem. You seem to be the problem here as you don't seem to know what it is you really want at all.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all,I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness , but believe me , the girl am dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues , disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her , she always over rides me , I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting(countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel , should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni , i respect her even in her absence, but she has had mingles with different guys that has cost out relationship , in all these she calims she has done nothing wrong .

The main issue of all right now is that , her boss she once worked for , who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around , always , hotel ,even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together , knowing that he is a married man ,called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back , even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her , during and after NYSc he kept calling her for him to have a bite , same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him , though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self , but I won't like to share here how I got to know . The same man she has been avoiding for years , that she don't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer , then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it , was shocked and trying to reason why she did that , she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision , she began to yell at me on phone , as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now


Please help me push it to the front page , she is a nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does . Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.