saysugar:
best u can do is to do what she do, she is trying to express herself to u indirectly,do u think she's hiding it from you? She is intentionally doing that to correct ur wrong, when next you caught her with vibrator again,u Shud also bring out ur prick and masturbate in her presence, continue masturbate in her presence,u will see whatsup

Which kind mumu thinking be this ...kai

hary4luv:
My brother,I will give you this advice as a brother and as a friend even though I don’t know you. Your wife is sending a clear message to you, the best way to respond is to have a heart to heart talk with that woman to resolve any underlying issues. Judging by your explanation she used the vibrator knowing fully well you will find out, it’s an indirect message to you and you need to be a man about it and resolve the underlying issues. The days you rejected her and made her feel less of a woman has not been forgotten, it could be the reason why she chose to respond in that way so you can feel what it is like to be rejected. Please save your marriage from danger. I wish you the very best bro.

What

jimmychang:



Which kind mumu thinking be this ...kai

Only if you know how it works

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

that you last sentence for me

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

In as much you have a valid point , not all men can control their sexual urges , the best for him is to open up to his wife and know what exactly the problem is.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Your wife is either a chronic masturbator or you are not sexually attractive to your wife which also translate to these optionsb A LESBIAN OR CHEATING ON YOU and she has the guts to use it on the same bed with you while you guys were sleeping.Nawaoooo!!!!


You didn't notice this when you were dating?


And also I don't want to bring Cheating into it.....even a chronic masturbator will still bang you but will satisfy herself later with vibrator.The part that she doesn't allow you to touch her is the problem....baba check your wife well abi she is a LESBIAN.

Kobicove:
So you competitor is a vibrator...and so far it's winning

Which vibrator?
His competitor na Leeds United

[quote author=baralatie post=115921306]
You don call a whole pesin "a mad pesin o"
Wetin she do oo[ She dey give am to non living entity while sleeping besides human. If she didn't enjoy you let her speak to you. I can help you through herbs.]

I bet you've never made your wife squirt before.

You can't make a woman squirt like 2 to 3times during sex and she will cheat on you.

Find the vibrator and hide it.
Watch her reaction.

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

lol it’s the last sentence for me ..Abeg reject food Biko

bepositive11:
Stop taking it personally. Stop seeing it as she's choosing a vibrator over you. In fact, help her with that vibrator and enjoy with her.

It's old school men who see intimacy gadgets as competitors. Modern men enjoy them with their partners.

I get you are trying to be what your moniker means, but did you read this pathetic story at all? Your wife denies you sex for a month, and even worse on one of the nights you got denied your conjugal rights, she goes on to use a vibrator lying right next to you. To make matters worse, op is whining about how he is hurt and wants to pack out and be sending money for upkeep. Awon okunrin wa o jina mo o (our men are turning to the weaker vessels, it seems). A matter that you should have confronted the issue there and then, and her response(s) will let you know what to do next, this bros is her capping about being pained and confused. If you confronted her immediately you were dished that sort of disrespect, you will die abi? You think the solution is leaving your own apartment and sending money..money man. Damn! O GA oo!

[quote author=Babastrong post=115921508][/quote]


The husband was the one that rejected the wife first oo
He was the one deny the wife o

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

So within that 3months period how do you suggest he takes care of himself.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

if na me I for no allow enjoy herself having denied me, my own enjoyment.

Rubbish advise bro,The marriage is over already that petty advice will breed deceit nothing moreRubbish advise bro,The marriage is over already that petty advice will breed deceit nothing more...

Treadway:
I get you are trying to be what your moniker means, but did you read this pathetic story at all? Your wife denies you sex for a month, and even worse on one of the nights you got denied your conjugal rights, she goes on to use a vibrator lying right next to you. To make matters worse, op is whining about how he is hurt and wants to pack out and be sending money for upkeep. Awon okunrin wa o jina mo o (our men are turning to the weaker vessels, it seems). A matter that you should have confronted the issue there and then, and her response(s) will let you know what to do next, this bros is her capping about being pained and confused. If you confronted her immediately you were dished that sort of disrespect, you will die abi? You think the solution is leaving your own apartment and sending money..money man. Damn! O GA oo!

So she is using vibrator has turned to disrespect?
When she was turned down...it is not disrespect bah

She is cheating on you.

Send her back to her father's house. Let her go and marry her vibrator.

[quote author=Adetayo41 post=115916418]

I am considering this, because I spend my whole time taking care of them and my twins baby, what did she need, what if she have been sleeping with men[/quotes]

Forgive her please

I come in peace �️�️ one love

Nonexisting:
She used vibrator and was moaning on the same bed you were in. Your wife get mind and can kill you any time. I may forgive her but I will not forgive that disrespect of fuccking machine on the same bed with me.

As in she no hide to use am ...like the disrespect. Most women who use vibrators don't let their husband know.

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

The bolded enter class die

deavicky:
if na me I for no allow enjoy herself having denied me, my own enjoyment.

Remember she was denied first?

membranus:
She is cheating on you.

Send her back to her father's house. Let her go and marry her vibrator.

So how to you lay the charge against her
You are Herby divorcing her because she was caught using vibrator by herself

tayo60:
Instead of acting as if you didn't know, why not ask her why she's denying you sex but uses vibrator instead? Let her know you saw her using it, and don't sleep or ask her for sex again. Satisfy yourself elsewhere, let it pepper her until she apologises.

I think this is the best response, if I were you I will stick to this advise.

LollySeaSide:

You did as if you were sleeping and you come here to disturb us abi?
Why didn't you confront her to know why she prefers a vibrator to you?
Isn't it obvious that you don't make her vibrate?

As in he didn't confront her.I will tell her to do it elsewhere not on the bed we are both laying on.Which kind see finish be that.

Yomit71:
Is she mourning while at it

Moaning

Godfullsam:


Sorry this trick will note work at this stage o. It can only work for women who do not have an alternative.

This woman already has an alternative means of satisfying her bedmatic needs with a vibratory.

If the husband should act the way you suggested by giving the wife an impression that he is getting it outside.

The wife will definitely up grade to lesbianism. Mind you, larger percentage of women who are exposed self pleasure objects are lesbians. Don't ask me how I take know o.

I think the best thing to do is to sit her down and talk to her.

Exactly, his wife fit don turn lesbian...you are not lying.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Tayo, lo ra agbo jędi to daju.

Usainbolt138:


I think this is the best response, if I were you I will stick to this advise.

How does having sex outside solve the problem

Imjustagirl:



What if you're not satisfying her. Ask yourself this question. Look for how to improve your sexual prowess. Look for a counselor or get books. Also talk to her and ask her what she wants. How you can satisfy her better.

Hopefully you're both close enough to be able to discuss these things. But marriages these days, strangers sleeping on the same bed. Smh

Or get a mediator. Someone close to her that she can open up to. You should know what works best for your marriage.

Seriously the number of men that can't satisfy their wives is much. A lot of women are dying in silence. Afraid to talk so the men won't say they are loose

Please work on the sex you're giving her. I'm sure that's the problem

His wife is a sex addict simple.NOTHING LIKE HE IS NOY SATISFYING HER

I cannot believe guys dey para because of vibrator
This is hilarious

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

I agree 100% with u pls most married men only satisfy there self and leave there wife sexualy staffed. Pls check ur self and see if u are satisfying her if not work on that.