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Re: I Just Need A Family by StPete: 9:36am On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
you are the only useless thing here who must comments on a post you knows nothing about

Go and buy sense mugu

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Re: I Just Need A Family by udede(m): 9:43am On Aug 13, 2022
StPete:


Go and buy sense mugu
nkakwu

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Re: I Just Need A Family by StPete: 10:39am On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
nkakwu

Amuokogwa
Re: I Just Need A Family by Chidi2022: 12:56pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
hmmmm people should comment on what they know
If you used this energy on your tormentor of a wife, you will not be here looking for a peaceful polygamy.... halfman...

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Re: I Just Need A Family by EgwunsoDOTcom: 7:13pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

If you are ok with the arrengment don't waste time to reach me.

My contact line is on my DP
Your wife has lost her womb through abortion and she doesn't want you to find out.. You be real mugu indeed. grin

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Ishilove: 7:47pm On Aug 13, 2022
Richy4:


@ red highlights, It never crossed my mind too until I was exposed to the reality of life... I never even knew that a man might decide not to get married in this world except the Reverend fathers but yeah..it happens...

Maybe an open and honest conversation could be the solutions this time around... Put all cards on the table while discussing...At least she should meet you half way.. is she opened to surrogacy,.. is she gonna be ok for you to have a baby Mama, or is she opened for a second wife options...

Both of you loved each other... she doesn't want kids, u want kids.. so there should be compromise... meeting each other half way is the deal... 50:50 sad
Which open and honest conversation are they going to have again after 10years of marriage? undecided

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Webgraphicvideo: 8:13pm On Aug 13, 2022
How?
Re: I Just Need A Family by Upworkwriter007(f): 8:14pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)
She can't give birth. Forget story. Motherly instinct makes every woman want kids.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by HEBEI: 8:14pm On Aug 13, 2022
Bia Onye Anambra, since she has consented to your plan to marry a second wife and she is a wife material that can not hurt a fly, you have not reason coming here to get justification for your polygamous desire.

She may be aware of the reasons she can't conceive, but she is not stopping you from getting your desired children from a second wife.

Meanwhile, does she know of a medical procedure called "IVF"

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Re: I Just Need A Family by lexy2014: 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
Zonefree:

Divorce your Church too.
grin
Re: I Just Need A Family by dododawa1: 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
Fake story

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Nobody: 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
Dump her immediately and go after a younger woman please any woman who is not committed to your agenda should not be in your life . If she doesn’t want what you want you shouldn’t be giving her space in your life at all

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Re: I Just Need A Family by lereinter(m): 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
10 yrs and no medical intervention

Incredible

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Re: I Just Need A Family by seunak2016: 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.
she no get womb again

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Re: I Just Need A Family by omooba969(m): 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022
Did you marry for the purpose of having kids?

Why always men from Anambra? grin

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Komu1048(m): 8:17pm On Aug 13, 2022
Richy4:

Sorry to ask.. but what were u people discussing during courtship...I believe there are times that u said I will like you to be the mother of my kids.. what do you think we should call our first kids etc.. what was her reactions?..I believe both of you were not on the same page before you tie the knot..


Oga no b every body dey ask that kind question. I dated my wife for 6 years b4 tying the knot. Na 2wks ago we come talk about having kids

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Jefferyhi86(m): 8:17pm On Aug 13, 2022
Seem ur wife doesn't av a womb, just get someone pregnant and see her reaction, there are things one no longer stress himself about over relationships couple with the country situation currently.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Honestfrend: 8:17pm On Aug 13, 2022
grin
Zonefree:

Divorce your Church too.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by CSTRR: 8:18pm On Aug 13, 2022
You absolutely need a second wife, and no one will begrudge you.

The aim of marriage is companionship and procreation.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by BadNews: 8:18pm On Aug 13, 2022
Nawa o
Re: I Just Need A Family by BadNews: 8:19pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

How Many Child Do You Really Want?
Re: I Just Need A Family by Connected1: 8:19pm On Aug 13, 2022
Omo

People get problem oh.

Divorce her abeg, don't discuss anything abeg, there are too many cobwebs in her cupboard.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by Ishilove: 8:20pm On Aug 13, 2022
Anambra men though

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Re: I Just Need A Family by CSTRR: 8:20pm On Aug 13, 2022
Komu1048:


Oga no b every body dey ask that kind question. I dated my wife for 6 years b4 tying the knot. Na 2wks ago we come talk about having kids
Then what have you people been discussing?

There is no way you can date for 6years with someone you hope to marry and not even talk about having kids.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by ImoleNaija: 8:20pm On Aug 13, 2022
I dey smell wahala for any girl wey sign for your rescue mission.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by micflo28(m): 8:21pm On Aug 13, 2022
If your sperm is healthy and you have tried to impregnate and failed. Breaking news, your wife is wombless. Take her to see your pastor.

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Re: I Just Need A Family by omooba969(m): 8:21pm On Aug 13, 2022
Upworkwriter007:
She can't give birth. Forget story. Motherly instinct makes every woman want kids.

It's obvious you haven't travelled far and wide. grin

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Re: I Just Need A Family by pussyeater(m): 8:22pm On Aug 13, 2022
udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)
Wait oh! Are you married to a man? Note the bolded undecided

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